Sometimes life may seem to be unfair; sometimes life may choose to throw certain unexpected mishaps and challenges to you and then you tend to ask some pertinent questions: Why me? What did i do wrong? Why is this happening to me? Who did i offend? Ever asked these questions? The truth is; people who ask these questions tend to think that life has given them no option.

In this thought-provoking episode, I have the pleasure and the honor of having Ethel Olomu; She is such an amazing lady. Her presence oozes so much light and positivity. In this episode, Ethel shared her thought-provoking story as a stage 4 cancer survivor. This story will bring tears to your eyes. Please grab a box of tissue paper as you listen.

In her exact words, “I was running a scholarship programme at the Lagos Business School when I felt a sharp pain in my breast. It felt like a lump in one of my breasts, little did I know that I was battling with breast cancer at an advanced stage. It was no easy battle as getting the needed care for breast cancer is a major challenge in Nigeria, as the nation has an acute shortage of cancer specialists and required equipment.”

“I went to both general and teaching hospitals in Port Harcourt Nigeria and the doctors told me not to worry about it. I was eventually  booked for surgery where they removed the lump. They said the surgery done was lumpectomy. They also told me that they would run a laboratory analysis on the removed lump to know what exactly the issue was. At that time, nobody was talking about breast cancer because it wasn’t up for discussion then.”

 “Four weeks after the tests, my breast swelled like a balloon; when I picked  up my result, they told me that nothing cancerous was found, I was somewhat happy and sad; but how come I cried, what could then be causing all this pain?

“It was an Indian hospital that eventually diagnosed my condition after eight months of acute pain. When the sample of the fluid gushing out breast eventually got to India, the Indian doctors said they were not sure that the person that owned the sample was still alive. At then point; stage four breast cancer was diagnosed. The result showed that the cancer had spread all over my body and there was nothing that could be done again. They said I should not bother about treatment, whether in India or America. They maintained that nothing could be done to remedy the situation. Doctors said I won’t make it. We tried almost 10 hospitals in India. They all said we should not bother with treatment, that I won’t make it. In their exact words, “She is already gone.” “

“To the glory of God, that is how it has been. And for 11 years now, I have not taken any medication.

 Sadly, breast cancer is a big problem in Nigeria, its prevalence is now very high. There is no functional Comprehensive Cancer Centre (CCC) in the country, where cancer cases could be fully treated. A CCC is a world-class, stand-alone tertiary health institution, with all its departments focused on cancer care. Therefore, an average Nigerian can not afford breast cancer treatment in Nigeria. Those who can resort to treatment abroad.”

Ethel got married to her lovely husband five years after her with battle with breast cancer. She is totally sold out to raising breast cancer awareness and education, as well as providing support to women and girls fighting breast cancer. She’s the CEO and founder of Engraced Life Foundation; a non-profit organization that is mainly to educate, help and give hope to women who are diagnosed with breast cancer; enlightening them to accept treatment if and when diagnosed. She enjoins us to support to save a breast.

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What happens when it seems like life has given you no option? You were certainly not to be blamed for all of the things that happened to you, they were not your fault; but they happened anyways. You often wondered why your life played out the way it did, and how the rest of your peers are happier, and in better homes than you. What happens when you have to make certain decisions as a minor simply because it all lies in your hands at the moment?

On today’s SUPERCLASS episode, Leticia Francis chronicled the blueprint of breaking out from the place called ‘mess’ and repurposing her mess as an inspiring message to help others.  Leticia's life journey started from several years of turmoil which made her feel as though life gave her no option. When Leticia  was a little girl, she was told that her birth was the reason her parents' divorced.  That was incredibly devastating, and self sabotaging for her. She spent years after years trying to figure out who she was. Being constantly reminded that she was too much, too loud, too opinionated, and too smart for her own good. This created a storm inside of her which left her no option than to seek after love, and attention. Which led to her to marrying a man who was twice her age where she experienced all manner of abuse, and traumas.

Leticia's compelling story is clear indication that broken crayons still colors. Her incredible story depicts the resilience of turning your adversity into advantage. Leticia is a highly sort after speaker; she helps women all over the world to build their own businesses in order to get their minds right, so they can see the success, and fulfillment they desire in their lives. 

Leticia is originally from Bamulda; she lives with her lovely husband and children in England.

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One of the biggest frustrations of waiting is these questions people often ask:
🎯 How long is too long to wait?
🎯 What happens when waiting seems too long? 
🎯 How long would i wait for?

Waiting could be interesting at the very beginning and then later on, we begin to lose our flavor, zeal and enthusiasm. People wait for several reasons; a promotion, a recognition, a relationship, a plane, a bus, for the light to turn green etc. Whether we recognize this or not; waiting is constant in our lives. Waiting for too long could be devastating and when this happens, we begin to question our decision, and we begin to second guess ourselves.

