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  • Ep. 68 Travel Mania with Karen Gershowitz

    In this episode of 'The Beauty In The Mess,' Karen Gershowitz shares her incredible journey of becoming a world traveler. Having visited over 95 countries and authored two books, Karen dives into the inspirations behind her travels, her passion for connecting with locals, and her experiences traveling solo. She recounts memorable encounters from all over the globe, discusses the unique foods she’s tried, and gives practical advice on overcoming travel fears. Karen also touches on the impacts of her travels on her personal growth, spirituality, and perspectives on different cultures and religions. She provides listeners with tips for safe and enriching travels, whether exploring nearby places or venturing overseas.

     

    01:45 Introduction and Guest Welcome

    01:59 Inspiration Behind World Travels

    04:02 Traveling Solo: Tips and Experiences

    06:06 Overcoming Fear While Traveling

    12:42 Memorable Encounters and Friendships

    18:04 Cultural Insights and Personal Growth

    22:00 Journaling and Documenting Travels

    26:08 Challenging Travel Experiences

    32:46 Helping Tourists in Manhattan

    33:45 Traveling Across the United States and Canada

    34:14 Exploring Indiana's Hidden Gems

    36:42 Overcoming Fear of Travel

    37:22 Dream Destinations and Bucket Lists

    39:23 The Beauty of the United States

    42:31 The Translator Experience in Singapore

    46:15 Writing and Publishing Travel Books

    56:58 Travel Tips and Final Thoughts

     

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    1 hr 2 min
  • Ep. 67 Kari Schwear's Journey Out Of The Gray Area

    In this heartfelt episode of 'The Beauty In The Mess,' host Michele welcomes Kari Schwear, a coach and author. Kari delves into the concept of gray area drinking, where individuals are neither social drinkers nor alcoholics but struggle with moderate alcohol use. Kari emphasizes the importance of individuals regulating their emotions and to make lasting changes. She also shares insights on the transformative power of breathwork and the integral role of faith in her journey.


    Kari is an Executive Lifestyle Gray Area Coach specializing in the many gray areas we have in our lives, particularly with gray area drinking. Her zone of genius is in habit creation, communication, leadership development and intentional living by design.


    As a former gray area drinker, Kari founded GrayTonic & the Question the Drink movement in 2018 after her own experience of “living in the gray” led her to the service of others. She offers individual and group coaching for business leaders seeking wellness, performance, and better relationships without alcohol. Kari has also co-authored two books, The Successful Mind, Tools for Living a Purposeful, Productive, and Happy Life, along with her second book, Limitless, a Wall Street Journal #1 Bestseller!


    02:10 Introduction and Welcome

    02:18 Kari's Personal Journey

    05:08 Discovering Gray Area Drinking

    05:47 Understanding Gray Areas in Life

    14:10 The Decide Model of Change

    23:55 The Saber Method for Emotional Regulation

    27:50 Radical Honesty and Inner Guidance

    28:47 The Power of Choice

    29:19 Planting Seeds of Change

    29:49 The Journey to Sobriety

    31:27 Finding Support and Guidance

    32:01 The Birth of a Coaching Career

    34:52 Embracing Breathwork

    37:27 The Importance of Self-Relationship

    39:03 Overcoming Trauma and Identity

    44:16 The Role of Gratitude

    46:15 Building a Coaching Business

    49:21 Sharing Stories and Wisdom

    52:38 Final Thoughts and Encouragement


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    55 min
  • Ep. 66 School Safety: The First Five Minutes Could Save Your Child's Life with Daniel Dluzneski

    Join me on The Beauty In The Mess for an enlightening conversation on "School Safety: The First Five Minutes Can Save Your Child’s Life" with Daniel Dluzneski!


    With the school year just beginning, school safety and what to do when there is an active shooter are very important and relevant topics! 🌟👩‍⚕️


    In this episode, Dan shares his journey from being in the Secret Service to becoming the Coordinator of Emergency Management, Safety and Security for one of the largest school districts in Florida. There, he was responsible for the safety of over 100,000 students in 140 schools! 💡❤️


    Dan stresses that you should talk to your kids about their school's emergency drills! It might be difficult, but understanding how schools handle crises is crucial. As a parent or guardian, you need to know how your school plans to handle such an emergency. There are less than optimum plans being implemented at some schools. 🏫🔒


    Ask your children:

    • Are they locking down the classrooms?
    • Having the kids literally run out of classrooms?
    • Throwing objects at the gunman during drills?
    • What are the kids being told to do?

