The Athlete Mom Project | Pregnancy Workouts, Postpartum Exercises, Meal Plans, Diastasis Recti, Back Pain, and Mindset Tips

The Athlete Mom Project | Pregnancy Workouts, Postpartum Exercises, Meal Plans, Diastasis Recti, Back Pain, and Mindset Tips

By Chandler Sommerfeldt | Strength and Conditioning Coach, Postpartum and Precision Nutrition Certified and Active Life Professional CandidateHealth & FitnessEducationSelf-ImprovementFitness
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The Athlete Mom Project | Pregnancy Workouts, Postpartum Exercises, Meal Plans, Diastasis Recti, Back Pain, and Mindset Tips episodes

  • #19 - Why You Feel Overwhelmed All the Time (and Why “Balance” Isn’t the Answer)

    In this episode of The Athlete Mom Project, we talk about why the idea of balance keeps so many people stuck — and why aiming for harmony and peace is often a more sustainable goal.

    “Balance” is often framed as having everything perfectly aligned at all times. But real life doesn’t work that way — especially during motherhood, demanding seasons, or periods of growth. This episode explores why chasing balance can create frustration and guilt, and how shifting toward harmony allows for more flexibility, self-trust, and peace.

    We talk about:

    • why balance is an unrealistic standard

    • how the pursuit of balance creates pressure

    • what harmony actually looks like in real life

    • the difference between chasing happiness and cultivating peace

    • how to move through busy seasons without feeling like you’re failing

      Rather than trying to keep everything equal, this conversation invites you to think about alignment — knowing what deserves your energy right now, and allowing that to change over time.

      Peace isn’t found by doing everything perfectly.

      It’s found by releasing unrealistic expectations and learning how to move with life instead of against it.

      If you’ve felt overwhelmed, stretched thin, or frustrated by the idea of “finding balance,” this episode offers a new lens — one that supports growth without guilt.

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      18 min
    • #18 - Mom Guilt Explained: Why Wanting More Doesn’t Make You Selfish

      In this episode of The Athlete Mom Project, we talk about mom guilt, worthiness, and why so many mothers feel selfish for wanting more out of life.

      From a young age, many women are taught to put themselves last — and motherhood often amplifies that belief. This episode explores how guilt shows up when moms desire more freedom, fulfillment, success, rest, or joy, and why wanting more doesn’t make you ungrateful or selfish.

      We talk about:

      • where mom guilt actually comes from

      • why wanting more can feel uncomfortable or “wrong”

      • how worthiness gets tangled with productivity and sacrifice

      • why you don’t need to earn rest, joy, or success

      • how releasing guilt can change how you show up for yourself and your family

        This conversation is a reminder that your desires matter — not in spite of being a mom, but because you are a whole human with needs, dreams, and capacity for more.

        You don’t need permission to want a life that feels expansive.

        You don’t need to prove your worth through sacrifice.
        And you don’t need to shrink yourself to be a good mom.

        You are worthy — exactly as you are — of everything you’ve ever wanted.

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        30 min
      • #17 - Why You Feel Stuck Even When You’re Taking Action (And Steps You Can Take To Create Clarity)

        In this episode of The Athlete Mom Project, we talk about why you can be taking action and still feel stuck — and how misaligned action quietly keeps people from moving forward.

        Many women are doing “all the right things”: working hard, showing up consistently, consuming information, and trying to improve — yet nothing seems to change. This episode breaks down why action alone isn’t enough, how misalignment shows up in daily decisions, and what it looks like to realign your efforts with who you actually are and what you truly need.

        We explore:

        • what misaligned action really means

        • why effort without alignment leads to burnout

        • how to recognize when you’re forcing progress

        • why clarity matters more than intensity

        • how to shift toward action that actually creates change

          If you feel frustrated, exhausted, or like you’re spinning your wheels, this conversation offers language and perspective to help you understand what’s happening beneath the surface — without shame or self-blame.

          Progress doesn’t come from doing more.

          It comes from doing the right things, at the right time, for the right reasons.

          This episode is an invitation to slow down, reassess, and move forward with intention instead of pressure.

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          1 hr 17 min
        • #16 - Can You Be a Successful Business Owner and a Present Mom? (special guest Courtney Burton)

          In this episode of The Athlete Mom Project, I’m joined by Courtney Burton for a powerful conversation about stepping into your power as a mom while building wild success in life and business.

          Courtney is a mom, entrepreneur, and leader who embodies what it looks like to pursue ambition without abandoning yourself — or your family — in the process. This conversation challenges the belief that you have to choose between being a present mom and being deeply successful.

          We talk about:

          • redefining success through motherhood

          • releasing guilt around ambition

          • stepping into confidence and self-trust

          • building a business that aligns with your values

          • what it really takes to grow without burnout

            This episode is for moms who feel a pull toward more — more impact, more fulfillment, more freedom — but also want to stay grounded in who they are and the life they’re building.

