The Answers

The Answers

By Jeanette VinbergReligion & SpiritualityEducationSelf-Improvement
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The Answers episodes

  • 74. Why you chase relief instead of reading the data

    Why You Chase Relief Instead of Reading the Data


    The wound in you does not want data. It wants relief.

    That is why you send the text. Check the chat. Wait for the crumb. Look for another sign.

    You are chasing the moment the anxiety stops, and mistaking that relief for connection.

    How you stop reacting to the wound, read what is actually happening, and choose love based on reality, not relief.

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    32 min
  • 73. Done decoding, Ready for love

    Stop replaying the text. Stop analyzing the silence. Stop trying to figure out what they really meant. You already know.

    Why do you decode love instead of simply receiving it? Patterns behind it, the nervous system confusing chaos for chemistry, and the triggers that keep you searching for evidence instead of trusting what you feel.


    You will leave knowing the difference between love you have to decode and love you simply get to experience and receive

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    24 min
  • 72.Runner or Chaser — Which One Are You?
    Why do you chase the ones who pull away, and run from the ones who stay? I break down the Chaser/Runner dynamic....the wounds behind it, and why once the cat catches the mouse, it stops wanting it. You will learn the difference between the fun of the chase, the fun of the run, and the wound that runs both

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    20 min
  • 71. Healing beyond why the snake bit you
    A reflection on pain in dating and relationships, the search for answers, and why the real suffering is often the story you begin telling yourself afterward and how shifting your focus from chasing explanations to healing the wound can change the way you understand love, loss, and yourself ( summer edition from the archive )

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    32 min
  • 70. Love feels out of reach
    Why does love feel close enough to want, but always out of reach? In this episode, you will discover what is really standing between you and the love you desire, what you must release to create space, and become the version of you who can finally receive the love you have been searching for.

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    28 min
  • 69. I Never saw it coming... Did you not?
    You didn't miss the signs. You explained them away. This episode breaks down the four things you always see first.....compatibility, needs, availability, and vision, and why the more invested you get, the more creative you get with the excuses. Real talk, real patterns, and the insight to finally act on what you see instead of talking yourself out of it. Closes with 8 affirmations to carry with you

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    21 min
  • 68. Allison K. Brenner – Blind Spots & Self Awareness

    In this episode, I'm joined by Allison K. Brenner, founder of YourInnerVue, organizational psychology consultant, leadership and executive coach, and psychotherapist.

    We explore how blind spots shape your relationships, communication, and growt, and why self-awareness is the key to creating lasting change.

    Learn more about Allison and YourInnerVue: https://yourinnervue.com

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    49 min
  • 67. Interest VS Intention
    Interest VS Intention Wanting something and choosing it are not the same thing. Interest is a feeling, intention is a decision that holds even when the feeling fades. I get into how that difference quietly shapes your life and your love life

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    23 min
  • 66. Detox your soul
    Hidden toxins may be weighing down your soul without you even realizing it. Learn how to identify and release the beliefs, fears and relationship patterns holding you back, raise your vibration, deepen your faith, and create space for greater peace, healthy love and emotional freedom.

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    24 min
  • 65. Why you can’t let go of someone who was never right for you
    Are you stuck trying to let go of someone who was never truly right for you? Discover why it's so hard to move on, what keeps you emotionally attached, and how to finally break the cycle. This episode will help you understand your feelings, find clarity, and take the first step toward choosing yourself instead of chasing someone who was never meant for you.

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    34 min

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The Answers is a podcast that challenges, guides, and transforms the way you see dating, relationships, and personal growth. Hosted by Jeanette Vinberg, a Transformation, Relationship, and Dating…