In this episode, Jenna and Ashley dive into the chaos and magic of the holiday season. They discuss the importance of traditions, the comfort of holiday foods, and the unexpected challenges that can arise, such as holiday injuries. The conversation also touches on the Elf on the Shelf tradition, the emotional weight of Christmas music, and the pressure to create a magical experience for families. Through laughter and shared stories, they explore how to navigate the complexities of the holiday season while embracing the joy it brings.

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Jenna von Oy: Best known for her iconic role as Six on the 90s sitcom Blossom, Jenna brings her trademark wit, charm, and unapologetic snark to the podcast. A seasoned author and mother, Jenna delights in celebrating life’s ups and downs…preferably with a margarita in hand.

Ashley Robyn: Author, speaker, and a self-proclaimed internet meme queen, Ashley is a master at turning vulnerability into a pep rally. Known for her love of boba tea and spaghetti (never together), she brings warmth, humor, and depth to every conversation.

In this light-hearted conversation, Jenna and Ashley work really hard to decode Gen Z and Gen Alpha Slang. And no episode of The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast is complete without several off topic side quests! Tune in now to find out just what it means if you've recently been called "unc"

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ABOUT OUR HOSTS:

Jenna von Oy: Best known for her iconic role as Six on the 90s sitcom Blossom, Jenna brings her trademark wit, charm, and unapologetic snark to the podcast. A seasoned author and mother, Jenna delights in celebrating life’s ups and downs…preferably with a margarita in hand.

Ashley Robyn: Author, speaker, and a self-proclaimed internet meme queen, Ashley is a master at turning vulnerability into a pep rally. Known for her love of boba tea and spaghetti (never together), she brings warmth, humor, and depth to every conversation.

In this episode of the Big F*cking Feelings podcast, hosts Jenna von Oy and Ashley welcome filmmaker Barclay DeVeau to discuss the Cassandra Project, a trilogy of films that highlight the importance of women's voices and the dangers of being disregarded. The conversation flows from personal anecdotes and friendship to the challenges faced by women in various fields, including filmmaking. The trio emphasizes the need for systemic change and the power of storytelling in advocating for women's rights. They also share their experiences with gaslighting and the importance of community support in grassroots projects.

The Cassandra Project is a scripted trilogy of short films that exposes the dangerous reality of what happens when women aren’t believed. Three films. Three women. Three warnings. And one terrifying truth: ignoring women’s voices puts everyone at risk.

Inspired by creator and filmmaker Barclay DeVeau’s own medical gaslighting ordeal—months of fighting for a diagnosis while doctors dismissed her pain—the series amplifies a story far too many women know firsthand.

Born from lived experience and shaped by countless silenced voices, The Cassandra Project is a powerful call to pay attention, believe women, and understand the life-or-death stakes of being dismissed.

Learn more about how to support The Cassandra Project on their website: thecassandraproject.net and follow on Instagram: instagram.com/cassandraprojectfilm

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ABOUT OUR HOSTS:

Jenna von Oy: Best known for her iconic role as Six on the 90s sitcom Blossom, Jenna brings her trademark wit, charm, and unapologetic snark to the podcast. A seasoned author and mother, Jenna delights in celebrating life’s ups and downs…preferably with a margarita in hand.

Ashley Robyn: Author, speaker, and a self-proclaimed internet meme queen, Ashley is a master at turning vulnerability into a pep rally. Known for her love of boba tea and spaghetti (never together), she brings warmth, humor, and depth to every conversation.

In this episode of The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast, Jenna and Ashley pour one out (literally) for tequila...the friend, the foe, and the reason your phone is on “Do Not Recall.” 🍸💅

They’re swapping tragic-yet-iconic tequila tales, decoding the five archetypes of drinkers (from “Shots Girlie” to “Philosopher After Two Margaritas”), and reliving the texts that should’ve stayed drafts. Somewhere between karaoke disasters and emotional hangovers, they find the cure: laughter, besties, and a greasy breakfast burrito.

Basically, it’s therapy, but louder and with salt on the rim. 🫶

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ABOUT OUR HOSTS:

Jenna von Oy: Best known for her iconic role as Six on the 90s sitcom Blossom, Jenna brings her trademark wit, charm, and unapologetic snark to the podcast. A seasoned author and mother, Jenna delights in celebrating life’s ups and downs…preferably with a margarita in hand.

