The Aware Mind

The Aware Mind

By Sarah VallelyEducationSelf-Improvement
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The Aware Mind episodes

  • Tips for Reducing Stress Caused by Visiting Family Over the Holidays

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    In this episode, Sarah and her guest, Dr. Breese Annable, discuss the many reasons we experience anxiety and stress during the holidays. However, there are ways to show up for yourself that will leave you feeling more whole and relaxed, instead of frustrated and exhausted. Learn the differences between "stress" and "anxiety", so you can better determine what you are experiencing. And find out why validating your stress and anxiety is the first step to soothing yourself. Also, find out what prep work is needed for setting good boundaries with others. As well as, the three options you have when you truly move into acceptance about what lies ahead.  This episode is jam-packed with good tips that you won't want to miss. Share this episode with others.

    Dr. Breese Annable's website: www.livingbalanceavl.com

    TSD Mindfulness Virtual Meditation Center FREE monthly meditation group meets the third Saturday of each month at 10:00 AM New York Time/3:00 PM London Time. Third Saturday of each month. Join us, November 18th. Register at https://www.tsdmind.org/group

    Important links:
    TSD Mindfulness Virtual Meditation Center https://www.tsdmind.org
    Sarah's Mindfulness Coaching website: https://www.sarahvallely.com
    The Aware Mind on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/TSD_Mindfulness/

    This episode is a meditation for beginners, and mindfulness for beginners resource. Intermediate and advanced meditators will also benefit. The Aware Mind produces content that supports stress reduction, anxiety relief, better concentration and focus, and trauma healing.

    The Aware Mind is produced by TSD Mindfulness, a virtual meditation center, offering mindfulness classes, certifications and private coaching for people with past trauma, anxiety and depression disorders, business leaders, and people who work in the helping professions (i.e. counselors, healers and yoga and meditation teachers).

    31 min
  • How to do "The Emotional Work" and Lower Your Anxiety in Significant Ways

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    In this episode, Sarah and her guest Mike Comparetto, a licensed therapist, discuss the reasons why doing "emotional work" lowers your anxiety. Emotional work involves identifying specific words to describe your emotions, being mindful of your body during emotions, being aware of your thinking during emotions and supporting yourself with validation and compassion. If you are curious about broadening your emotional spectrum as a means of soothing your nervous system, moving into acceptance, and decreasing your anxiety, then this is the episode for you. Mike is an expert in his field and offers wonderful suggestions you will not want to miss.

    Mike Comparetto's website: www.StriveOn.me
    Download Sarah's Emotional Clusters (Emotions Chart): https://tinyurl.com/3mdxh2ks

    TSD Mindfulness Virtual Meditation Center FREE monthly meditation group meets the third Saturday of each month at 10:00 AM New York Time/3:00 PM London Time. Third Saturday of each month. Join us, November 18th. Register at https://www.tsdmind.org/grou

    Important links:
    TSD Mindfulness Virtual Meditation Center https://www.tsdmind.org
    Sarah's Mindfulness Coaching website: https://www.sarahvallely.com
    The Aware Mind on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/TSD_Mindfulness/

    This episode is a meditation for beginners, and mindfulness for beginners resource. Intermediate and advanced meditators will also benefit. The Aware Mind produces content that supports stress reduction, anxiety relief, better concentration and focus, and trauma healing.

    The Aware Mind is produced by TSD Mindfulness, a virtual meditation center, offering mindfulness classes, certifications and private coaching for people with past trauma, anxiety and depression disorders, business leaders, and people who work in the helping professions (i.e. counselors, healers and yoga and meditation teachers).

    29 min
  • How Self-Compassion Helps Us Pivot When We Are Spiraling Down Emotionally

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    In this episode, Sarah and her guest Emelda De Coteau, Mindfulness Coach, discuss the importance of taking a pause when you are met with difficulty and giving yourself compassion. So often situations cause us to spiral down emotionally and cause our nervous system to engage. These moments are a struggle for most of us. However, there are ways to pull yourself out of the darkness and lift yourself up when you need it most. Sarah and Emelda address the myths about why giving yourself grace can lower your productivity. These two mindfulness coaches speak about how to overcome the challenge of simply taking a pause and showing up for yourself. As well as, explain in detail what self-compassion is and how to practice it.