            You don’t need to shrink your dreams to be a good mom.

            And you don’t need to sacrifice yourself to be successful.

            This conversation is a reminder that power, purpose, and motherhood can coexist — and that you’re allowed to want a life that feels expansive.

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            1 hr 17 min
          • #15 - Athlete Mom Project MASTERCLASS

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            43 min
          • #14 - Eat Cleaner, Move Better, and Love the Life You Have (w. Nico De Haan, my BJJ Professor)

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            1 hr 50 min
          • #13 - How to Set Goals That Stick When Your Life Has Changed

            In this episode of The Athlete Mom Project, we talk about why most goals don’t stick — and what actually makes goal setting sustainable in real life.

            Many people set goals with motivation and good intentions, only to feel frustrated weeks later when consistency fades or life gets in the way. This conversation breaks down why traditional goal-setting methods often fail, how identity, capacity, and environment influence follow-through, and how to create goals that support who you are now — not who you used to be.

            If you’ve struggled with:

            • setting goals and falling off

            • feeling motivated but inconsistent

            • all-or-nothing thinking

            • starting over again and again

              this episode offers a more grounded approach to goal setting — one that focuses on alignment, self-trust, and long-term progress instead of pressure.

              This episode is especially helpful during seasons of change, transition, or burnout, when old systems no longer work and a new approach is needed.

               

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              25 min
            • #12 - Feeling Stuck in Life? Why Progress Is Happening Even When You Can’t See It

              In this episode of The Athlete Mom Project, we talk about what it actually means to feel stuck in life — especially during seasons where growth feels invisible and progress seems nonexistent.

              Using the metaphor of the bamboo tree, this conversation explores why effort doesn’t always produce immediate results, how internal growth often happens long before external change, and why feeling stuck doesn’t mean you’re failing.

              If you’re in a season where:

              • nothing feels like it’s moving forward

              • you’re questioning your direction or purpose

              • you’re doing the work but not seeing outcomes

              • you feel disconnected from who you used to be

                This episode will help you reframe what’s happening beneath the surface.

                Growth isn’t always loud or visible. Sometimes it’s happening quietly, building roots before anything breaks through. This episode is a reminder that being stuck doesn’t mean you’re off track — it may mean you’re preparing for something deeper.

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                12 min
              • #11 - How Movement Improves Performance, Recovery, and Mental Health

                In this episode of The Athlete Mom Project, we explore why movement is medicine — and how to intentionally use movement to improve performance, recovery, and overall well-being.

                Movement isn’t just about burning calories or chasing aesthetics. When applied with purpose, it can regulate the nervous system, build resilience, improve athletic capacity, and support both physical and mental health.

                In this episode, we talk about:

                • what “movement is medicine” actually means

                • how movement impacts the nervous system and stress response

                • why the right type of movement matters more than doing more

                • how to use movement strategically for performance and recovery

                • when movement helps — and when it can hurt if misapplied

                  We also discuss how athletes and active moms can use movement as a tool to feel better in their bodies, move through stress, and build long-term capacity without burnout or injury.

                  This episode offers a framework for understanding how to match movement to your current needs — whether that’s pushing performance, supporting recovery, or reconnecting with your body during a demanding season of life.

                  Movement is powerful. But like any medicine, the dose, timing, and intention matter.

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                  53 min
                • #10 - Why You Self-Sabotage (Understanding Subconscious Beliefs and Resistance)

                  In this episode of The Athlete Mom Project, we dive into subconscious beliefs, self-sabotage, and the resistance that often shows up right before growth.

                  If you’ve ever felt like you want change but keep getting in your own way — starting strong, then pulling back, procrastinating, or losing momentum — this episode helps explain why that happens and what it actually means.

                  We talk about how subconscious beliefs are formed, how they influence behavior without us realizing it, and why resistance isn’t a sign that something is wrong — it’s often a sign that you’re moving outside your comfort zone.

                  In this episode, we explore:

                  • why self-sabotage shows up during change

                  • how subconscious beliefs shape habits and decisions

                  • what resistance is trying to protect you from

                  • why growth often feels uncomfortable before it feels empowering

                  • how to move forward without forcing or shaming yourself

                    Rather than pushing harder or relying on willpower, this conversation invites a more compassionate approach — one that builds awareness, safety, and trust as you step into a new version of yourself.

                    If you feel stuck, frustrated, or caught in cycles you don’t fully understand, this episode offers language and insight to help you recognize what’s happening beneath the surface — and how to move through it with more clarity.

                    Growth doesn’t require you to fix yourself.

                    It requires you to understand yourself.

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                    27 min

                  About The Athlete Mom Project | Pregnancy Workouts, Postpartum Exercises, Meal Plans, Diastasis Recti, Back Pain, and Mindset Tips

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                  Are you an active mom who wants to keep exercising during pregnancy, recover fully postpartum, and move your body without pain — but feels overwhelmed by conflicting advice, limited time, and a body that doesn’t feel the same anymore?