In this thought-provoking episode; Ngozika Osuagwu popularly called Culate chronicled her waiting season "the lens of an expectant mother" using a few steps:

🎯 Unoccupied time feels longer than occupied time...get busy!
🎯 Anxiety and worry makes waiting seem longer...try to make yourself happy
🎯When you wait while pre-occupied with many things, it feels seamless and goes by quickly.

Culate’s journey from a traumatic waiting season - (her journey to motherhood) which led her from a painful self-rejection, and shame to a more radical self-love, and self confidence. All these has prepared her to lead, inspire, offer hope, and solutions to those living a shadow of themselves as a result of being in their season of waiting. She shares her story of resilience (in order to encourage waiting mother's, and anyone in their season of waiting) on how she thrived, recuperated, and found hope, courage, and fortitude during her season of waiting. This episode will leave you captivated, thrilled, and revived. Culate is determined to help people live out their dreams, soar, triumph, and to become highly desirable. She has curated unique tools to teach others how to tap into their superpower of resilience, and perseverance through her life’s challenges.

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Culate is an epitome of courage, a speaker, a coach, and a trainer. She is an entrepreneur, and the CEO of Innorick Global Company. She is fondly called the 'Encourager' as her sole passion is to motivate, encourage, and empower people - especially women. She is a polymath; who is super talented, and incredibly multifaceted. She empowers people around the world via sharing her great wealth of wisdom, on how she became self employed by teaching them several vocational skills such as; production of all kinds of detergents, liquid soaps, bar soaps, perfumes, etc.

Culate is deeply enthusiastic about helping people boost their self confidence by empowering them; making them use these skills to become their own boss. She also offers private and group coaching services to organizations, and anyone who wants to become self employed; teaching them to tap into the power of their hands, and the journey to becoming self employed. Her small business (Innorick Global Company) offers people high-quality industrial chemicals in wholesale and retail.

Professionally, Culate is a Guidance and Counselor. She practiced for a few years delving into being a full time entrepreneur.

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Today’s guest will definitely shift your paradigm on how to effectively win through lives adversities. Tonbra Nwosuagwu dissects the master key that unlocks any door of depression, adversity and low life state.

In this MASTERCLASS episode; Tonbra shared her personal story growing up as a child from her lowest low life state and how she navigated through all of lives adversities victoriously.
This episode will elevate you from your lowest mental state to a winning mindset where you will enjoy life to the fullest.

Meet my guest:
Tonbra is transformation coach and a podcast expert, who helps people plan and launch their Podcasts. As host of the trending Unscathed Life Podcast, she interviews guests and shares knowledge and tools for thriving beyond adversity.  Tonbra's life's message is to help people make better decisions about what they choose to accept about themselves, and this desire was birthed from her personal story of overcoming adversity in childhood.

Tonbra is also an experienced program Management Consultant with over 12 years experience across a number of industrial sectors including Oil and Gas, Investment Banking, Utilities and Automotive. Furthermore, Tonbra has delivered Enterprise Level Agile Leadership Coaching to Senior Executives of Top-Tier organizations in the UK. She holds an M.sc with distinction in Process Engineering from the University of Surrey in the United Kingdom.

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www.instagram.com/tonbranwosuagwu
www.tonbra.com

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🎯Sex! Sex!! Sex!!! Is sex the silent cause of conflict in many homes and relationships?
🎯Are there people who are sexophobic and thus brought such fears to their marriage?
🎯How about when either parties are not sexually satisfied; could this result to marital conflicts?
🎯How about; I am a very private person; I don't like discussing about my sexuality. Could this lead to marital conflict?

These and many more were dissected in this episode as my guest, Pst. (Mrs.) Janet Ajobiewe continued the episode where she practically reached the climax of sex, sexual intimacy and foreplay. This super incredible episode will help you develop a hunger for lovemaking and sexual intimacy with your spouse, where you will enjoy the sexual bonds, touches and secret love languages. This episode is specially recommended to every married man or woman, or any young adult who is preparing for marriage.

Oh! Incase you missed the last episode; I highly recommend you listen to it here as this episode is a continuation (Pt. 2)

Connect With Pst. Mrs. Janet:
www.facebook.com/familyrobust
www.instagram.com/janetajobiewe 
You can send her an email at: [email protected]  

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Is it hard for you to resolve conflict in your marriage/relationship? Conflicts in marriage can lead to communication problems which eventually leaves bad feelings like anger, resentment, revenge, and can even in extreme cases cause a divorce to happen. How about unresolved conflicts with your spouse, partner or significant other? 