    Emelda is a Certified Mindfulness Coach through Sarah's coaching program TSD Mindfulness Coach training and Certification: https://www.tsdmind.org/certification

    Listen to Emelda De Coteau on The Aware Mind published February 10, 2023
    Follow Emelda on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whenmotherhoodlooksdifferent/
    Download Sarah's 8-Minute Self-Compassion Exercises: https://tinyurl.com/28awbskp

    TSD Mindfulness Virtual Meditation Center FREE monthly meditation group meets the third Saturday of each month at 10:00 AM New York Time/3:00 PM London Time. Third Saturdays, October 21 and November 18th. Register at https://www.tsdmind.org/group

    Online Book Club discussion TBA.

    Important links:
    TSD Mindfulness Virtual Meditation Center https://www.tsdmind.org
    Sarah's Mindfulness Coaching website: https://www.sarahvallely.com
    The Aware Mind on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/TSD_Mindfulness/

    This episode is a meditation for beginners, and mindfulness for beginners resource. Intermediate and advanced meditators will also benefit. The Aware Mind produces content that supports stress reduction, anxiety relief, better concentration and focus, and trauma healing.

    The Aware Mind is produced by TSD Mindfulness, a virtual meditation center, offering mindfulness classes, certifications and private coaching for people with past trauma, anxiety and depression disorders, business leaders, and people who work in the helping professions (i.e. counselors, healers and yoga and meditation teachers).

    35 min
  • Why Self-love Deficit Disorder is the New Codependence and Other Supports for Relationships After Trauma

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    In this episode, Sarah introduces a new "disorder" experts are getting behind and spearheading a movement to include in the DSM. Self-love Deficit Disorder shows up when we ignore our own needs to fill other people's needs. SLDD also looks like a struggle to understand what your emotions are and express them to others. These are also the qualities attributed to codependence, however, listen and learn why the term "codependence" might be outdated. We can all gain from more self-love but how do we support ourselves to be more self-accepting and prioritize our own needs? Listen and learn how you can be more mindful of how your past has set you up to ignore your needs and how you can heal and change.

    TSD Mindfulness Virtual Meditation Center FREE monthly meditation group meets the third Saturday of each month at 10:00 AM New York Time/3:00 PM London Time. Third Saturdays, September 16, October 21 and November 18th. Register at https://www.tsdmind.org/group

    Online Book Club discussion TBA.

    Important links:
    TSD Mindfulness Virtual Meditation Center https://www.tsdmind.org
    Sarah's Mindfulness Coaching website: https://www.sarahvallely.com
    The Aware Mind on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/TSD_Mindfulness/

    This episode is a meditation for beginners, and mindfulness for beginners resource. Intermediate and advanced meditators will also benefit. The Aware Mind produces content that supports stress reduction, anxiety relief, better concentration and focus, and trauma healing.

    The Aware Mind is produced by TSD Mindfulness, a virtual meditation center, offering mindfulness classes, certifications and private coaching for people with past trauma, anxiety and depression disorders, business leaders, and people who work in the helping professions (i.e. counselors, healers and yoga and meditation teachers).

    16 min
  • Deescalating Feelings of Anger and Frustration During Times of Conflict with your Partner

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    In this episode, Sarah and her guest Stacey Curnow, a licensed couples therapist and relationship expert, break down what happens within our nervous systems when we enter conflict. Learn if it is best to address the issue in the moment or wait until later. Find out what soothes your nervous system and how to help your partner soothe theirs. Stacy discusses the importance of making agreements and a plan with your partner beforehand, so you know your options when conflict arises. Share this episode with your partner and talk about it together!

    Download "Fire Drill" PDF
    Stacey's therapy website: http://www.ashevillefamilycounseling.com/
    Stacey's online program website: https://repairyourrelationshiponline.com/

    TSD Mindfulness Virtual Meditation Center FREE monthly meditation group meets the third Saturday of each month at 10:00 AM New York Time/3:00 PM London Time. Third Saturdays, September 16, October 21 and November 18th. Register at https://www.tsdmind.org/group

    Online Book Club discussion TBA.

    Important links:
    TSD Mindfulness Virtual Meditation Center https://www.tsdmind.org
    Sarah's Mindfulness Coaching website: https://www.sarahvallely.com
    The Aware Mind on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/TSD_Mindfulness/

    This episode is a meditation for beginners, and mindfulness for beginners resource. Intermediate and advanced meditators will also benefit. The Aware Mind produces content that supports stress reduction, anxiety relief, better concentration and focus, and trauma healing.

    The Aware Mind is produced by TSD Mindfulness, a virtual meditation center, offering mindfulness classes, certifications and private coaching for people with past trauma, anxiety and depression disorders, business leaders, and people who work in the helping professions (i.e. counselors, healers and yoga and meditation teachers).

