This Black Boss is a leading business consultant, former NFL player, speaker, entrepreneur and founder of High Stakes Training. He’s been featured in Forbes, CNN, Huffington Post, ABC.
3 Black Boss Values
- There’s a difference between WEALTH and being RICH
- If you don’t progress, you die
- The real form of wealth is efficiency
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[2:50] Bret Lockett’s top belief system that pushed him into the NFL
- Mentality started at a young age - He built the confidence
- Never settled for anything other than his best
- He was bullied and used that as fuel to push him to prove everyone wrong
[7:39] How Bret made his decision to retire from the NFL
- Several injuries throughout his 4 years
- Didn’t have film, had to go to rookie tryouts as a veteran… still didn’t get picked up
- Played for the UFL to get film, never got paid
- Met influential people, realized he was intelligent enough to do something else
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[17:51] Invested in himself in other ways - but what next?
- Bret had to find his WHY after football, tried to make investments for money but what was the WHY
- Unleash the Power Within - Tony Robbins, opened him up to personal development
[23:01] Diving deeper into self
- Bret stopped watching football, stopped talking to NFL friends because of the hurt
- Had to work through inner problems, resolve demons
- Realized he wasn’t as successful in the NFL because he was focused on “living that life”
[27:44] Cheated most of his life through high school
- Had to put a lot of time and effort in college, because he didn’t learn the fundamentals in high school
- Relearning
[30:21] The difference between wealth and being rich
- Wealth = assets that make you money while you sleep
- You can live off of your assets
- Rich = You just have cash, cash in the back
- Can’t live the rest of your life off of that income
[33:55] What made you choose the entrepreneur route over corporate America?
- Bret did actually start as an employee working for New York Life Insurance
- Asked himself - am I capable of working with companies better than my current company? The answer was yes.
[37:04] Bret’s key to conquering fear
- Most people operate in fear but if you operate in love, abundance and success you can achieve it
- Have to have courage
[39:20] Bret’s key to conquering the mind
- The brain is meant to keep you safe, keep you the same - you have to conquer the mind
[42:44] Goals shape your experience
- You have to have a goal, that’s what motivates you
- If you don’t progress, you die
[45:00] What advice would you give to an entrepreneur who isn’t getting the results?
- Identify - what is your expertise? What are you good at? What are your talents?
- If you can identify your talents, you can identify what industry you belong in
- Do your research
[52:17] If you’ve come across a hurdle, how do you overcome it?
- If you’re doing the same thing over and over, and not achieving results - you’re gonna go crazy
- Need to identify your story, identify what is not working
- Use your networks in that space and ask for advice
[59:42] What most successful people do with their finances?
- The real form of wealth is efficiency
- Real wealthy people operate on conveniency, efficiency and simplicity
- Small shift in mentality
- Develop a skill that is going to make you money for the rest of your life
[1:12:06] Only way to learn is through repetition
- Take action
- Have to be able to change your state, and do it with confidence
- Build momentum, do the same thing consistently
Resources
Udemy - https://www.udemy.com/
Connect with Bret Lockett
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- Twitter - bretlockett26
- Website - bretlockett.com