I get so tired of being labelled. All women are this and all women are that. Well here's what's up...

I wish I had an excuse I could use for every failed attempt at a relationship like men seem to have. It's getting old. You, sir, need new material.

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I am happy to say that I am on my way to a more content, beautiful, and happy life. And all of it is because of me and my love, that I show myself every day. All talk and no action will get you nowhere with me.

You know, I've been sitting on a lot of things lately. I've written 2 books, I started a blog, I've had this Podcast for the last 2 plus years... But it seems I'm only making money for other people. I put it in the hard work and somebody else gets rich. Well, this is the year, I say, it's time to get paid! Why should I limit myself? Why should I reap the benefits from all the hard work that I put in? No, it's not selfish. No, I'm not greedy. I just want to start taking care of myself. It's time for me. Please subscribe if you agree. I'm a poet and I don't know it...

It's been a month since I started the process of starting over, and I'm not so stressed anymore. It's been a loooong month of physical exertion and mental and emotional breakdowns. But the warmer days, mixed with sunshine has helped me feel more blessed and thankful. I have plans for the future and it feels wonderful!

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Let's see how many chances I can fuck up my life and dig myself out of a hole I dug for myself. Here I go again trying to gain back my life after I willingly let someone else try to destroy it. I hope you learn from this Podcast not to ever, ever, ever go back. I don't care what they promise you... they are lying and sooner than later you will have to escape and start over again. Don't put yourself through it. You will always be better off alone than with someone determined to make your life miserable. 💯 Please consider subscribing to my podcast for future upcoming episodes. 😊

This has been a year and a 1/2...let me tell you. It seems like it snowballed out of control 4 months ago and has not let up since. But I kept going and I'm glad I did. No matter what life throws at you always remember that tomorrow will be completely different. And if you just keep going sooner or later the clouds will clear and you will feel the warmth of the sun once again. Good riddance 2022! You have put me in my place and I have learned from my mistakes. You were a lesson and now it's time to move on to better things.

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I just thought I'd give you a heads up on what I've been up to for the past several months. I fell back into my rut expecting things to be different. I gave what I knew would be horrible another chance. Trust your instincts. No matter how many times you want things to work out, sometimes they are just not meant to and you need to just walk away and let it go. We've all made mistakes like this. And it's hard starting over, but somehow we remember how and move on.

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Have you ever heard the phrase "opposites attract"? Although true, they never really last long in a relationship. I feel success comes in surrounding yourself with like-minded people with whom you have something in common. How do you expect to get where you want to be, surrounded by people too afraid to take the steps to better themselves? We sit around and listen to them complain and b**** about their lives, yet they do nothing to better it. They blame other people for their current situations. They argue their case daily. They gossip and spread slander about those they are jealous of. We need to start thinking with our heads. We need to educate ourselves. We need to put the work in and stop thinking it's magically going to land in our lap one day. Stop bitching and start doing.

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