The Best Birth Podcast

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  • 43 - Maternity Leave Mastery - Creating a Smooth Transition Back to Work with Laurel Bandy

    In this episode, Laurel Bandy discusses the importance of maternity leave and how to prepare for balancing motherhood and career. She highlights the lack of federal paid leave in the United States and the varying policies of employers and states. Laurel provides advice on preparing for maternity leave, including researching state and employer programs, communicating with HR, and planning for childcare. She also discusses the options for returning to work after maternity leave, such as phased returns, flexible work hours, job sharing, and teleworking. Laurel emphasizes the need for paid family leave and the impact of maternity leave on the wage gap.

    CHAPTERS

    00:00 Introduction and Background of Maternity Leave
    06:35 Preparing for Maternity Leave: Researching Programs and Planning for Childcare
    13:41 Returning to Work After Maternity Leave: Phased Returns and Flexible Work Arrangements
    26:55 Childcare Options and Considerations
    32:25 Recommended Resources: Ina May Gaskin's Books

    RESOURCES

    Your Baby, Your Child - Penelope
    Ina May's Guide to Childbirth
    Links from Laurel:
    https://bipartisanpolicy.org/explainer/state-paid-family-leave-laws-across-the-u-s/

    https://www.eeoc.gov/pregnancy-discrimination

    https://www.dol.gov/agencies/oasam/civil-rights-center/internal/policies/pregnancy-discrimination

    https://www.penguin.com.au/books/your-baby-and-child-9780241562659

    https://www.penguin.com.au/books/ina-mays-guide-to-childbirth-9780091924157

    37 min
  • 42 - Healing Depression, Post Partum Anxiety and Birth Trauma with Therapist Reva Cook

    In this episode, Reva Cook, a clinical social worker, discusses postpartum depression and anxiety and provides tips on how to cope with these mental health issues. She explains that postpartum mental health illnesses are common, affecting about 25% of women who experience pregnancy. Reva emphasizes the importance of being aware of the risk factors and protective factors for postpartum mental health issues. She suggests building a strong support system, addressing past trauma, and practicing good mental health coping strategies. Reva also discusses the different ways postpartum mental health issues can manifest, such as postpartum depression, postpartum anxiety, and postpartum psychosis. She provides practical tools for managing anxiety and stress in the moment, including deep breathing, sensory activities, and humor. Reva also discusses the role of sleep, supplements, and medication in supporting postpartum mental health. She recommends resources such as the book 'Good Moms Have Scary Thoughts' by Karen Kleinman and emphasizes the importance of individualized parenting and finding what works best for each family.

    CHAPTERS

    00:00 Introduction and Background of Reva Cook
    03:09 Preparing for Postpartum Mental Health Issues
    05:45 Different Manifestations of Postpartum Mental Health Issues
    08:46 Postpartum Psychosis and Emergency Response
    10:58 Impact of Anxiety on Daily Life and Lactation
    13:49 Managing Mom Rage and Irritability
    22:27 Lowering Cortisol Levels and Increasing Serotonin
    25:22 Recommended Resources and Books
    33:59 Finding Outside Help for Postpartum Mental Health
    37:10 Importance of Sleep and Individualized Parenting
    40:32 Closing Remarks and Encouragement

    RESOURCES

    One of the critical elements to recovery is Sleep
    Baby Wise - Gary Ezzo and Robert Bucknam
    Book Quote - “Teaching your baby to sleep independently is one of the most loving and beneficial gifts you can give.  When your baby sleeps well, the entire family benefits. A well-rested baby contributes to a more peaceful and balanced home life.”
    YOU HAVE TO BECOME THE SLEEP WHISPERER
    Book- Good Moms Have Scary Thoughts - Karen Kleiman
    90 Seconds to the Life You'll Love - Joan Rosenberg
    “By staying present with your emotional discomfort, you build resilience and the confidence to face future challenges.”

    39 min
  • 41 - Sleep & Self-Care with Registered Nurse Julia Jeffrey

    Julia Jeffrey, a doula and newborn care specialist, shares her journey into newborn care and the importance of sleep for babies. She emphasizes the need for creating a perfect sleep environment, establishing routines, and understanding wake windows. Julia also discusses the importance of trust in the parent-child relationship and the developmental milestones that babies go through. She advises against excessive screen time and encourages parents to set limits and create realistic expectations.

    CHAPTERS

    00:00 Introduction to Julia Jeffrey
    02:43 Passion for Postpartum Doula Work
    03:12 Creating a Perfect Sleep Environment
    11:46 Understanding Wake Windows
    32:57 Feeding and Mixing Breast Milk and Formula
    41:08 Limiting Screen Time and Setting Expectations

    RESOURCES

    AfterEase for postpartum cramps
    Why We Sleep

    The Fringe Hours by Jessica Turner

    “Time is a gift, and how we choose to use it reflects what we value. Reclaim your fringe hours and fill them with what brings you joy and fulfillment.”

