Hello and welcome to another amazing episode of the Beautifully Broken Me Podcast. In this episode, you would hear the super inspiring story of Kellina and how she turned her adversity into stepping stone. Listen to the full episode here https://bit.ly/3tpF75N

As a young entrepreneur, Kellina loves to help people with their personal growth and educate others about the deaf community. To known Kellina is to love her, her story is an incredible inspiration to the world!

You would hardly know Kellina  is actually a hard of hearing person. She became deaf at the age of 4. Kellina is a sweet soul, she recently graduated with a psychology degree and is now starting her own online coaching business while finishing working on her book! Her story is an inspiration to the world.

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https://www.kellinaempowerment.com
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Hello and welcome to this very insightful episode of 'The beautifully Broken Me Podcast'. In today's episode we debunked some of deepest truth about men's struggle.
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Disclaimer: This conversation is non exhaustive; it is an opinion based on my guest's personal views and experience and may not apply to all men in general.

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I have heard a lot of people say; what does men really want? Why are men difficult? Are there any good men left? Why do men act the way they do? I also wondered what men's inner struggles would look like, and why some women tend to misunderstand men especially when some men would become abruptly silent ("I am a man of few words"). This and many more curiosity drove me finding answers to this questions. This episode will be in different parts If you're a man listening and would like to come on to share your views, please kindly send me an email at: [email protected]
 
Let's dive right in.

My guest, Franklin Aguocha shared his incredible wealth of wisdom and some of his personal stories too as to why some men behaves the way they do. In our conversation, he shared that;  the society expects a man to be strong, putting undue pressure on men; this is some of the reasons most men tend not to speak up even when they face certain challenges.
This episode would enlighten you as to some core challenges men go through. Like i stated earlier, the list is non-exhaustive.

The highlights of the episode:
🎯 Does men really struggle?   05:30
🎯 The Societal expectation on men...It is scary 7:50
🎯 The struggles of men...the analogy 12:35
🎯 Men, marriages and demands 15:50
🎯 A young man's question- "Where do i start from?" 19:01
🎯 Absentee fathers...When fathers are absent 21:25
🎯 Men and ego? 25:39
🎯 The ridiculous silent treatment 29:35
🎯 Why men keeps to themselves - Domestic abuse? 34:08
🎯 There is a playful boy in every man? How can this be attained 38:28
🎯 Final advise and counsel 40:36

Franklin Aguocha is a a coach, an educator, a speaker and trainer. As a coach and mentor, he's goal is to see that every youth under his mentorship live their lives in a way that is originally intended by God where they would be incredible men of honor; loving every aspects of their lives. As an educator, Franklin has led management teams of several schools both in private and public capacity. He has spoken at several notable events; and has touched many lives by his incredible act of kindness.

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http://www.facebook.com/franklinaguocha

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Stay informed! Understand the truth about the U.S. prison system. Whether or not you have been or knows someone in prison, whether or not you know, or do not know about the U.S. prison system; you should listen to this episode.
Listen and stay informed! This episode is a must listen! Listen to the full episode here: http://www.thebeautifullybrokenme.com/podcast.
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In this super informative and jaw-dropping episode; I sat with a very lively, friendly and outspoken guest Dan Wise often called RDAP-Dan. It was super expository as RDAP-Dan shared his incredible story of how he found himself at the federal prison where he served for five (5) years. In his exact words; "I became as a Federal Prison Consultant after successfully navigating the Federal Prison System, culminating in my early release, and a passion for assisting others facing Federal Prison time. I know the uncertainty and feelings of powerlessness that comes with facing a federal charge. I also know how to help you manage the negative emotions and improve your chances of a positive outcome".

Enjoy the journey it's not just about the destination ~RDAP-Dan

Some Key Highlights:
🎯 Who is RDAP Dan?      03:38
🎯 The pain clinic job.      04:40
🎯 Oh! Something seems to have gone wrong. 7:40
🎯 Federal appointed attorney 9:12
🎯 "I had to wait for sentencing"    11:42
🎯 The emotions and the heartbreak 14:33
🎯 When you self surrender 16:30
🎯 Owning what you did, acceptance and accountability  19:18
🎯 First time non-violent crime 21:58
🎯 What is RDAP (Residential Drug Abuse Program) 24:28
🎯 How the prison system changes lives 26:12
🎯 What life after prison be like 28:34
🎯 "How I became as a Federal Prison Consultant" 32:12
🎯 Lessons learnt 35:15

Connect with RDAP-Dan
www.federalprisontime.com
http://www.youtube.com/RDAPDAN
The Spokesman-Review Article

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https://podbio.me/thebeautifullybrokenme

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Episode 61: Overcoming Inferiority Complex (Mary’s Incredible Story).
Listen to the full conversation here⬇️ http://www.thebeautifullybrokenme.com/podcast

In this episode, I had an amazing conversation with my guest Mary. She has been a victim of inferiority complex which began from childhood. She shared her beautiful story and dissected this conversation in-depth. This conversation would give you the right tools to fully understand how to overcome inferiority complex which has a sibling called imposter syndrome.

