The Athlete Mom Project | Pregnancy Workouts, Postpartum Exercises, Meal Plans, Diastasis Recti, Back Pain, and Mindset Tips

The Athlete Mom Project | Pregnancy Workouts, Postpartum Exercises, Meal Plans, Diastasis Recti, Back Pain, and Mindset Tips

By Chandler Sommerfeldt | Strength and Conditioning Coach, Postpartum and Precision Nutrition Certified and Active Life Professional CandidateHealth & FitnessEducationSelf-ImprovementFitness
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The Athlete Mom Project | Pregnancy Workouts, Postpartum Exercises, Meal Plans, Diastasis Recti, Back Pain, and Mindset Tips episodes

  • #29 - How Social Media Fuels Comparison (and Steals Your Joy as a Mom)

    In this episode of The Athlete Mom Project, we talk about the comparison trap on social media — and how constant exposure is quietly stealing joy from moms’ everyday lives.

    Social media has a way of making it feel like everyone else is doing more, being more, and handling motherhood better. This episode explores how comparison takes root, why it hits moms so hard, and how scrolling can slowly disconnect you from your own life — even when things are objectively “good.”

    We talk about:

    • how social media comparison impacts self-worth

    • why moms are especially vulnerable to comparison

    • how constant input creates dissatisfaction and pressure

    • why comparison drains joy and presence

    • how to show up more fully in your own life

      This conversation isn’t about quitting social media entirely — it’s about becoming more intentional with how you engage, what you consume, and how you measure your life.

      Joy doesn’t come from doing motherhood “right” or keeping up with curated versions of other people’s lives. It comes from presence, self-trust, and learning how to live your life instead of comparing it to everyone else’s highlight reel.

      If social media has been leaving you feeling behind, inadequate, or disconnected, this episode offers a grounded reminder:

      your life doesn’t need to look like anyone else’s to be meaningful.

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      Over two nights we’ll move our bodies, hike to alpine lakes, eat nourish meals, share stories over campfires and reconnect with our bodies — surrounded by alpine peaks at 10,000 feet, yummy food, and even better conversation.

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      🛏️ Full Retreat: $900→ Includes lodging, 2 days of meals, a 12-week prep program, and all workshops→ EARLY BIRD PRICING: $750 (limit to 5 spots through June 22, 2025)→ 16 TOTAL spots are available

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      💥 Expert-led workshops

      💥 All meals + lodging included in the price

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      22 min
    • #28 - From Mom to Athlete Mom and so much more w.Lauren Trimble

      CONNECT WITH LAUREN HERE:

      Instagram: ⁠Lauren Trimble

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      Learn More About the Hut Trip Here:

      San Juan Mountains Hut Trip

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      🗓️ September 23–25

      📍 Silverton, Colorado - San Juan Mountains

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      Over two nights we’ll move our bodies, hike to alpine lakes, eat nourish meals, share stories over campfires and reconnect with our bodies — surrounded by alpine peaks at 10,000 feet, yummy food, and even better conversation.

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      🛏️ Full Retreat: $900

      → Includes lodging, 2 days of meals, a 12-week prep program, and all workshops
      → EARLY BIRD PRICING: $750 (limit to 5 spots through June 22, 2025)
      → 16 TOTAL spots are available


      💻 Virtual Only: $199
      → 12-week training plan + community access in my coaching app + workshop recordings
      → Unlimited spots available


      PAYMENT PLANS are available as low as $56 per month 🫶🏻


      💥 12-week training plan included

      💥 Expert-led workshops

      💥 All meals + lodging included in the price

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      Please like and subscribe, rate it, and share with your friends if you found this podcast valuable. It helps this content reach more people!

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      And remember—with Chan, you CAN 💪

      Let's climb this mountain together!

