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This week, Amina LeGrand and I took the conversation to another level as we talk about how we view ourselves in relationship to money. Let’s learn how we can identify our natural strengths and blind spots to better understand who we are and embrace our value.

Highlights from the conversation:

[00:43] Amina

· Empowerment Coach

· DISC-certified

[01:35] Money talks: what were modeled to us

It is important to have a positive mindset when it comes to money because we can block our abundance if we do not know how to unlock that mindset. It is not always about us not being able to “take our money with us”. Sometimes, it is about what kind of legacy we are trying to build. And that is a piece that does not get taught – we do not always think about leaving a legacy.

[03:25] The Need to break generational beliefs

We have to start looking at our family and generational beliefs when it comes to money. Because in doing so, we are breaking cycles for the future and stopping the feelings that our community keeps bumping up from time to time. It’s true, we may not know how money works and if we do not get to the point where we do not understand it, we will just constantly be in the rat race.

[09:00] Recontextualizing our beliefs and how it affects us

Recontextualizing means knowing when was the first time we discovered we had doubts and what was the actual doubt sounds like. We can then go back and evaluate the lessons and learnings we took. Then look at how belief formed all of the decisions we made thereby. Then we can assess whether or not our belief was true by examining and looking for evidence. In doing so, we are losing the emotional attachments to these beliefs.

[13:28] Healing before accepting wealth

Healing has to take place – whether it be from trauma and pain before we can move to accept wealth. We have to do some work; this is something others are not willing to do because they are afraid of what they can find. However, the only way out is through. We have to allow ourselves to be with what it is and then it will have less power over us. When we acknowledge it, we become more in control.

[19:42] Understanding the unconscious mind

We have to understand the unconscious mind in order to reprogram it. Unfortunately, many people are just out of touch with that part of themselves. One of the ways is to really get quiet. It can be as simple as reframing but we have a lot of blind spots and we can’t always be the ones to transform ourselves. The majority of transformations happen in communities. We ought to find a

community that can see the blind spots to be able to have that reprogram take place.

Catch up with Amina by following her on 

Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/iam.super.natural.

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Hosted by: Dr. Maiysha Clairborne

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In This week’s Mind ReMapping Moment, we talk about unconscious competence on our last part of the series incompetence to mastery.

Despite what most people realize, it’s the unconscious mind that runs us. But how is that so? Get your first primer in 7 minutes! Follow and Share these pearls with others.

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This week, Dawn Dalili and I took the conversation to another level as we talk about redefining tribes to build a thriving community and thriving health. Let’s learn what defines a tribe, the challenges in outgrowing the rules of a tribe, and when to step away from a tribe.

Highlights from the conversation:

[00:53] Dawn Dalili

· A mom and a warrior

· Naturopathic Physician

· Owner, Montana Center for Vibrant Living

[03:51] The challenge in outgrowing

As we step into different areas of personal development, our immediate community may not understand. Then, we begin to go around like a square trying to peg in a round hole. And it can be very challenging when these people are your tribe. On some level, each of us must confront the challenge that comes with outgrowing one type of tribe – which is one way that we experience safety.

[07:05] The “rule” is the “tribe”

When we look at tribes, in any context, there are certain rules of membership. And the rule is the tribe in a sense. In the same way, if we look at sports, the rules are baseball. If we change the rules, we are playing a game, but we are not playing baseball. Therefore, when we start to break the rules, then we question “am I still heard of” in the tribe. The only way to go around it is to question what are the actual rules.

[08:50] The danger in following the rules

The rules of the games are so clear, we either follow them or not. When we look at tribe, we are looking at families, loved ones, or a group. The rules are for us to guess and then we tend to self-impose adherence to the rules that we presumed are required of membership. That’s when we start to get stuck – and then we are living by it as though it is “truth” required for membership. The way to go around it is to ask ourselves – what else might be true.

[20:50] Letting go of a tribe

Sometimes, some tribes need to be let go of. Especially the tribes that may be so toxic that it warrants stepping away completely. And that does not mean that if you choose to leave a tribe, that there may not be room for membership again. In essence, once part of the tribe, always part of the tribe. In cases like this, it is important to permit ourselves for doing so because one of the things resulting in stepping away from a tribe is enormous guilt that is extremely unhealthy and traumatic.

Catch up with Dawn Dalili by checking her website at https://www.mtvibrantliving.com and 

https://dawndalili.com. 

You may also contact her via email at [email protected].

You can also check her social media channels: 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/dawn.dalili 

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dawndalili_nd

See you on the next one!

Hosted by: Dr. Maiysha Clairborne

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In This week’s Mind ReMapping Moment, we continue with our series on moving from incompetence to mastery. Today we talk about conscious competence through acquiring a skill and focus is required in this step. But how is that so? Get your first primer in 7 minutes! Follow and Share these pearls with others.

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This week, Beverley Barnes and I took the conversation to another level as we talk about why we are not meant to be invisible. Learn why it is important that we acknowledge our uniqueness and not allow the world to dictate us as well as the importance of starting to feel.