Some Key Highlights:
🎯 Struggling With Inferiority? 04:46
🎯 Stop Assuming The Worse 06:02
🎯 Finding Yourself 08:06
🎯 Do I Have Inferiority Complex? 9:10
🎯 Personal Story Shared 12:05
🎯 Impacts of Inferiority Complex on your Mental Health 20:57
🎯 Inferiority Complex and Relationship 25:45
🎯 Inferiority Complex and Suicidal Tendencies 33:28
🎯 Constantly Feeling Unloved, Unworthy or Inadequate? 37:35

About My Guest Mary Ajagbe
Mary Ajagbe is a Spiritual Influencer, Author, trained Life Coach, trained NLP& EFT Practitioner, and also a minister of God.
She studied Radio Production and Mass communication and she has attended quite a number of developmental trainings all of which she uses to empower and transform the Lives the Father (God) brings her way.

Social media handles:
facebook- AdjoaGod'sbeloved     
Instagram- @adjoa94

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In this super thought-provoking episode of the Beautifully Broken Me Podcast; I had an interesting conversation with the host of The Healthy Happy Human Podcast-Paul Levitin.

In our conversation, we dissected a very interesting question; Why is it so hard for people to do what they say they want to do? Too many times people had said; “I want to lose weight but I don’t, I want to hit the gym but I don’t, I want to eat healthy,”   Why is this so? Knowing what to do and not doing, is the same as not knowing. We also talked about how to build a healthier and happier life.
Too many deep truth were unveiled in this episode. Listen to the full conversation: http://www.thebeautifullybrokenme.com/podcast

Some Key Highlights
🎯 Knowing and not doing is the same as not knowing 04:59
🎯 Everything I want is hard to get 07:05
🎯 Instant gratification -The Change Loop Awareness Education & Action 09:49
🎯 How to build healthy habits? Habit stacking 16:17
🎯 Some practical healthy habit analogy  22:38
🎯 Paul’s 10-step morning routine 24:36
🎯 The fear of failure 30:40
🎯 Why I do the things I do 36:35

About Paul Levitin
Paul Levitin is a behavior change specialist and a lifestyle design coach. As a writer, coach, podcaster, and public speaker; Paul helps millennials who are stagnant in their career and life quit quitting on themselves, so that they can unlock unlimited self confidence, their passion, and have “total life alignment”.
This is an episode you’ve been waiting for as you’d be equipped with the tools needed to build a healthy and happier habits. This episode is definitely one of a rare kind.

Connect with Paul Levitin
Paul Levitin: Board Certified Health & Wellness Coach (NBHWC)
The Healthy Happy Human Academy
https://www.instagram.com/paullevitin/
The Healthy Happy Human Podcast
https://www.podpage.com/the-healthy-happy-human-podcast/

Connect With The Podcast Host Noble IJ:
http://www.podbio.me/thebeautifullybrokenme

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This episode is incredibly informative as my guest Mikki Gaffen-Stone identified what it meant to attack a child’s behavior verse their identity. In this episode, Mikki focused on building a clear communication which would lead to greater understanding between the parent and the child. Mikki also provided some practical examples of a typical behaviors/communication which parents could use to communicate with their child/ward. Mikki shared from her great wealth of experience as a professional parenting, fitness and nutrition coach. This episode would leave you with certain helpful tools, knowledge and resources that would help you raise your child with ease.
Listen to the full conversation here: http://www.thebeautifullybrokenme.com/podcast

Some Key Highlights:
🎯 Why is my child like this? 4:55
🎯 When you begin a statement with the word “YOU” 6:10
🎯 Verbal abuse and it’s huge impact on the child 8:05
🎯 Burnt out parents? “I don’t like my child anymore” 12:45
🎯 Raising a child is scary this days 17:55
🎯 Inferiority complex in children 22:50
🎯 Effective communication and language tips 28:19
🎯 Mikki’s incredible story  33:50
🎯 I messed up as a parent; how can I undo it? 39:04
🎯 Check for understanding when you communicate with your child 41:12

Meet My Guest-Mikki Gaffen Stone;
As a coach, Mikki assists her  clients throughout the different regions she have lived and traveled to achieve their personal, parenting and health goals. This indeed makes her truly happy. Mikki said and I quote “That spark in someone's eyes when they achieve the goal they set out for is one of the most amazing aspects of coaching to me! The essence of my work is to facilitate self-growth by helping people identify their goals, and the core challenges and setbacks to obtaining those goals, so that you can overcome them with confidence.” 