      1 hr 8 min
    • #27 - How Connection AND movement are both medicine - w.Lauren, founder of THE OUTDOOR MOMS

      CONNECT WITH LAUREN HERE:

      Instagram: Lauren Preskitt

      Instagram: The Outdoor Moms


      Join THE OUTDOOR MOMS Facebook Group Here:

      Facebook Group: The Outdoor Moms

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      Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@withchanyoucan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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      50 min
    • #26 - How to Perform Under Pressure Without Letting Emotions Take Over

      In this episode of The Athlete Mom Project, we talk about how to turn pressure into power — and how to navigate the intense emotions that come with competition.

      Using my recent BJJ competition as a real-life example, this episode breaks down what actually happens emotionally when pressure is high, stakes feel real, and performance matters. From nerves and self-doubt to adrenaline and fear of failure, competition brings up a wide range of emotions — and none of them mean you’re unprepared or weak.

      We talk about:

      • why pressure triggers strong emotional responses

      • how competition anxiety shows up in the body

      • the difference between nerves and readiness

      • how to work with emotions instead of fighting them

      • reframing pressure as information and fuel

        Rather than trying to suppress emotions or “toughen up,” this conversation focuses on learning how to channel energy, stay present, and perform without being hijacked by your thoughts.

        This episode is especially helpful for athletes, competitors, and high-performing moms who want to show up fully — in sport, work, or life — without letting pressure shut them down.

        Pressure isn’t the problem.

        Unprocessed pressure is.

        When you learn how to work with it, pressure can become one of your greatest sources of power.

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        📖 Read the full breakdown of this Podcast episode on my Substack

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        👉 [@withchanyoucan]

        40 min
      • #25 - It Is Okay To Change Your Mind (and direction) When Things Are Not Working Anymore

        In this episode of The Athlete Mom Project, we talk about pivoting — and why changing direction doesn’t mean you failed, quit, or lacked discipline.

        Many driven women stay stuck in paths that no longer fit because they’ve already committed. They keep pushing out of obligation, guilt, or fear of what it means to change their mind. This episode challenges that mindset and reframes pivoting as a sign of self-awareness and growth, not weakness.

        We talk about:

        • why commitment often turns into pressure

        • how guilt keeps people stuck in misaligned paths

        • the difference between quitting and pivoting

        • how to reassess goals as life changes

        • why honoring your current season matters

          This conversation is especially relevant for moms navigating shifting priorities, changing bodies, evolving goals, or seasons where what once made sense no longer does.

          You’re allowed to choose something different — even if you said yes before.

          You’re allowed to grow beyond past decisions.
          And you don’t owe anyone consistency at the expense of your well-being.

          Pivoting isn’t giving up.

          It’s choosing alignment over obligation.

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          If this episode helped you, please rate, review, and share it with a mom who’s trying to lift while raising kids.

          🔗 Resources & Links

          📖 Read the full breakdown of this Podcast episode on my Substack

          👉 [Read it Here]

          🏔️ Join the Athlete Mom Project Course

          Training that fits motherhood — without burnout, all-or-nothing, or sacrificing family life.
          👉 [ Learn More Here ]

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          💪🏻 Connect with me on Instagram

          👉 [@withchanyoucan]

          31 min
        • #24 - Performance vs Fat Loss: How to Know What Season You’re In

          In this episode of The Athlete Mom Project, we break down performance vs fat loss — and how to know which one you should focus on right now.

          Many active women feel torn between wanting to improve performance and wanting to lose body fat. This episode explains why trying to pursue both at the same time often leads to frustration, stalled progress, and burnout — and how identifying your current season can bring clarity and relief.

          We talk about:

          • the difference between performance-focused and fat-loss-focused seasons

          • how nutrition, training, and recovery needs differ for each

          • signs you’re forcing the wrong goal for your current capacity

          • why seasonal focus leads to better long-term results

          • how to shift goals without feeling like you’re quitting

            Rather than framing this as an all-or-nothing decision, this conversation encourages a seasonal approach — one that honors your body, your life demands, and your long-term health.

