Dr. Bharat Thakur tells the story of how Michelangelo saw Pieta in the block of stone. Michelangelo did not create it. It came to him, he ‘saw’ Pieta and he chipped away the excess marble until Pieta emerged. Michelangelo is said to have used the method of being still or quiet as the way to arriving at his ideas and sculptures. Sri Ramana Maharishi used to often answer deep philosophical questions after consideration, with the words “keep quiet”. The seeing of these great masters and seers was entrenched in stillness/ quietness. It appears that quietness helps develop clarity. How does one understand the process of developing clarity?
To understand, in the end is to just ‘get it’. It is not like the process of building a house. It is more like how an idea occurs , how we have an insight, a breakthrough, a big idea. It is not something that you can put together skilfully, or create a formula for. It is a spark of wisdom.
In this episode, we explore how do we achieve an understanding of something? Can we really ‘understand’ it? How does one begin to ‘understand’? Is understanding the process to achieving clarity?
Through delightful insights into the etymology of the word ‘understand’, we arrive at the contours of ‘understand’. It is derived from the greek ‘in’ and ‘terra’, and from ‘antar’, ‘sta’ and ‘nu’ in Sanskrit. ‘Understand’ when put together as a sum of its sounds in greek and sanskrit gives us ‘not from this space’, from the ‘difference in the space’, ‘new’’ and has has the connotations, of firmness, of insight, of the now. It is neither this nor that, it is something that is firm and it is essentially a part of you, eternally part of you.
We all go through the ups and downs of pain followed by pleasure and pleasure followed by pain. So the turning point comes to everyone when one notices this pattern, when it strikes you spontaneously that, “wait a minute, whatever the story of my life, the pattern is the same. It’s only in fairy tales that there is an “and they lived happily ever after....”. What we seek in all our endeavors, be it career, romance or in the movies, the pattern that seems to pervade everything is that in pleasure is the seed of pain and in pain there is the seed of pleasure.
Once we are attentive to our experience of this cycle, the key word being attentive, the key is the attention we pay to our experience as it unfolds and this is what is meant by “one’s own experience”. If we begin to pay attention to all that is happening in us, we begin to see this pattern that we are all caught in this cycle of pleasure and pain and therefore, pleasure too is pain.
When you know this first hand, as your personal experience when we are able to in this way assess the common thread in all our experience. When we are able to extract its essence, then this ability is called ‘viveka’ or discernment and when this happens, we have this natural tendency where we look for a way out of the cycle. We want a way out and as Sri Ramana Maharshi liked to say, we may not be looking for it in the right places, we are not looking at what is essentially an understanding, something that is already stuck to our insides..