Connect with Mikki:
www.mikkithecompassionatecoach.com
email: [email protected] (it is not ".com")
Any Questions For Mikki?
send to: [email protected]

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In this super informative and insightful episode of The Beautifully Broken Me Podcast, I sat with an amazing guest Shane Thrapp and we discussed: Creating Order Out of Chaos (Overcoming Adult ADHD).
Listen to the full conversation at: http://www.thebeautifullybrokenme.com/podcast

This episode would  help you understand the limitation that ADHD places on people. My guest Shane opened up about his challenges with adult ADHD and how he overcame them. Shane helps people break-free from the bondage that ADHD places on them; so that they can become their truest authentic self. Shane and I narrowed the conversation down to relationship, why some relationship fail, and how to deal with toxic relationships.

Some Key Highlight:
🎯 Understanding Adult ADHD 04:42
🎯 Root Causes of ADHD 09:03
🎯 Shane’s Incredible Personal Story 12:45
🎯 How I Started my ADHD Journey 18:20
🎯 Do I Have ADHD?  26:05
🎯 Men In Toxic Relationship? 31:40
🎯 You Need To Man Up! 34:40
🎯 Advise For Men In Toxic Relationships  36:10
🎯 Relationships Don’t Have To Last Forever 38:50
🎯 When You Marry From Ages (18-23) 41:09
🎯 Shane’s Final Advise 52:00

About Shane Thrapp:
Shane Thrapp is a Certified Life and Relationship Coach with a specialization in ADHD and Ethical Non-Monogamy. He founded Creating Order From Chaos to help people dealing with life's chaos create order from it. For many years, he has studied
ADHD, relationships, and ethical non-monogamy.

Shane uses this knowledge and his years of experience in Leadership roles to help his clients create solutions that will work for them to solve the problems that they face. We have to break free of the masks that we wear, that we put on to appear "normal". Part of working with me is helping you discover your authentic self, breaking free of the unrealistic expectations of our society, and finding the real you. If you're ready to remove your masks, then connect with Shane, he is willing to work with you.

Other ADHD Resources
http://additudemag.com/
http://www.chadd.org

Connect with Shane Thrapp
http://[email protected]
https://www.facebook.com/CreatingOrderFromChaosCoaching
http://www.instagram.com/CreatingOrderFromChaosCoaching
http://www.linkedin.com/CreatingOrderFromChaos

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In this soul-enriching, insightful and super informative episode of 'The Beautifully Broken Me Podcast'; we discussed "You Must Listen To This Before You Say I Do (Save Your Life And Be Informed)".  If you are or know anyone who is preparing for marriage kindly share this episode with them; this episode would change their life forever. This foundational preparation would save you from many years of heart ache, relationship traumas and failed marriage.
Listen to the full episode here: http://www.thebeautifullybrokenme.com/podcast

Some Highlights
🎯 Chinda's incredible personal story:  Why I do the things I do 6:27
🎯 What actually makes marriage relationships work? 11:35
🎯 Things we should know to get ready before you say I do 18:30
🎯 The incredible analogy unveiled - The alignment 25:10
🎯 Knowing You - Self awareness and identity discovery 31:20
🎯 You can only marry when you are able to marry yourself 36:07
🎯 Before you say i do FBI marriage questions, red flags and some practical examples  41:25
🎯 Attracting the wrong person? Marriage is a magnifying glass  1:02:32

About Chinda Chinda
Chindah Chindah, the 28th child in a family of 36 children, but dropped to the 11th child of 20 children alive. He lost 16 brothers and sisters to various illnesses during the Nigerian civil war and post-war era. His late dad had 68 grandchildren and 25 great-grandchildren with 3 wives. His early life was not glamorous and exciting at all. But he learned early on to make the best of his resources, refusing to let limitations derail him from his life's purpose.

 He is an Award-Winning Motivational and Transformational Speaker, and a Certified Life, Relationship, and Performance Coach. An NLP Practitioner, Best Selling Author, Entrepreneur, Preacher, Senior IT Consultant, Passionate Youths & Young Adults Leader & Mentor. He is the founder of the following organizations: Limitless Life Pro Academy, Married Life Management, CARE Ministry & 4XL Telecoms, UK.
He wrote two bestselling books: What Can I Do to Make My Marriage Work? and The Power Of Personal Change.

He teaches and mentors young generations and ambitious individuals to rise to the challenges and changing times, to develop into accountable and responsible leaders of tomorrow with a distinctive and high-performing mindset, while retaining their identity of their best and highest self. He coaches mature single adults, engaged persons, newly weds, married, single parents, separated and divorced, to find their unique relationships and personality differences, to responsibly manage and overcome all relationships pain points, to create and build a relationship that is stable, strong, and satisfying throughout their lives together.