In this super intriguing episode; I have an awesome pleasure of having Pastor (Mrs.) Janet Ajobiewe on my podcast show.  She is an incredible family coach, a passionate lover of children, the author of Teju gets the key(an expository book on Child Sexual Abuse in high demand and approved by some states in Nigeria for their school curriculum).

She is a lovely pastor's wife with children, presently residing in Burkina Faso where she helps to proffer solutions to family related crisis. She also mentors children with proper guidance and orientation to discover and fulfill destiny by teaching them the right values and virtues such as VIRGINITY IS A VIRTUE and Fighting Child Sexual Abuse. Janet and her husband are rescue agents on a global mission reaching out to the married, singles, single parents and children. They have a non-profit organization called "Bezaleel's Hands Of Love" (BHOL) foundation.  She is available for counseling every time the need arises.

On today's conflict resolution MASTERCLASS; Pastor (Mrs.) Janet chronicles her harrowing marital experiences from being in a state when she and her spouse had to deal with unresolved conflicts in her marriage and how that became a stepping stone for them. Her vulnerability and practical examples were the icing to the cake which made this episode incredibly thought provoking.

As the episode reached a great climax; we had to invite Pst. Mrs. Janet Ajobiewe for a double dose in order to grasp all she has been divinely inspired to share with us. This episode was hence broken into parts as thus: Sex & Marital Conflicts In Marriage. Episode 30 pt. 2

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www.facebook.com/familyrobust
www.instagram.com/janetajobiewe 
You can send her an email at: [email protected] 

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What happens when life gives you lemon; what would you do with it?
In this incredible episode; I had an amazing conversation with an iconic lady; she is such a sweet soul. Despite all the challenges of life she has encountered; Jessika Fuhrmaneck  still gives back to the community in ways unimaginable. She is a dedicated advocate for the support and recovery of women who have been exploited in the commercial sex trade. She is a writer, a public speaker, and actor. She is also a member of the Speakers Bureau for Treasures Ministry as well as Nola Brantley Speaks, which are survivor led organizations designed to bring awareness, resources, and empowerment to victims of human trafficking and exploitation.

Jessika’s focus is helping hurting people get from where they are to where they want to be. She writes content intended to empower and equip individuals, families, and communities. Most recently, she published her latest book entitled "From Pain To Purpose", of which all the proceeds go to benefit survivors through her foundation. Jessika is currently based in Los Angeles, California where she continues her work as an actor and writer. Jessika shared some of the 'ahas' from her book which provides a 12 action steps towards helping people get back on track with their life's purpose after experiencing any kind of trauma or loss.

 In this episode; Jessika shared some of her personal stories; her losses (divorce, cancer, assault) and how she successfully navigated all of those in a way that eventually became a best selling book to help others navigate their trauma and loss.  Jessika also shared her super resilient thriving story of how she discovered the will to live again after having a rare form of blood cancer for 3 years. This episode provides an incredibly great awakening to anyone who is having a hard time with any of lives struggles and challenges.

In Jessika's last and final word for my listeners; Here is her exact words; "What you focus on matters. It will get bigger. Whatever you speak about will multiply. Choose your words wisely, because your reality will soon follow those thoughts".

Anyone who orders Jessika's latest book, From Pain To Purpose, automatically qualifies to sign up for one free coaching session through my website. Please sign up by going to www.FromPainToPurpose.org and inputting your email at the bottom of the page. Let Jessika know that you heard about this offer on The Beautifully Broken Me podcast show in order to receive the offer. Remember that all proceeds from the book go to benefit survivors of exploitation and human trafficking.

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www.instagram.com/JessikaFuhrmaneck

www.facebook.com/JessikaFuhrmaneckOfficial

www.twitter.com/JessFuhrmaneck

www.clubhouse.com/JessFuhrmaneck

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In this episode, I have the pleasure of having Abigail Damoah on my podcast show. Abigail is a speaker, an author and a copywriter. She shared some thought provoking and highly inspiring story of her experience after serving five (5) years in the Florida State prison for a crime she did not commit. She has learnt one very important life lesson; You will find treasures in the darkest places if you simply change your perspective.

In her exact words “I was labelled as a killer who had destroyed a family and deserved the full wrath of the law. When I was sentenced to 12 years in Florida state prison, they celebrated my demise. When my case was dismissed by the 4th District Court of Appeals, they were silent. Today, that same story is inspiring people worldwide! God will raise you up, right in front of the people who tried to tear you down!”

When faced with life's adversity, rarely does anyone stop to consider the purpose behind the pain. We rarely step outside of ourselves to discover the pearls of wisdom that is often buried in our pains and struggles. Rather, we often choose to whine and complain.

