Self- Abandonment is a tricky topic.

Welcome to another insightful episode of The Borealis Experience Podcast, where we delve into the complexities of personal development and self-discovery.

In today's episode, we're exploring the profound connection between self-abandonment, self-love, and the often-misunderstood world of New Year's resolutions.

What does it mean to neglect or reject ourselves emotionally and why is it so prevalent?

As the new year dawns, many of us embark on the well-intentioned journey of setting resolutions. However, we explore the argument that New Year's resolutions may be a futile endeavor if the foundation of self-love is absent. Our conversation delves into the psychology behind resolutions and why, without a strong self-affirming base, they might not stand the test of time.

Remember, the path to self-discovery is ongoing, and your commitment to loving yourself is the most transformative resolution of all.

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Free yourself from the ongoing destructive inner chatter become the strongest most authentic version of yourself.

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Reconnect with Nature and Each Other:

In today's fast-paced world, it's easy to lose touch with both nature and the people we hold dearest. The idea of escaping to an intimate retreat in the heart of a lush forest provides the perfect opportunity to rekindle your connection with the natural world and, most importantly, with your partner. In this blog post, we'll explore the magic of intimacy retreats in the forest, how they can help you strengthen your relationship, and why they've become a popular choice for couples seeking a deeper connection.

The Beauty of Forest Intimacy Retreats:

Escape the Noise: One of the primary advantages of a forest retreat is the escape from the hustle and bustle of daily life. The calm surroundings allow you to leave behind the noise of the city and focus on your partner and yourself.

Nature's Healing Power: The forest environment offers a serene and calming backdrop that can have a profound impact on your well-being. The fresh air, vibrant flora, and soothing sounds of the forest help reduce stress and anxiety, making it easier to open up and connect on a deeper level.

Activities and Workshops:

Yoga and Meditation: Many forest retreats offer yoga and meditation sessions, helping you and your partner find your inner balance and build a sense of unity.

Couples intimacy workshops: I will lead workshops at the Yurt focused on improving communication, deepening intimacy, and resolving conflicts.

Outdoor Adventures: Engage in thrilling outdoor activities like forest hikes, snowshoeing, or even Yurt fire gazing, which can strengthen the bond between you and your partner.

Reignite Your Romance:

Disconnect to Reconnect: With limited connectivity in the forest, you can unplug from the digital world and reconnect with your partner on a meaningful, personal level.

Intimacy retreats in the forest offer couples a unique opportunity to nurture their love, rediscover their connection, and create lasting memories. If you're seeking to strengthen your relationship, escape the daily grind, and embrace the beauty of the natural world, consider a forest intimacy retreat. It might just be the perfect setting to embark on a journey of love, healing, and reconnection.

With much love

A.

• Personal growth and wellness. 0:02
• Aurora Eggert welcomes listeners and offers coaching, retreats, and personal meditations for well-being.
• Intimacy coaching and relationship growth. 1:53
• Speaker 1 discusses intimacy coaching and its success in helping couples open up and share their pain and growth points.
• Improving intimate relationships through vulnerability and mindfulness. 3:40
• Joining an intimacy retreat can open up healing conversations and change relationships for the better.
• Intimacy coaching and relationship growth. 6:36
• Speaker encourages couples to address intimacy issues before they become major problems.
• Post-heartbreak healing and relationship awareness. 7:59
• Speaker 1 emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and addressing blind spots in...

Our thoughts, emotions, and mental processes can sometimes work against us and lead to self-doubt, anxiety, or negative self-perception.

It reflects the importance of mental health and the role our thought patterns and attitudes play in our well-being. Here are a few reasons why this statement holds true:

1. Overthinking: Excessive rumination and overthinking can lead to anxiety and stress. We often create problems or scenarios in our minds that may not even exist in reality.
2. Negative Self-Talk: Negative self-talk, where we criticize or belittle ourselves, can erode self-esteem and confidence.
3. Fear and Worry: Our minds can generate fear and excessive worry, often about future events that may never come to pass.
4. Perfectionism: Striving for perfection in every aspect of life can lead to unrealistic expectations and self-criticism when we don't meet those expectations.
5. Rumination on the Past: Repeatedly dwelling on past mistakes or regrets can prevent us from moving forward and finding happiness in the present.
6. Comparison: Constantly comparing ourselves to others can lead to feelings of inadequacy and envy.
7. Cognitive Biases: Our minds are susceptible to various cognitive biases, such as confirmation bias or negativity bias, which can distort our perception of reality.