    Sponsored by RENVA Turmeric Shakes

    29 min
  • Brene Brown Gives Advice on Healthy Ways to Feel Our Emotions Such as Anxiety, Insecurity and Disappointment and More

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    In this episode, Sarah details Brene Brown's latest book "Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience". In this book Brene highlights 87 emotions, explaining what these emotions truly mean and gives advice on what we can do to experience these emotions in the healthiest way possible. Learn ways to minimize worry and learn techniques for supporting your sense of self-worth. And since it is Brene Brown, there of course is wonderful advice about vulnerability and feelings of shame. Learn how to feel more at peace by leaning into your emotions in a way that leaves you feeling better instead of worse.   

    Brene Brown's List of 87 Human Emotions
    Sarah Vallely's Chart of 300 Emotions

    TSD Mindfulness Virtual Meditation Center FREE monthly meditation group meets the third Saturday of each month at 10:00 AM New York Time/3:00 PM London Time. Saturdays, August 19, September 16, October 21 etc. Register at https://www.tsdmind.org/group

    Online Book Club discussion TBA.

    Important links:
    TSD Mindfulness Virtual Meditation Center https://www.tsdmind.org
    Sarah's Mindfulness Coaching website: https://www.sarahvallely.com
    The Aware Mind on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/TSD_Mindfulness/

    This episode is a meditation for beginners, and mindfulness for beginners resource. Intermediate and advanced meditators will also benefit. The Aware Mind produces content that supports stress reduction, anxiety relief, better concentration and focus, and trauma healing.

    The Aware Mind is produced by TSD Mindfulness, a virtual meditation center, offering mindfulness classes, certifications and private coaching for people with past trauma, anxiety and depression disorders, business leaders, and people who work in the helping professions (i.e. counselors, healers and yoga and meditation teachers).

    22 min
  • Tips for Building Your Sense of Self-Worth with Simple Mindfulness Approaches that Really Work!

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    In this episode, Sarah and her guest, Mike Comparetto, unpack what it means to have biases, especially the ones that are self-defeating. Do you know what your core beliefs are? For most people, these beliefs are completely unconscious. However, with mindfulness, you can uncover these beliefs and see how they act as a hurdle to you achieving your goals and becoming your best self.   Research shows it takes just a few minutes of mindfulness practice to overcome your cognitive biases that are negatively affecting your confidence and causing stress. Listen and learn many techniques for transcending your negative core beliefs and increasing your sense of self-worth. 

    Mike Comparetto's website: www.StriveOn.me
    Link to a list of core beliefs.

    TSD Mindfulness Virtual Meditation Center FREE monthly meditation group meets the third Saturday of each month at 10:00 AM New York Time/3:00 PM London Time. Saturdays, August 19, September 16, October 21 etc. Register at https://www.tsdmind.org/group

    Online Book Club discussion TBA.

    Important links:
    TSD Mindfulness Virtual Meditation Center https://www.tsdmind.org
    Sarah's Mindfulness Coaching website: https://www.sarahvallely.com
    The Aware Mind on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/TSD_Mindfulness/

    This episode is a meditation for beginners, and mindfulness for beginners resource. Intermediate and advanced meditators will also benefit. The Aware Mind produces content that supports stress reduction, anxiety relief, better concentration and focus, and trauma healing.

    The Aware Mind is produced by TSD Mindfulness, a virtual meditation center, offering mindfulness classes, certifications and private coaching for people with past trauma, anxiety and depression disorders, business leaders, and people who work in the helping professions (i.e. counselors, healers and yoga and meditation teachers).

    31 min
  • You Don't Need to Work Harder to Soothe Your Anxiety, You Just Need to Work Smarter

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    In this episode, Sarah and her guest, Dr. Breese Annable, discuss how awareness of our fears can actually calm our anxiety. It sounds counter-intuitive but asking questions about what the deeper fears are driving your concerns and worry, can actually reduce your discomfort. Worry, over-eating, and hyper-planning are unhealthy responses to fear. With mindfulness, you can shift the way you respond to fear and instead engage in more healthy practices. Listen and learn what your core fears might be and start accepting your fear with understanding and compassion. See how this soothes your anxiety in ways you never felt before.

    Doctor Breese Annable's website: www.livingbalanceavl.com

    TSD Mindfulness Virtual Meditation Center FREE monthly meditation group meets the third Saturday of each month at 10:00 AM New York Time/3:00 PM London Time. Saturdays, July 15,  August 19 etc. Register at https://www.tsdmind.org/group

    Online Book Club discussion TBA.