    40 min
  • 40 - Containing the Child Clutter & Preparing Your Heart and Home for Your Baby with Mary Wood of Whole Package Organizing

    In this conversation, Mary Wood, a professional organizer, shares tips on managing kid clutter and organizing baby gear. She emphasizes the importance of not buying unnecessary items and only getting the essentials. Mary suggests creating a structure and designated spaces for items in the home, using labels and picture labels for young children. She also discusses strategies for maintaining organization, such as using baskets for quick clean-ups and involving the whole family in the process. Mary highlights the emotional attachment to items and the need to let go of things that are no longer needed. She also talks about the benefits of nature and the connection between organization and the beauty of natural structures.

    CHAPTERS

    00:00 Introduction and Background
    02:38 Managing Kid Clutter
    04:27 Organizing Baby Gear
    07:55 Involving the Whole Family in Organization
    11:37 Letting Go of Unnecessary Items
    25:39 Quick Clean-Ups and Containing Clutter
    29:17 Finding Inspiration in Nature

    RESOURCES

    Decluttering at the Speed of Life
    Decluttering Workbook
    Decluttering Journal
    Simplicity Parenting
    Book Quote - “As you simplify your life, you will find that the everyday activities of family life present opportunities for greater connection, meaning, and joy.”
    Diaper Caddy
    Osprey Lightweight Child Carrier Backpack
    Regalo High Chair
    Bumbo Baby Infant Soft Foam Wide Floor Seat
    The Whole Package Organizing - https://thewholepackageorganizing.com/

    Mary's Favorite Children's Books:

    Each Peach Pear Plum by Janet and Allan Ahlberg
    Little House in the Big Woods by Laura Ingalls Wilder (and the whole series)
    Wilfrid Gordon McDonald Partridge by Mem Fox
    The Tall Book of Make-Believe by Jane Werner Watson
    Ox-Cart Man by Donald Hall
    Bedtime for Frances by Russell Hoban
    Christmas Farm by Mary Lyn Ray
    Grandfather's Journey by Allen Say
    How to Behave and Why by Munro Leaf
    Heckedy Peg by Audrey Wood
    33 min
  • 39 - Breaking the Barriers of Postpartum Care with Postpartum Doula Sarah Watkins

    In this episode, Jen and Sarah discuss postpartum and newborn care. They explore the difference between a postpartum doula and a birth doula, and the importance of having support during the postpartum period. Sarah shares her journey into this line of work and the need for personalized care. They also discuss the lack of education and resources for postpartum care and the barriers to accessing it. They provide tips for planning for the postpartum period, including setting boundaries with visitors and prioritizing self-care. They also emphasize the importance of lactation support and mental wellness during this time.

    CHAPTERS

    00:00 Introduction and Overview
    03:06 The Role of a Postpartum Doula
    07:48 Lack of Education and Resources for Postpartum Care
    14:08 Planning Ahead for the Postpartum Period
    24:32 Setting Boundaries and Supportive Visitors
    28:28 Educating Yourself on the Postpartum Period
    35:41 Importance of Lactation Support
    43:14 Mental Wellness in the Postpartum Period
    48:14 Barriers to Accessing Postpartum Care

    RESOURCES

    BOOK - The Fourth Trimester by Kimberly Ann Johnson
    Quote from the Book - “The fourth trimester is not about getting back to normal; it’s about creating a new normal that honors the profound changes you’ve undergone.”

    47 min
  • 38 - Forget Me Not - Grieving Child Loss with Doula McKenzie Mott

    McKenzie Mott, a birth and bereavement doula, shares her personal journey of becoming a doula and experiencing the loss of her son. She emphasizes the importance of quality support for families going through grief and provides resources for bereaved parents. McKenzie also discusses the role of a bereavement doula in providing guidance and support during the grieving process. She encourages parents to create legacies and find ways to remember their child, and highlights the strength and resilience that comes from living for their children's memory.

    CHAPTERS

    00:00 Introduction: McKenzie Mott's Journey
    12:10 Experiencing Loss: Theo's Story
    23:54 Navigating Grief: Finding Strength and Coping Strategies
    28:40 The Role of a Bereavement Doula: Providing Guidance and Support
    36:46 Creating Legacies: Remembering and Celebrating Lost Children

    RESOURCES

    Gripe Water
    Dr. Brown Bottle
    Magic Merlin's Sleepsuit
    Johnson's Baby Calming Shampoo

    38 min
  • 37 - Skin Care during pregnancy from your friendly Neighborhood Dermatologist - Dr. Luke Johnson

    Dr. Luke Johnson, a dermatologist, discusses skincare during pregnancy, focusing on melasma and other pigmentary changes, swelling, rashes, hair and nail issues, and sun protection. He emphasizes the importance of sun protection, including sunscreen, hats, and sun-protective clothing. He also advises against using certain creams and recommends using moisturizers to prevent dry skin. Dr. Johnson addresses common concerns such as hair loss and brittle nails, suggesting that they are usually temporary and not a cause for worry. He encourages mental preparation for labor and parenting, reminding listeners that they are capable.