As a coach, Abigail teaches people how to turn their pain into power. She uses her great wealth of wisdom and experience to impact lives; helping them find treasures in the darkest places, and how to turn their adversity into power. During our conversation she said; "My pain led me to my purpose, and now my hearts desire is to share this message with the world".  Abigail's story inspires people all over the world. 

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Instagram:www.instagram.com/abigaildamoahofficial
Facebook: www.facebook.com/abigaildamoahofficial Twitter: www.twitter.com/abigail_damoah

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In this episode; I have the pleasure of having Dr. Chii for the continuation of our conversation "The Authentic Leading Lady". Dr. Chii addressed questions like -  how can someone attract the right people into their lives? How can one become their truest authentic self? This incredible episode is lit🔥If you are a man, I encourage you to listen too. Lessons taught in this episode applies to men too.
A sick mind is a sick body  ~Dr. Chibuzor Uwadi
When your mind is unaligned; your body becomes misaligned ~Dr. Chibuzor Uwadi

If you are hungry for more; hungry to awaken the sleeping giant inside of you, and ready to unleash, manifest and rewrite your story; then this episode is for you.
It draws you to self discovery, self awakening, self identity and self mastery. Where you will fully come to the realization of your truest authentic self. Where you will learn and manifest how to get past your past and embrace the future. I pray and hope that this episode ushers you into loving and enjoying every tiny little detail about your uniqueness; and you enjoy loving you just the way you are.

About My Guest:
Dr. Chibuzor Uwadi is a visionary leader, and an optometry trainer, an educator, a speaker, writer and mentor. Her passion for transforming the girl-child  has led to her speaking at various platforms, coaching them on how to become global authentic leading ladies.  Dr. Chii helps women discover their hidden gifts so that they can manifest and be the better version of themselves, living authentic lives. She is excited about her upcoming books and Mastermind courses focused at raising queens and authentic leading ladies globally.

Some Key Highlights:
🎯Steps To Attracting The Right People (3:30)
🎯The Power Of Visualization (7:15)
🎯Be Mindful Of What You Fill Your Mind And Thoughts With (11:05)
🎯Personal & Intentional Self Development (13:42)
🎯Set Healthy Boundaries (16:30)
🎯The Power Of Positive Affirmation (17:12)
🎯Plant The Things That Will Flourish You (24:13)
🎯Becoming A Leading Authentic Lady (29:15)
🎯You Are A Queen & A King (37:11)

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https://www.instagram.com/drchivision
 https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticleadinglady

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You Can't Be A Master of Life Without Going Through The Misery Of Life ~ Dr. Chibuzor Uwadi

Welcome to the 25th Episode of the Beautifully Broken Me Podcast. This episode is in 2 parts; it ushers us into the topic: The Authentic Leading Lady (Becoming Your Truest Authentic Self).

This episode draws you to self discovery, self awakening, self identity and self mastery.
In this episode; you will fully come to the realization of how to effectively manifest into your truest authentic self. This episode will awaken the sleeping giant inside of you; where you will love and enjoy every little tiny detail about your uniqueness.

About My Guest:
Dr Chibuzor Uwadi is a visionary leader, and an optometry trainer, an educator, a speaker, writer and mentor. Her passion for transforming the girl-child  has lead to her speaking at various platforms, coaching them on how to become global authentic leading ladies.  Dr Uwadi helps women discover their hidden gifts so that they can manifest and be the better version of themselves, living authentic lives. She is excited about her upcoming books and Mastermind courses focused at raising queens and authentic leading ladies globally.

By profession; Dr Chibuzor Uwadi: UK- certified and award- winning Optometrist. She is a Fellow of the American Academy of Optometry (FAAO), Member of the College of Optometrists (McOptom) (UK), Doctor of Optometry (OD)(Nigeria). She obtained her post graduate Diploma in Community Eye Health (UCL) London and a post-graduate certificate in Global Health from Harvard USA.  She has a certificate in Leadership from Harvard Business School

Some Key Highlights:
🎯Who Is An Authentic Leading Lady? (5:55)
🎯The God Factor (8:05)
🎯The Mindset Of The Authentic Leading Lady...Relatable Life Analogy Shared (10:27)
🎯Queens Living As Slaves (15:40)
🎯Similar Relatable Analogy As Shared In  Episode 19 - A Suicide Survivor Story (16:50)
🎯How To Become An Authentic Leading Lady (18:12)
🎯The Super Diagnosis: Detachment Phase (22:47)
🎯The Forgiveness Phase (25:30)
🎯You are Unstoppable (31:28)

Connect With Dr. Chibuzor Uwadi
https://www.instagram.com/drchivision
https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticleadinglady
https://www.facebook.com/chibuzoruwadi


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