Ashley Robyn: Author, speaker, and a self-proclaimed internet meme queen, Ashley is a master at turning vulnerability into a pep rally. Known for her love of boba tea and spaghetti (never together), she brings warmth, humor, and depth to every conversation.

In this episode of Big F*cking Feelings, Jenna and Ashley dive into the Halloween spirit, sharing nostalgic stories about costumes, childhood memories, and celebrity sightings. They discuss their personal experiences with Halloween, including funny mishaps and the evolution of costumes over the years. The conversation takes a humorous turn as they debate the merits of candy corn and reflect on the cultural significance of Halloween costumes, including the rise of slutty costumes and their implications. The episode is filled with laughter, relatable anecdotes, and a candid exploration of their feelings about Halloween and its traditions.

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ABOUT OUR HOSTS:

Jenna von Oy: Best known for her iconic role as Six on the 90s sitcom Blossom, Jenna brings her trademark wit, charm, and unapologetic snark to the podcast. A seasoned author and mother, Jenna delights in celebrating life’s ups and downs…preferably with a margarita in hand.

Ashley Robyn: Author, speaker, and a self-proclaimed internet meme queen, Ashley is a master at turning vulnerability into a pep rally. Known for her love of boba tea and spaghetti (never together), she brings warmth, humor, and depth to every conversation.

In this episode, Jenna uncorks some wine and we spiral into an unfiltered deep dive on pizza preferences, perfectionism, rogue Goldfish crackers, vehicular mullets, and why folding your pizza slice is basically a moral imperative.

Along the way, we ask the big questions:

• Is a fruit pizza still a pizza?
• Why does Norway eat the most pizza per capita?
• Can color-coordinating your closet fix your life?
• And exactly how many Kleenexes must a woman walk through before she demands a clean car?

Plus, we toast to crispy crusts, imperfect homes, and the beautiful messiness of realizing that everything and everyone is lovable, even when it is not perfect.

Grab a slice (or a label maker) and dive in. It is chaos, but it is our favorite kind.

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ABOUT OUR HOSTS:

Jenna von Oy: Best known for her iconic role as Six on the 90s sitcom Blossom, Jenna brings her trademark wit, charm, and unapologetic snark to the podcast. A seasoned author and mother, Jenna delights in celebrating life’s ups and downs…preferably with a margarita in hand.

Ashley Robyn: Author, speaker, and a self-proclaimed internet meme queen, Ashley is a master at turning vulnerability into a pep rally. Known for her love of boba tea and spaghetti (never together), she brings warmth, humor, and depth to every conversation.

Wine in hand. Bra optional. Chaos inevitable.

In Episode 10 of The BFF Podcast, Jenna and Ashley spiral into the sweet, sticky mess of modern adulting...from dusty vodka cocktails and boxed wine confessions to changing your sheets (eventually) and why talking about gas prices is the final stage of becoming your parents.

🍷 Expect:
 – The boxed wine that stole our hearts and possibly our judgment
 – Cilantro cocktails and adult beverage improvisation
 – Grocery store sticker shock and expired yogurt debates
 – A passionate defense of clean sheets and nightly showers
 – Existential dread, BotaBox loyalty (no we aren't sponsored!), and gulping anxiety (yes, it’s a thing)

This episode is for anyone who's ever skipped a party just to sit in silence, gotten overly excited about a new sponge, or felt personally attacked by their own ankle pain upon waking up.

🎧 Pour a glass (or whatever’s in your fridge), hit play, and remember: adulting isn’t about having it together—it’s about pretending convincingly while sipping something strong.

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ABOUT OUR HOSTS:

Jenna von Oy: Best known for her iconic role as Six on the 90s sitcom Blossom, Jenna brings her trademark wit, charm, and unapologetic snark to the podcast. A seasoned author and mother, Jenna delights in celebrating life’s ups and downs…preferably with a margarita in hand.

Ashley Robyn: Author, speaker, and a self-proclaimed internet meme queen, Ashley is a master at turning vulnerability into a pep rally. Known for her love of boba tea and spaghetti (never together), she brings warmth, humor, and depth to every conversation.

We came for the pastries. We stayed for the plot twists. And the dog pee.