            If you’ve felt stuck trying to “do it all,” this episode will help you step back, assess what your body actually needs, and choose a direction that supports progress instead of pressure.

            You don’t need to chase everything at once to move forward.

            Sometimes the most powerful choice is knowing what to focus on now.

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            🔗 Resources & Links

            📖 Read the full breakdown of this Podcast episode on my Substack

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            Training that fits motherhood — without burnout, all-or-nothing, or sacrificing family life.
            👉 [ Learn More Here ]

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            👉 [@withchanyoucan]

            38 min
          • #23 - The Mental Calorie Deficit: Why It Feels Like You’re Dieting Forever

            In this episode of The Athlete Mom Project, we talk about the mental calorie deficit — and why it can feel like you’re “dieting forever” without seeing physical results.

            Many women find themselves stuck in a frustrating middle ground: not fully committed to a calorie deficit, but constantly thinking about food, restriction, and control. The result? Your mind is in a deficit, even when your body isn’t — leaving you mentally exhausted, discouraged, and confused about why nothing is changing.

            In this episode, we break down:

            • what a mental calorie deficit actually is

            • why half-in dieting creates more stress than results

            • how constant restraint drains mental energy

            • why this pattern keeps people stuck for years

            • how to decide whether to commit — or step away

              This conversation explains why it’s possible to feel deprived without losing fat, why dieting can feel miserable even when it’s not effective, and how chronic mental restriction impacts motivation, confidence, and consistency.

              If you’ve ever felt like:

              • you’re “kind of” dieting all the time

              • food takes up too much mental space

              • you’re tired of thinking about calories without seeing change

              • you feel depleted but not progressing

                this episode will help you understand what’s happening — and what to do instead.

                You don’t need to live in a constant state of restraint to make progress.

                But you do need clarity, intention, and honesty about the season you’re in.

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                If this episode helped you, please rate, review, and share it with a mom who’s trying to lift while raising kids.

                🔗 Resources & Links

                📖 Read the full breakdown of this Podcast episode on my Substack

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                Training that fits motherhood — without burnout, all-or-nothing, or sacrificing family life.
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                👉 Inquire About Coaching Programs Here

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                👉 [@withchanyoucan]

                25 min
              • #22 - How Human Design & Gene Keys Help You Understand Yourself (with Kaija Dawn)
                🔎 BEFORE YOU LISTEN

                Pull your charts so you can follow along:

                • 💎 Get your Human Design Type + Profile at GeneticMatrix.com

                • 🧬 Get your Gene Keys Golden Path at GeneKeys.com

                  (You’ll need your birth date, time, and location.)

                  In this episode of The Athlete Mom Project, I’m joined by Kaija Dawn for a grounded conversation on Human Design and Gene Keys — and how these tools can help you better understand your energy, patterns, and decision-making.

                  Rather than using Human Design and Gene Keys as rigid labels, this episode explores how to use them as self-awareness tools — frameworks that help you recognize why you move through life the way you do, where resistance shows up, and how to live with more alignment instead of forcing change.

                  Before diving into the conversation, listeners are encouraged to pull their charts so they can follow along and apply the insights directly to their own lives.

                  In this episode, we talk about:

                  • what Human Design and Gene Keys actually are

                  • how these systems explain energy, patterns, and behavior

                  • why self-awareness is the foundation for sustainable change

                  • how alignment can reduce burnout and frustration

                  • using energetics as a tool — not an identity box

                    This conversation is especially helpful for moms navigating identity shifts, personal growth, or seasons where old strategies no longer work. It offers a way to move forward with more clarity, compassion, and trust in yourself.

                    Human Design and Gene Keys aren’t about becoming someone new — they’re about understanding who you already are, so you can stop fighting yourself and start working with your natural design.

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                    If this episode helped you, please rate, review, and share it with a mom who’s trying to lift while raising kids.