    Important links:
    TSD Mindfulness Virtual Meditation Center https://www.tsdmind.org
    Sarah's Mindfulness Coaching website: https://www.sarahvallely.com
    The Aware Mind on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/TSD_Mindfulness/

    This episode is a meditation for beginners, and mindfulness for beginners resource. Intermediate and advanced meditators will also benefit. The Aware Mind produces content that supports stress reduction, anxiety relief, better concentration and focus, and trauma healing.

    The Aware Mind is produced by TSD Mindfulness, a virtual meditation center, offering mindfulness classes, certifications and private coaching for people with past trauma, anxiety and depression disorders, business leaders, and people who work in the helping professions (i.e. counselors, healers and yoga and meditation teachers).

    30 min
  • 50th Episode Celebration! Why Self-Compassion and Self-Validation Will Change Your Life

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    In this episode, Sarah shares how a little self-validation can go a long way when it comes to reducing stress. What if the next time you found yourself in a stressful situation, you paused to validate your stress response? "It's understandable that I am feeling stressed, there is a chance I am going to be late for my meeting." Validating yourself for the uncomfortable emotions you are experiencing is a wonderful way to give yourself compassion and reduce your stress at the same time. It is actually kind of strange how easy this practice is and how impactful it has on your mood and mental health. Learn how you can show up for yourself with kindness and support.

    TSD Mindfulness Virtual Meditation Center FREE monthly meditation group meets the third Saturday of each month at 10:00 AM New York Time/3:00 PM London Time. Saturdays, June 17, July 15,  August 19 etc. Register at https://www.tsdmind.org/group

    Online Book Club discussion Thursday June 15 at 7:00 PM Eastern Time. The book we will be discussion is "The Enneagram Guide to Waking Up" Contact Sarah through https://www.tsdmind.org

    Important links:
    TSD Mindfulness Virtual Meditation Center https://www.tsdmind.org
    Sarah's Mindfulness Coaching website: https://www.sarahvallely.com
    The Aware Mind on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/TSD_Mindfulness/

    This episode is a meditation for beginners, and mindfulness for beginners resource. Intermediate and advanced meditators will also benefit. The Aware Mind produces content that supports stress reduction, anxiety relief, better concentration and focus, and trauma healing.

    The Aware Mind is produced by TSD Mindfulness, a virtual meditation center, offering mindfulness classes, certifications and private coaching for people with past trauma, anxiety and depression disorders, business leaders, and people who work in the helping professions (i.e. counselors, healers and yoga and meditation teachers).

    21 min
  • Four Reasons Paying Attention to Body Sensations Eases Us through Difficulty, Including Stress, Panic and Depression

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    In this episode, Sarah and her guest, licensed therapist Mike Comparetto, discuss why simple body awareness exercises help us better process our emotions, gain a better perspective and move us through difficult situations in a healthy way.  Our psyche comes up with a million reasons to resist our experience. And we usually follow through on most of them. However, accepting, instead of, resisting our experience is better for us in the long run. Listen to this episode and learn how you can easily use mindfulness to move into acceptance and feel more confident, calmer and more empowered.

    Mike Comparetto's website: www.StriveOn.me

    Mike's YouTube channel: YouTube Channel

    TSD Mindfulness Virtual Meditation Center FREE monthly meditation group meets the third Saturday of each month at 10:00 AM New York Time/3:00 PM London Time. Saturdays, June 17, July 15,  August 19 etc. Register at https://www.tsdmind.org/group

    Online Book Club discussion TBA on a Monday at 7:00 PM Eastern Time.

    Important links:
    TSD Mindfulness Virtual Meditation Center http://www.tsdmind.org
    Sarah's Mindfulness Coaching website: http://www.sarahvallely.com
    The Aware Mind on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/TSD_Mindfulness/

    This episode is a meditation for beginners, and mindfulness for beginners resource. Intermediate and advanced meditators will also benefit. The Aware Mind produces content that supports stress reduction, anxiety relief, better concentration and focus, and trauma healing.

    The Aware Mind is produced by TSD Mindfulness, a virtual meditation center, offering mindfulness classes, certifications and private coaching for people with past trauma, anxiety and depression disorders, business leaders, and people who work in the helping professions (i.e. counselors, healers and yoga and meditation teachers).

    36 min

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Episodes explore mindfulness teachings, strategies and science and are released every Friday. Sarah Vallely is the author of four books on the subject of meditation and mindfulness, her most current…

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