Recognizing that your mind can sometimes work against you is an important step in addressing these issues.

It's essential to practice self-awareness and develop strategies to manage negative thought patterns and emotions.

This may include mindfulness techniques, cognitive-behavioral therapy, seeking support from a therapist, and adopting a positive and self-compassionate mindset.

Taking care of your mental health and seeking support when needed can help you transform your mind from an enemy into an ally in your life's journey.

With much love

A.

• How the mind can create negative experiences. 0:02
• Aurora shares tips on how to overcome negative mindset and create a positive life experience.
• Managing negative thoughts and self-doubt. 2:52
• Mindset plays a crucial role in overcoming self-doubt and comparison in business.
• Self-worth and mindset. 5:53
• Speaker reflects on how past experiences shape present-day self-perception, leading to inaccurate comparisons with others.
• Self-awareness and negative thoughts. 9:02
• Speaker 1 emphasizes the importance of self-awareness in recognizing and managing negative thoughts and emotions.
• Speaker 1 encourages listeners to observe their thoughts without attaching to them and to question unhelpful comparisons and beliefs.
• Managing negative thoughts and emotions. 12:06
• Observe negative thoughts without believing them, detach and focus on the present moment.
• Transparency and vulnerability in sharing personal struggles can lead to deeper connections and self-awareness.

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Canada's dark history, particularly in relation to its treatment of Indigenous peoples, is a painful and complex chapter that demands recognition, understanding, and reconciliation. The National Day for Truth and Reconciliation, observed on September 30th, is an important step towards acknowledging this history and working towards a more equitable future.

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A.

• Self-care, connection, and purpose with a life coach. 0:02
• Aurora offers life coaching, intimacy retreats, and team building experiences at her physical location.
• National Day of Truth and Reconciliation in Canada. 1:14
• Aurora Eggert shares her thoughts on National Day of Truth and Reconciliation, expressing surprise at Canadians' lack of understanding of Indigenous history and its impact on the community.
• Canada's dark history and its impact on society. 4:05
• Speaker reflects on lack of exposure to residential school history in Canada, contrasting with their own childhood experiences with Holocaust education in Germany.
• Speaker 1 emphasizes the importance of acknowledging Canada's dark history to facilitate healing and change.
• The importance of addressing emotions and history. 7:54
• Speaker expresses gratitude for schooling on World War II, desires deeper understanding of history and connections.
• Speaker argues that North America suppresses sadness and grief, while countries like Italy, Portugal, and Spain express emotions openly.
• Healing and reconciliation between Indigenous and non-Indigenous communities. 11:12
• Speaker hopes to contribute to reconciliation efforts by being humble, curious, and proactive in supporting Indigenous communities.

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When your emotional needs are unmet in a relationship, it can have significant emotional, psychological, and relational consequences. Here are some of the potential outcomes and effects:

1. Emotional Distress: Unmet emotional needs can lead to feelings of sadness, frustration, anger, or loneliness. You may experience a general sense of dissatisfaction or emotional pain in the relationship.
2. Resentment: Over time, unmet needs can breed resentment toward your partner. You may feel as though your needs are not being acknowledged or valued, which can erode trust and intimacy.
3. Communication Breakdown: Unmet needs can lead to poor communication in the relationship. You may struggle to express your feelings and needs clearly, or your partner may become defensive or avoidant in response to your attempts at communication.
4. Decreased Intimacy: Emotional intimacy often relies on the fulfillment of emotional needs. When these needs go unmet, emotional distance can develop, leading to decreased physical and emotional intimacy in the relationship.
5. Conflict: Unresolved issues stemming from unmet needs can result in frequent arguments and conflict. These conflicts may be about the unmet needs themselves or manifest in other areas of the relationship.
6. Mental Health Effects: Persistent emotional distress due to unmet needs can contribute to mental health issues such as anxiety and depression. The emotional toll can affect your overall well-being.
7. Seeking Fulfillment Elsewhere: In some cases, individuals may seek to fulfill their unmet emotional needs outside the relationship, which can lead to infidelity or the desire to engage in activities or friendships that provide emotional support.
8. Withdrawal: Some people may withdraw from the relationship as a coping mechanism. They may emotionally detach or become disengaged as a way to protect themselves from further emotional pain.
9. Impact on Self-Esteem: Unmet emotional needs can negatively impact your self-esteem and self-worth. You may begin to question your value and desirability within the relationship.
10. Relationship Dissatisfaction: Overall, the result of unmet emotional needs is often a sense of dissatisfaction with the relationship. If these needs remain unaddressed, it can ultimately lead to relationship deterioration or even dissolution.