    CHAPTERS

    00:00 Introduction and Background
    01:03 Melasma and Pigmentary Changes During Pregnancy
    05:15 Hydration and Moisturizers for Healthy Skin
    06:42 Causes of Skin Changes During Pregnancy
    07:18 Swelling and Compression Stockings
    09:36 Skin Changes in the Face and Varicose Veins
    12:20 Rashes During Pregnancy
    13:31 Treatment for Rashes During Pregnancy
    19:09 Infant Skin and Common Conditions
    23:19 Sun Protection for Babies
    25:08 Sun Exposure and Sunscreen Use
    26:07 Hair and Nail Care During Pregnancy
    28:40 Hair Loss and Mental Preparation for Labor
    31:10 Nail Care and Resources
    32:45 Mom Squad Secret and Conclusion

    33 min
  • 36 - Talking Teeth with Pediatric Dentist Thayne Gardner

    Dr. Thayne Gardner, a board-certified pediatric dentist, discusses the importance of dental care during pregnancy and for newborns. He explains how pregnancy can affect oral health and provides tips for maintaining good dental hygiene. Dr. Gardner also addresses common concerns such as morning sickness and the use of toothpaste during pregnancy. He emphasizes the need for regular dental check-ups and the role of preventive care. Additionally, he discusses the evaluation and treatment of tongue and lip ties in infants. Dr. Gardner highlights the importance of establishing a positive dental experience for children and provides resources for further information.

    CHAPTERS

    00:00 Introduction of Dr. Thayne Gardner
    01:02 Importance of Dental Care During Pregnancy
    05:25 The Role of Regular Dental Check-ups and Preventive Care
    11:42 Evaluation and Treatment of Tongue and Lip Ties in Infants

    Share your MomSquad Secrets on our Facebook Page!

    Birth Made Mindful

    29 min
  • 35 - Mental Health and Physical Health in Pregnancy and Support After Birth with Postpartum Doula Calie Hong

    Calie Hong, a postpartum doula, shares her journey to becoming a doula and the importance of birth advocacy. She emphasizes the need for parents to have information and options when it comes to their birth plans. Calie discusses the tools she provides to help parents prepare and make informed decisions, such as researching different birthing options and creating a birth plan. She highlights the significance of having a birth team that supports and respects the parents' wishes. Calie also talks about the role of a doula in helping parents create precious moments after birth and offers tips for new moms, including the importance of sleep and asking for help.

    CHAPTERS

    00:00 Introduction and Background
    01:15 The Importance of Birth Advocacy
    04:51 Creating a Birth Plan and Building a Supportive Birth Team
    09:36 The Power of Research and Flexibility in Birth
    15:03 The Role of a Postpartum Doula

    RESOURCES

    Birth Without Fear - January Harshe

    "That’s the thing about birth, we don’t get an itinerary. We have to surrender and let go and it’s in that vulnerability we find the courage and strength we forgot we’ve had since our own birth. The power is already in you."
    Birthing From Within
    "Combine practical medical knowledge with the power of embodied practice, ritual, story, and artmaking for authentic preparation and healing."
    "Build flexibility, resilience, and coping skills, so that you are less vulnerable to birth trauma."
    Self-Compassion - Kristin Neff
    "Self-compassion is a way of emotionally recharging our batteries. Rather than becoming drained by life’s difficulties, self-compassion allows us to thrive and grow."

    22 min
  • 34 - Deep Healing Requires Deep Roots with Nutritionalist Brittany Fox

    Brittany Fox, a nutritional therapy practitioner, discusses postpartum depletion and hormone health. She emphasizes the importance of replenishing the body after pregnancy and breastfeeding, as well as taking a holistic approach to overall health. Brittany provides practical solutions for moms to feel great, including focusing on nutrition, testing for nutrient deficiencies, and supporting the nervous system. She also highlights the significance of being mindful of movement and exercise during the postpartum period. Spending time in nature and disconnecting from technology are additional strategies for regulating the nervous system and promoting hormone balance.

    CHAPTERS

    00:00 Introduction to Postpartum Depletion and Hormone Health
    03:24 Understanding Postpartum Depletion
    08:09 Nourishment and Nutrition During Pregnancy
    14:46 Practical Solutions for Postpartum Replenishment
    25:43 The Healing Power of Nature and Disconnecting from Technology

    RESOURCES

    More Than a Body
    The First Forty Days 
    Prenatal Vitamin
    Body Full of Stars: Female Rage and My Passage into Motherhood by Molly Caro May:
    Book Quote - "This is an ancient call from our first mothers to connect to our bodies—for our own good and for the good of humanity. 
    Postnatal Depletion Cure
    Real Food Pregnancy 

    31 min

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