    You need to know the statistically best way that things should be handled, and you need to know how your school is handling it. If you have concerns, attend school board meetings & make your voice heard. A united group of parents can drive change. If that doesn’t work, seek out your legislators. 📣


    02:00 Introduction: Engaging with Your Kids

    40:37 Understanding School Emergency Drills

    40:55 Parental Involvement and School Safety

    41:35 Taking Action: School Board and Legislation

    42:25 Resources for Proper Emergency Drills

    42:40 Conclusion: Leveraging Available Information


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    51 min
  • Ep. 65 Extinguishing Caregiver Burnout with Dr. Susan Landers

    In this episode of 'The Beauty In The Mess,' Dr. Susan Landers, a retired neonatologist and author of 'So Many Babies,' shares her journey through the challenges of a demanding medical career and motherhood. She discusses the impact of work-life balance, the struggles of burnout, and the importance of self-care for working mothers. Dr. Landers offers practical advice on managing emotional exhaustion and emphasizes the necessity of human connection and prioritizing one’s well-being. Listeners will gain insights into dealing with parental guilt, setting boundaries, and finding empowerment in sharing experiences with others.


    02:04 Introduction and Welcome

    02:17 Journey to Neonatology

    03:05 Balancing Career and Family

    04:35 Struggles with Burnout

    06:13 Finding a New Path

    10:43 Writing and Advocacy

    14:16 Challenges of Caregiving

    28:17 Work-Life Balance

    33:30 Balancing Emotional Labor in Relationships

    36:46 Understanding and Addressing Burnout

    38:35 Steps to Recover from Burnout

    40:39 The Power of Nature and Journaling

    42:49 Connecting with Friends and Self-Care

    49:12 The Concept of a 'Good Enough' Mother

    53:26 Insights from 'So Many Babies'

    56:26 Addressing Feelings of Unworthiness

    57:53 Where to Find More from Dr. Landers


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    1 hr 1 min
  • Ep. 64 A Journey of Self-Love and Healing with Jessica Evans

    A Journey of Self-Love and Healing with Jessica Evans


    In this episode of 'Beauty and the Mess,' I welcome Jessica, the author of 'Fade to Light,' who shares her remarkable journey of transformation. Jessica recounts her decision to leave a successful career in 2019 to pursue a life of writing and creativity. She delves into the process of writing her memoir, the cathartic experiences of confronting her past, and the unexpected healing it brought. Jessica opens up about her complex childhood, marked by trauma and restrictive religious beliefs, and how she embarked on a decades-long journey of self-love and acceptance. She discusses the practice of self-love, the impact of grief on her outlook on life, and the importance of introducing unconditional love in parenting. This heartfelt conversation sheds light on the power of owning one's story, the art of prayer however that looks for you, and the continual effort to build a nurturing and loving relationship with oneself.


    01:57 Introduction and Welcome

    02:05 Jessica's Journey to Becoming an Author

    04:02 The Healing Power of Writing

    04:32 Exploring Childhood and Family Dynamics

    06:03 Reconnecting with the Past

    08:46 The Love Project: A Journey to Self-Love

    10:55 Overcoming the Inner Critic

    16:10 Acceptance and Moving Forward

    18:39 Navigating Family Estrangement

    26:43 Parenting and Building Bonds

    28:41 The Impact of Loss and Grief

    29:09 Writing as a Healing Journey

    32:04 The Concept of Self-Love

    40:33 The Power of Gratitude

    46:09 Redefining Prayer

    48:39 Final Reflections and Gratitude


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    56 min
  • Ep. 63 Journey Beyond Inflammation: Sherry Diamond's Balance 4 Life

    Journey Beyond Inflammation: Sherry Diamond’s Balance 4 Life


    In this episode of 'The Beauty In The Mess,' Sherry Diamond, a wellness coach and founder of Balance 4  Life, shares her transformative journey from struggling with weight and pre-diabetes to losing 103 pounds and maintaining her health through a researched, anti-inflammatory diet. Sherry discusses the detrimental effects of processed foods and sugars, the importance of clean eating, and how her diet program helps others achieve lasting health and wellness. She also delves into not just clean eating but clean living by watching all of the products she puts in or on her body. Additionally, she also touches on the mental and emotional hurdles people face when making lifestyle changes and stresses the importance of a positive mindset and prioritizing health. The conversation includes practical advice on meal prep, identifying signs of inflammation, and navigating social pressures while maintaining healthy habits.