It's important to note that every relationship will have moments when emotional needs go unmet temporarily. However, it becomes concerning when this becomes a chronic pattern or when the unmet needs are significant and vital for your emotional well-being.

Addressing unmet emotional needs typically involves open and honest communication with your partner. Sharing your feelings and needs in a constructive and non-confrontational manner is an essential first step. Couples therapy or counseling can also be beneficial in helping both partners understand and address these issues. Ultimately, working together to meet each other's emotional needs is crucial for maintaining a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

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Expressing your needs in a mature way is an essential skill for effective communication and maintaining healthy relationships.

Before you can express your needs, you must be aware of what they are. Take time to reflect on your feelings and identify your needs. Are you seeking emotional support, understanding, help with a task, or something else?

Remember that mature communication is a skill that can be developed with practice. It's about fostering understanding and collaboration rather than conflict and blame. By expressing your needs in a mature way, you can enhance your relationships and create a more positive and respectful communication environment.

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A.

• Self-awareness, needs, and personal growth. 1:00
• Unlocking potential through self-awareness and meeting needs leads to happiness and positive impact.
• Self-awareness and emotional intelligence in relationships. 3:46
• Identify values and needs to navigate life purposefully, avoiding aimless experiences and toxic relationships.
• Understanding your values and needs is key to a fulfilling life.
• Childhood experiences shaping adult needs and communication. 7:34
• Childhood experiences shape adult needs, even if not consciously recognized.
• Expressing needs in relationships. 10:24
• Speaker emphasizes importance of identifying and expressing needs in relationships.

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Free yourself from the ongoing destructive inner chatter become the strongest most authentic version of yourself.

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Acknowledging your feelings is a practice well worth engaging in if you want to live a more meaningful life and enjoy strong relationships.

Acknowledging your feelings is a fundamental aspect of emotional well-being and personal growth. It involves recognizing, accepting, and understanding your emotions, whether they are positive or negative.

Enjoy this episode with your host Aurora where she dives deep and finds ways to share easy tools with you that will support your journey to more confidence and increased well-being.

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• Acknowledging and managing emotions. 0:03
• Aurora encourages listeners to acknowledge and embrace their feelings, rather than numbing or controlling them.
• Emotional awareness and acceptance. 1:08
• Sensitive person acknowledges emotions, learns to embrace them instead of suppressing them.
• Offering one-on-one coaching and group classes to help people navigate their emotions and find inner peace.
• Managing emotions through self-awareness and expression. 5:06
• Speaker shares personal journey with anxiety and depression, learns to cope through self-awareness and expression.
• Speaker embracing emotions, expressing them, and distinguishing between triggers and authentic feelings to regulate nervous system and respond maturely.
• Suppressing emotions and their consequences. 8:59
• Suppressing emotions can lead to unhealthy reactions and disconnection from oneself and others.
• Self-awareness and personal growth. 12:00
• Speaker 1 emphasizes importance of self-awareness for personal growth and fulfilling relationships.
• Speaker 1 seeks to help others discover themselves through self-love and authenticity.

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I see and hear too many people saying:

I'm burning out ! this is for you if you can relate.

Let's take a deep breath together. Inhale deeply through your nose, filling your lungs, and then exhale slowly through your mouth, letting go of any tension. Repeat this a few times, allowing each breath to bring a sense of calm and relaxation. Remember, taking a moment to pause and breathe can be incredibly grounding and rejuvenating.