Highlights from the conversation:

[02:20] Beverley Barnes

· Jamaican descent, born and grew up in England ‘til 7 & moved to Canada

· Founder, Coach Instructor and Mentor at Soul's Calling® Academy

· Master Life Coach Instructor at Martha Beck, Inc.

[05:24] “Fit in, do not make waves” mindset

Living in a foreign land, Beverley learned to stay “just be invisible enough” to not be seen and try to get seen just enough for people to think you are okay. People of color have a universal experience when it comes to racial discrimination. When we try hard our whole lives to fit it, we would have no idea what would make us stand out. Which likely means we do not know who we are. On the other hand, some of us are also busy proving to others that we deserve to stand out in the crowd.

[16:05] The breaking point of deciding to FEEL

We can be good at coping with situations that were not good for us. In return, all we do is cope. It is imperative to start deciding to feel as opposed to repress and not feel. We can cope, persist and keep going but there will come a point that we have to face the reality of it all. We need to be able to STOP denying, coping, pretending, and trying to fit in in a world where we do not fit. Instead, need to start to tell ourselves to FEEL. Deciding to feel is beautiful because we are allowing ourselves to be human.

[20:20] Purpose adjacent vs Purpose aligned

It is so easy to be purpose adjacent because that is what the world is dictating to us. It can get really tricky that we end up rationalizing it. However, what is beautiful is for us to be able to follow our own path and do what truly fulfills us. The path is still not so clear for us even up to now but our work changes things. Our work changes the world – and sometimes we think it is not enough or that somebody else is already doing it but it is essential. It has to start with a strong decision to follow our own path. It is never too late!

[26:00] Survival work vs. Sacred work

We can have our survival work. We have to make sure we are clear what our survival work is, otherwise, it becomes our sacred work. Survival and sacred work are two completely different things. We can say our survival work funds our sacred work but it should not be the fallback. There should only be one direction – and that is to lean towards the sacred work. And whatever we are doing to fund that now is going to eventually turn away.

Catch up with Beverley Barnes by checking her website at 

https://www.soulscallingacademy.com 

or contact her via email at [email protected].

You can also check her social media channels: 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/barnesbev 

Instagram - https://instagram.com/bevbarnes_soulscallingacademy

See you on the next one!

Hosted by: Dr. Maiysha Clairborne

Ready for the next level in your life? Join the Movement! Become a part of the Mind ReMapping Nation, an exclusive community that empowers your growth & accountability. Go to www.MindReMappingNation.com

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In This week’s Mind ReMapping Moment, we talk about conscious incompetence in the incompetence to mastery series. How do we move from knowing that you don't have the skill to learning the skill and become competent in that skill. But how is that so? Get your first primer in 7 minutes! Follow and Share these pearls with others.

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This week, Amobi Okoye and I took the conversation to another level as we talk his experience as the youngest player ever drafted on NFL, the illness that almost killed him, and the positive mindset he has after being victorious over Autoimmune Encephalitis. How can you get up from a big fall?

Highlights from the conversation:

[01:30] Amobi Okoye

· Autoimmune Encephalitis Survivor

· Nigerian-born former American football

· Youngest Player ever drafted on NFL Team

· Founder of Amobi Okoye Foundation

[03:12] An inspiring story to tell

Amobi started schooling at a very young age, two and a half to be exact. As others say, he was young for his age. Then he moved to the US when he was 12 years old. From there, he was introduced to football which he loved since. At the age of 19, Amobi Okoye graduated college in Psychology. A star defensive end at Louisville, Amobi joined the Houston Texans in 2007. He then became the youngest player drafted in NFL history.

[15:34] Rise after the fall

Amobi’s story is one that touches many lives! On Thanksgiving of 2014, his family organized a dinner to celebrate his remarkable recovery. It was there that he embraced all that he endured. After battling his way back from the near-fatal illness, he felt like he’s a walking miracle. It made him believe God has a better plan for him. His relationship with Him spiritually became stronger. He was involved in his church more often and he believes God would not put us through something that we could not handle. After he recovered, he trained again.

[15:53] The sickness no one know was coming

On March 15-17, 2013, Amobi was in a medically-induced coma for three (3) months and became more coherent three (3) months later. He nearly died from brain inflammation called Autoimmune Encephalitis. To him, it felt like he was just taking a nap, not knowing he was unconscious for a total of 6 months. After waking up from the illness, he was in denial for quite a long time but accepted it later on eventually.

[19:20] What’s next?

There was no thought to doing anything else for Amobi after he recovered – it was to go back to what he loved doing. Since officially retiring in 2019, he is focused on Amobi Okoye Foundation. It is focused on both the domestic and international divisions. The foundation aims to give hope to kids and communities by using athletics to promote academics. At the moment, his team is working on getting the website back, building the foundation, and campaigning for Autoimmune Encephalitis. He feels like it is his calling to create awareness about this illness. Amobi’s victory over illness is definitely worth sharing!