    01:55 Introduction and Welcoming Sherry

    02:06 Sherry's Journey to Wellness

    04:55 Understanding Inflammation and Diet

    07:36 Sherry's Program and Meal Prep

    10:39 Maintaining Weight Loss and Healthy Eating

    13:04 Challenges and Misconceptions in Health

    14:35 Personal Experiences and Overcoming Health Issues

    17:43 The Role of Diet in Managing Inflammation

    22:22 The Impact of Processed Foods and Chemicals

    35:09 Weight Loss Medications and Clean Ingredients

    40:32 Navigating Grocery Options

    41:20 Recipe Sharing and Program Details

    43:36 Essential Oils and Natural Remedies

    46:33 Overcoming Addictions and Cravings

    49:36 Maintaining Health and Avoiding Inflammation

    01:06:03 The Impact of Stress on Health

    01:011:27 Final Thoughts and Farewell

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    1 hr 15 min
  • Ep. 62 Mastering Self-Awareness, Accountability, and Growth with Kyle Gillette

    Mastering Self-Awareness, Accountability, and Growth with Kyle Gillette


    For this episode, I am happy to welcome Kyle Gillette to the show. Kyle is a successful business and mindset coach and founder of the Blue Shirt Leadership Framework. He discusses his unique journey from growing up on an orange farm to creating a transformative leadership framework. Kyle explains the core elements of the BLUE acronym, which stands for Be a self-aware leader, Lead with accountability, Use a growth mindset, and Empower others. He shares insights into helping 'dad-preneurs' and pet resort owners overcome limiting beliefs and empowering employees. The conversation delves into techniques for self-empowerment, maintaining work-life balance, and utilizing frameworks like passive, active, and self-accountability. Kyle also touches upon his approach to using hypnotherapy and NLP for instantaneously breaking bad habits and achieving goals.


    02:22 Introduction and Welcome

    02:36 Kyle's Backstory: From Orange Farm to Business Mentor

    03:01 The Blue Shirt Leadership Framework Explained

    03:41 Journey to Business Success

    05:17 Focusing on Dadpreneurs and Pet Resort Owners

    05:52 Breaking Through Limiting Beliefs

    10:45 Empowering Others: The Five Steps

    14:34 Accountability: The Heart of Leadership

    15:53 Personal Accountability and Goal Setting

    20:06 Tracking Life and Business Metrics

    26:57 The Power of Five-Word Stories

    28:23 Learning from Negative Experiences

    29:00 The Growth in the Valleys

    31:04 Forming New Habits: How Long Does It Take?

    32:50 Instantaneous Change: Techniques and Examples

    36:11 Creating a Personal Avatar for Long-Term Success

    38:01 Reframing Bad Habits with NLP

    39:43 The Role of Hypnosis in NLP

    48:03 The Impact of Gratitude on Leadership

    49:27 Conclusion and Contact Information

     

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    50 min
  • Ep. 61 The Journey From Anxiety to Healing with Dr. Symeon Rodger

    The Journey from Anxiety to Healing with Dr. Rodger


    In this episode of 'Beauty in the Mess,' Michele welcomes Dr. Rodger, a best-selling author who specializes in personal transformation. Dr. Rodger shares his backstory, revealing a troubled childhood affected by anxiety, and explains how practices like Tai Chi and Qigong helped him overcome his struggles. They delve into the differences between Tai Chi and Qigong, discuss the significance of proper breathing and posture, and touch on techniques for mental and physical healing. The conversation also explores the concepts of willpower, habit formation, and the power of manifesting one's desires. Listeners will gain insights into ancient practices for achieving holistic wellness and integrating mind and body.


    Dr. Symeon Rodger's more “sedate” side has expressed itself as a university professor, a married priest of the Eastern Orthodox Church and a best-selling author on the personal transformation methods of ancient traditions. On the more “edgy” side, Symeon is a martial arts expert, a certified emergency management professional, and trained in counter-terrorism by veterans of the US and Israeli special forces. He specializes in everything related to mindset and peak performance, and has taught Mind-Body Integration methods to thousands worldwide over the past 18 years.