In this delightfully offbeat episode, Jenna and Ashley unpack the art of dramaticity...a totally made-up word that absolutely belongs in the dictionary. From bakery betrayals to Kroger danish emergencies, this one’s layered like a croissant and twice as flaky.

Expect:
 🥐 A pastry detour that ends with anatomical desserts
 🎭 The difference between being dramatic and being a whole drama
🐶 A dog escape, a brave sneaker rescue, and nervous peeing (not ours, promise)
💇‍♀️ Clip-on bangs and the quiet despair they carry
💔 The middle school moment that still lives rent-free in Ashley’s soul

It’s real, ridiculous, and surprisingly relatable...because sometimes adulthood is just carbs, chaos, and trying not to cry in the bakery aisle.

🎧 Listen to Episode 9: “Danishes and Dramaticity” now wherever you get your podcasts.

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ABOUT OUR HOSTS:

Jenna von Oy: Best known for her iconic role as Six on the 90s sitcom Blossom, Jenna brings her trademark wit, charm, and unapologetic snark to the podcast. A seasoned author and mother, Jenna delights in celebrating life’s ups and downs…preferably with a margarita in hand.

Ashley Robyn: Author, speaker, and a self-proclaimed internet meme queen, Ashley is a master at turning vulnerability into a pep rally. Known for her love of boba tea and spaghetti (never together), she brings warmth, humor, and depth to every conversation.

We braved the bagel discourse. We swapped road trip survival tips. We summoned a super hero and Baby Daddy. And we did it all with our very first guest: Courtney Chase—former child actor, real-life Gerber Baby, and current badass mom-of-two.

In this extra-toasty episode of The BFF Podcast, Jenna and Ashley welcome Courtney to talk about the chaos, comedy, and questionable snack choices that come with traveling with kids, the magic of New York bagels, and why patience is basically a superpower with a car seat.

🎒 Expect:

🥯 A passionate defense of egg everything bagels

🧳 Pandemic road trip horror stories

💥 The deeply weird lore of “Baby Daddy” the doll

😳 The art of NOT handing out bribe bags to strangers on flights

🧘‍♀️ How to stay Zen when your child becomes feral at 30,000 feet

Plus, a toast to delirious road snacks, dirty cupholders, and why we don’t leash our children… but we get it.

This might be our wildest yet. Hit play, grab a snack (preferably not from a car floor), and let the chaos comfort you.

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ABOUT OUR HOSTS:

Jenna von Oy: Best known for her iconic role as Six on the 90s sitcom Blossom, Jenna brings her trademark wit, charm, and unapologetic snark to the podcast. A seasoned author and mother, Jenna delights in celebrating life’s ups and downs…preferably with a margarita in hand.

Ashley Robyn: Author, speaker, and a self-proclaimed internet meme queen, Ashley is a master at turning vulnerability into a pep rally. Known for her love of boba tea and spaghetti (never together), she brings warmth, humor, and depth to every conversation.

What do lasagna and boundaries have in common? They both rely on layers, heat, and a little bit of mess to come together beautifully.

In this deliciously unfiltered episode of The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast, Jenna and Ashley serve up homemade lasagna (with a controversial cottage cheese twist 😳) and plunge headfirst into the art of saying no. From guilty cancellations and people-pleasing spirals to empowering their kids to speak up for themselves, they explore how saying no can be an act of self-respect, not rebellion.

🍷 Also inside:

🥄 The real reason lasagna tastes like a therapy session

🥊 Why toddlers might be the best no-sayers on the planet

💅 How to stop over-explaining and start protecting your peace

👑 And a toast to Garfield, excessive cheese, and unapologetic boundaries

Pull up a plate, pour the wine, and let’s talk boundaries.

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ABOUT OUR HOSTS:

Jenna von Oy: Best known for her iconic role as Six on the 90s sitcom Blossom, Jenna brings her trademark wit, charm, and unapologetic snark to the podcast. A seasoned author and mother, Jenna delights in celebrating life’s ups and downs…preferably with a margarita in hand.

Ashley Robyn: Author, speaker, and a self-proclaimed internet meme queen, Ashley is a master at turning vulnerability into a pep rally. Known for her love of boba tea and spaghetti (never together), she brings warmth, humor, and depth to every conversation.