Catch up with Amobi Okoye by checking the official Amobi Okoye Foundation page at 

https://www.facebook.com/amobiokoyefoundation 

website at https://amobiokoyefoundation.com or 

contact him via email at [email protected].

You can also check her social media channels: 

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/amobiokoye91 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/AmobiOkoye91

See you on the next one!

Hosted by: Dr. Maiysha Clairborne

Ready for the next level in your life? Join the Movement! Become a part of the Mind ReMapping Nation, an exclusive community that empowers your growth & accountability. Go to www.MindReMappingNation.com

Interested to learn Mind ReMapping? Have you thought about becoming a coach? You can! Attend our next Mind ReMapping LIVE Training in Atlanta, and learn the tools to remap your mind in this transformational NLP/Hypnosis and Coach Certification training. Visit www.remapmymind.com or schedule an interest call at www.remapmymind.today

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In This week’s Mind ReMapping Moment, we talk continue with our incompetence to mastery series. Unconscious incompetence is being unaware that you are incompetent at a skill. Do you deal with the same issue over and over again and you don't know why you are in that position?

Despite what most people realize, it’s the unconscious mind that runs us. But how is that so? Get your first primer in 7 minutes! Follow and Share these pearls with others.

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This week, Cerita Ibrahim and I took the conversation to another level as we talk about the truth about trauma – what it actually is, why it is unhealthy to not recognize them, and the danger of pushing them way down our subconscious minds. Learn why we should not allow our “filters” to control us.

Highlights from the conversation:

[02:16] Cerita Yvonne Ibrahim, MSW, CCTP, CCTPII, CCHt

· Therapist & Coach

· Relational trauma expert

· Founder and CEO of Love U

[02:45] Trauma is everywhere

In any relationship we experience, there is some kind of trauma involved. We think traumas are all huge, but then there are also insidious experiences that happen over time. Trauma, in its essence, means “a deep emotional wound”. It is not about what happens TO you, it is about what happens INSIDE of you, as a result of your experiences. The big T traumas can be abuse, experience in a natural disaster, or neglect. Although, what happens inside us remains the same, whether we experience Capital T traumas or emotional neglect. Understanding this will help us learn why we struggle in our relationships.

[04:45] How trauma can be experienced

Trauma is not limited to what was done to us. Rather, it is something we experience, witness, or something that directly happens to us. 9/11 can be very traumatic even to those who are not physically in New York. There are so many iterations of how trauma can be experienced that will dictate the way we relate with people, especially in our relationships.

[15:00] How trauma is expressed (men vs. women)

How trauma is expressed looks different in men versus in women. Men may need to look into doing more personal development. Connecting to our emotions can also be difficult, especially when we push them down for so long. This can cause us to even question what type of emotion is in there. Is it sadness? Fear? Or Anger? This is why it is important for our men to normalize doing personal development work.

[23:30] Creating a personal glass ceiling

When we allow our trauma to continue to fester and we do not look at it, we create our own personal glass ceiling. We can be successful, it’s not that we can’t, but there will always be a barrier that we keep hitting. And we would wonder why we could not get past that point. The truth is there is something else that is causing that personal glass ceiling that is keeping us from allowing ourselves to fully enjoy our life – the abundance of life.

Catch up with Cerita Yvonne by checking her 

website at https://learntoloveu.com or 

contact her via email at [email protected].

You can also check her social media channels: 

Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/cerita-yvonne-893b361b3 

Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-8KlJaQhtCx55m_r9hW02A

See you on the next one!

Hosted by: Dr. Maiysha Clairborne

Ready for the next level in your life? Join the Movement! Become a part of the Mind ReMapping Nation, an exclusive community that empowers your growth & accountability. Go to www.MindReMappingNation.com

Interested to learn Mind ReMapping? Have you thought about becoming a coach? You can! Attend our next Mind ReMapping LIVE Training in Atlanta, and learn the tools to remap your mind in this transformational NLP/Hypnosis and Coach Certification training. Visit www.remapmymind.com or schedule an interest call at www.remapmymind.today

SHOW NOTES:

In This week’s Mind ReMapping Moment, we talk about how we can move from incompetence to mastery. But how is that so? Get your first primer in 7 minutes! Follow and Share these pearls with others.

Follow Dr. Maiysha on Social media 

www.facebook.com/DrMaiysha 

www.instagram.com/DrMaiysha 

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Don’t miss our Guest Episodes each Wednesday!

Hosted by: Dr. Maiysha Clairborne

Ready for the next level in your life? Join the Movement! Become a part of the Mind ReMapping Nation, an exclusive community that empowers your growth & accountability. Go to www.MindReMappingNation.com

Interested to learn Mind ReMapping? Have you thought about becoming a coach? You can! Attend our next Mind ReMapping LIVE Training in Atlanta, and learn the tools to remap your mind in this transformational NLP/Hypnosis and Coach Certification training. Visit www.mindremappingacademy.com or schedule an interest call at www.remapmymind.today