    02:05 Introduction and Welcome

    02:13 Dr. Roger's Backstory: Overcoming Anxiety

    05:07 Discovering Tai Chi and Its Impact

    09:03 Understanding Tai Chi and Qigong

    21:18 The Importance of Proper Breathing

    25:00 Healing Practices and Techniques

    26:23 Exploring Energy Healing Modalities

    27:09 Mind-Body Integration Explained

    28:12 The Intelligence of the Heart

    31:31 Exercise: Focusing Mental Attention

    35:54 Manifesting and Revising the Past

    40:05 Achieving Unstoppable Willpower

    43:33 The Role of Passion in Hard Work

    47:31 Final Thoughts and Resources

     

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    51 min
  • Ep. 60 Healing from Chronic Dieting and Emotional Eating with Tracy Desjardins

    In this episode of 'The Beauty In The Mess,' Michele welcomes Tracy Desjardins, a coach who helps women heal from chronic dieting and emotional eating. Tracy shares her personal journey, starting from her early struggles with dieting and binge eating to her eventual aha moment in her late forties. She discusses the importance of telling one's food story, mindfulness, discovering personal values, and building a balanced relationship with food. Tracy talks about her five-step healing pathway, the importance of rejecting diet mentality, and fostering self-acceptance and compassion. The episode delves into practical tips for managing cravings, food boundaries, and integrating joyful movement into daily life. Tracy also introduces her book 'Diet Free Diva' and various resources designed to help women build healthier relationships with food.

     

    Tracy is a National Board-Certified Health and Wellness Coach (NBC-HWC), a Mind Body Eating Coach (IPE), a Fitness Professional (ACE) and the international best-selling author of The Diet-Free Diva. Her focus for coaching is dedicated to helping other women find freedom from the shackles of dieting and emotional eating challenges, and to find sustainable peace with food, body, and self so they can live their life on their own trusted terms, without ever going on another restrictive diet again.

     

    02:33 Introduction and Welcoming Tracy

    02:41 Tracy's Personal Journey with Dieting

    05:39 The Turning Point: Fitness and Realizations

    08:02 Struggles and Realizations in Adulthood

    11:40 Mindful Eating and Emotional Healing

    20:50 Five-Step Approach to Healing

    31:36 Skepticism About Intermittent Fasting

    32:02 Personal Experiences with Intermittent Fasting

    33:32 Trusting Your Intuition

    33:27 Challenges with Food and Social Situations

    34:34 The Role of Fitness in Well-being

    35:32 Finding Enjoyable Physical Activities

    38:25 The Importance of Good Energy

    39:14 Addressing Sleep Issues

    40:56 Keys to Sustainable Eating

    43:17 Mindfulness and Childhood Influences

    46:03 Self-Compassion and Healing

    46:52 Journaling and Positive Self-Talk

    50:03 Emotional Eating Rescue

    52:02 Coaching Programs and Resources

    53:30 Final Thoughts and Reflections

     

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    1 hr
  • Ep. 59 Melding Neurocoaching with Functional Medicine with Cristy Murray

    Melding Neurocoaching with Functional Medicine with Cristy Murray


    In this episode of 'The Beauty In The Mess', host Michele welcomes Neurocoach, Cristy, who shares her journey from being an infertility survivor to becoming a health coach specializing in helping women overcome generational trauma and narcissistic relationships. Cristy delves into neurocoaching tactics used to rewire the brain’s responses to deep-rooted beliefs and behaviors passed down through generations. She explains the tools and methods, like the STEPDAR process and brain priming, which help clients reshape their emotional and physical responses to achieve a healthier mindset. Additionally, Cristy discusses functional medicine's role in understanding how diet, stress, and lifestyle impact holistic well-being. Tune in to learn how blending neuro-coaching and functional medicine can pave the way for emotional and physical transformation.


    02:14 Introduction and Welcome

    02:22 Christy's Backstory: From Infertility to Neuro Coaching

    03:23 Understanding Generational Trauma

    06:17 Rewiring the Brain: Techniques and Processes

    11:43 The STEPDAR Method for Managing Triggers

    25:26 Combining Functional Medicine with Neuro Coaching

    29:22 Setting Healthy Boundaries

    30:17 Societal Programming and Emotional Eating

    30:37 The Minions Movie and Emotional Eating

    31:53 Fitness and Neurocoaching

    32:28 Stress and Its Impact on Health

    35:49 Continuous Glucose Monitoring

    40:40 Procrastination and Dopamine

    46:52 Setting Boundaries and Personal Growth

    52:18 Conclusion and Contact Information

     

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    58 min

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The Beauty in the Mess Podcast is about rewriting your story. You feel like others (or yourself) have boxed you into a specific role, but you know that is not who you truly are. Then it’s time to give…