                    🔗 Resources & Links

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                    Training that fits motherhood — without burnout, all-or-nothing, or sacrificing family life.
                    👉 [ Learn More Here ]

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                    👉 [@withchanyoucan]

                     

                    1 hr 16 min
                  • #21 - Stop Playing the Victim As A Mom: How Taking Responsibility Will Change Your Life

                    In this episode of The Athlete Mom Project, we talk about radical responsibility — what it really means, why it’s uncomfortable, and why it’s the fastest path to real change.

                    This is a direct conversation about owning your choices, releasing victim mentality, and recognizing that no one is coming to save you — not because you’re alone, but because you are more capable than you’ve been taught to believe.

                    We talk about:

                    • how victim mentality keeps people stuck

                    • what radical responsibility actually looks like in real life

                    • why waiting for motivation, permission, or the “right time” doesn’t work

                    • how your actions model behavior for your kids

                    • why change starts with you — even when life isn’t fair

                      Taking responsibility doesn’t mean blaming yourself for everything that’s happened to you. It means recognizing where your power still exists — and choosing to use it.

                      This episode is for moms who are tired of feeling stuck, tired of outsourcing their power, and ready to stop waiting for external circumstances to change before they do.

                      Your life doesn’t change when things get easier.

                      It changes when you decide to show up differently.

                      And that decision starts with you.

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                      If this episode helped you, please rate, review, and share it with a mom who’s trying to lift while raising kids.

                      🔗 Resources & Links

                      📖 Read the full breakdown of this Podcast episode on my Substack

                      👉 [Read it Here]

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                      Training that fits motherhood — without burnout, all-or-nothing, or sacrificing family life.
                      👉 [ Learn More Here ]

                      📲 Learn More About Coaching Programs

                      👉 Inquire About Coaching Programs Here

                      💪🏻 Connect with me on Instagram

                      👉 [@withchanyoucan]

                      18 min
                    • #20 - How to Stay on Track With Fitness and Nutrition While on Vacation

                      In this episode of The Athlete Mom Project, we talk about how to stay on track while on vacation — without turning your trip into a rigid plan or feeling like you have to “start over” when you get home.

                      Vacations often bring up stress around fitness, nutrition, and routines. This episode breaks down what staying on track actually means, why all-or-nothing thinking makes vacations harder, and how to approach travel in a way that supports both enjoyment and consistency.

                      We talk about:

                      • what “staying on track” really looks like on vacation

                      • how to maintain fitness and movement without formal workouts

                      • flexible nutrition strategies that don’t feel restrictive

                      • why vacations don’t ruin progress

                      • how to return home without guilt or punishment

                        Rather than trying to control every detail, this conversation focuses on intentional choices, realistic expectations, and understanding what actually matters in short-term travel versus long-term progress.

                        You don’t need to be perfect on vacation to make progress.

                        And you don’t need to abandon your habits to enjoy time away.

                        This episode offers a grounded, sustainable way to think about fitness, food, and routines while traveling — so you can come home feeling refreshed instead of behind.

                        🎙️ Subscribe to the podcast

                        If this episode helped you, please rate, review, and share it with a mom who’s trying to lift while raising kids.

                        🔗 Resources & Links

                        📖 Read the full breakdown of this Podcast episode on my Substack

                        👉 [Read it Here]

                        🏔️ Join the Athlete Mom Project Course

                        Training that fits motherhood — without burnout, all-or-nothing, or sacrificing family life.
                        👉 [ Learn More Here ]

                        📲 Learn More About Coaching Programs

                        👉 Inquire About Coaching Programs Here

                        💪🏻 Connect with me on Instagram

                        👉 [@withchanyoucan]

                        30 min

                      About The Athlete Mom Project | Pregnancy Workouts, Postpartum Exercises, Meal Plans, Diastasis Recti, Back Pain, and Mindset Tips

                      From the publisher's feed

                      Are you an active mom who wants to keep exercising during pregnancy, recover fully postpartum, and move your body without pain — but feels overwhelmed by conflicting advice, limited time, and a body that doesn’t feel the same anymore?