Connect With Chindah Chindah: Life and Relationship Coach
Website: www.limitlesslifepro.com
Email: [email protected] [email protected]
Book publishing Website: www.4xlpublishing.com
Email: [email protected]
The Power Of Personal Change Book Amazon Link: https://goo.gl/rzrrPs
What Can I Do To Make My Marriage Work? Book Amazon Link: https://goo.gl/VDt3Af

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In this episode of ‘The Beautifully Broken Me Podcast’; I sat down with an amazingly sweet woman, Ann Visser. She is the co-founder, CEO and Life coach at 4 Better 4 Ever. Listen to the full episode here:
http://www.thebeautifullybrokenme.com/podcast
Ann and I had a soulful conversation about making clear and confident communication to build closer connection. In this episode, we discussed and highlighted "Healthy vs Unhealthy Relationship" in a clear, unique and more defined way.

Ann shared her great wealth of wisdom and all the lessons she learned from her marriage having being married to her husband (Melis) for 41 years. She stated and I quote: "We were drifting apart, neither one of us knew how to communicate very well, until one date night, I said; I can’t do this anymore! He looked at me with panic and said, what do you mean you can’t do this anymore? I can’t do marriage like this anymore! I’m so tired. And I’m so hurt.”

Ann answered some difficult questions about building effective communication in relationships. When a couple love each other, there is need for them to learn how to build effective communication skills needed to strengthen their relationship.

Some Highlights In This Episodes:

🎯 Ann’s beautiful love story 3:59
🎯 Conflict is the doorway to intimacy 8:08
🎯 Powerful pivotal conversations 9:40
🎯 Managing emotions 13:20
🎯 Unhealthy relationship 16:55
🎯 Healthy relationship 21:49
🎯 Communication skills 28:24
🎯 Practical steps for couples in challenged times 31:50

Connect with Ann Visser:
Website: http://www.4better4ever.com
Social Media⬇️
http://www.facebook.com/annvisser
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Some weeks ago one of my avid podcast listeners said to me “I don’t know how to be a mom…I have nothing in my life to give to my little child”.

Listen to this episode as Christine M Bright dissected this conversation in a way that is enlightening, enriching and inspiring. Click here to listen to the full episode: https://www.thebeautifullybrokenme.com/podcast.

In this episode of 'The Beautifully Broken Me Podcast', we discussed the topic: "I Don't Know How To Be A Mom" (Winning The Parenting Game). This topic was the heart-cry of a mom😭

I sat down and learned from Christine's great wealth of wisdom with regards to mastering the parenting game. As a certified family and parenting coach; Christine has a proven track-record when it comes to anything and everything parenting. If you are considering leveling up on your parenting game, then Christine should be your go-to.

In this episode, we touched on some crucial questions with regards to how to be the most powerful influencer in your child’s life; what to do when you have tried everything as a parent and still feel like a failure, and some uncommon strategies that would ignite cooperative behaviors, cultivate honesty, and develop resilience.

Some Highlights:
🎯 All children are not the same...10:09
🎯 Punishment does not give long term change...11:17
🎯 I do not know how to be a mom...12:35
🎯 Speak positive words to your child in every conversation...15:56
🎯 Raising children in the 21st century...19:35
🎯 What is actual defiance?...22:15
🎯 Dealing with burnt out parents...24:10
🎯 DO NOT use the word 'You' unless it is something positive...35:35
🎯 What happens when you use the word 'WHY'...36:07

About Christine M. Bright
Christine Bright is an acclaimed parenting expert and author. She was the host of TV shows on the CW network and is currently an award-winning producer and host of the Parenting Game TV show. In addition, she is on influencer podcasts and radio, and has been on NBC.

Christine is a guest speaker at Wisconsin Universities and has worked with organizations such as Patrón, Beam, Robert Mondavi, and the United Way.

She was a Therapeutic Foster Parent and is an Internationally Certified Parenting and Family Coach with over 20 years of experience working with thousands of children and families. Christine helps parents of children with Autism, ADHD, oppositional defiant disorder, and challenging behaviors who have tried everything. She specializes in assisting parents in going from chaos and yelling to peaceful homes filled with listening, cooperation, and effective communication.

Christine’s clients include the parents of a violent, suicidal child who has now successfully transitioned into the society, and an explosive and destructive middle child who became the easiest of the four in the family. Today, she helps families with a wide range of challenges. She enjoys working with parents who want to know better so they can do better.

At age 50, Christine took on the attitude, “I have a lot of life to live!” So, she flew a plane, biked 500 miles, rock climbed, water skied, and fixed a life-long speech impediment.

Contact Christine: [email protected]
Connect and Visit Her Website: https://https://www.parentinggamewins.com

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