Taking breaks is essential for maintaining overall well-being, productivity, and mental clarity. In our fast-paced world, where constant demands and responsibilities can feel overwhelming, taking breaks offers numerous benefits that contribute to your physical, mental, and emotional health.

With much love

A.

• Taking breaks and self-care. 0:03
• Aurora encourages listeners to take a break and reflect on their lives.
• Finding balance in pushing oneself and being gentle. 1:00
• Speaker 1 & 2 discuss the importance of simplifying life by dialing down on pushiness to achieve satisfaction.
• Focus too much on goals can lead to rigidity and self-doubt.
• Relaxation and mindfulness for personal growth. 4:36
• Speaker encourages listeners to relax and release tension, emphasizing the importance of self-care and resilience.
• Healing and personal growth through stillness and mindfulness. 7:15
• Unknown Speaker encourages listeners to let go of tension and trust in the healing process.

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Free yourself from the ongoing destructive inner chatter become the strongest most authentic version of yourself.

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Hello there beautiful human being out there,

Feelings of unworthiness can be a significant obstacle for many people. These feelings can lead to self-doubt, low self-esteem, and a negative self-perception. They may prevent individuals from pursuing their goals, taking risks, or reaching their full potential.

Feelings of unworthiness can stem from various factors, such as past experiences, negative self-comparisons, societal expectations, or critical self-judgment. Overcoming these feelings requires self-awareness, self-compassion, and a willingness to challenge negative thought patterns.

Join Aurora today when she addresses feelings of unworthiness and how coaching may involve:

1. Self-Reflection: Recognize and acknowledge the feelings of unworthiness and the underlying causes. Understanding the root of these emotions is crucial for addressing them effectively.
2. Cultivating Self-Compassion: Practice self-compassion by treating yourself with kindness and understanding, just as you would with a friend facing similar challenges.
3. Challenging Negative Beliefs: Challenge negative beliefs and replace them with more realistic and positive thoughts. Focus on your strengths and accomplishments.
4. Seeking Support: Reach out to friends, family, or a therapist for support and guidance. Talking about your feelings with someone you trust can be helpful.
5. Setting Realistic Goals: Set achievable and realistic goals to build confidence and a sense of accomplishment.
6. Practicing Gratitude: Focus on the positive aspects of your life and practice gratitude for the things you have.
7. Embracing Imperfection: Recognize that everyone has flaws and that perfection is not attainable. Embrace your imperfections as part of being human.
8. Letting Go of Comparisons: Avoid comparing yourself to others. Each individual's journey is unique, and everyone has their own struggles and challenges.

Remember that overcoming feelings of unworthiness is a process that takes time and effort. Be patient and kind to yourself during this journey of self-discovery and growth. With consistent practice and self-compassion, you can gradually transform your perception of self-worth and lead a more fulfilling life.

With much love

Be You. Fearlessly.

A.

• Self-worth and its impact on decision-making. 0:01
• Life coach shares personal struggles with self-worth, traceable to past decisions.
• Self-worth and its impact on success. 1:40
• Speaker 1: Many feel unworthy, stuck in old beliefs and patterns.
• Developing self-worth is crucial for success, as it determines one's ability to accept opportunities and set boundaries.
• Setting unrealistic New Year's resolutions and giving up easily. 4:50
• Speaker 1 warns against setting unrealistic goals, citing lack of self-worth as a common obstacle.
• Self-awareness and personal growth. 6:19
• Unworthy individuals interpret obstacles and failures as confirmation of their lack of deservingness.
• Become radically honest, cut through limiting beliefs and fears, and improve self-awareness to break free from stuck situations.
• Personal growth and self-awareness.

Hello there,

Today Aurora will share with you a couple tools on how to get a grip on anxious and negative thoughts.

1. Question Assumptions: Challenge your own assumptions and beliefs regularly. Be open to the possibility that you might be wrong or that there might be alternative viewpoints worth considering.
2. Mindfulness: become immersed in the life around you. Stay connected, curious and engaged with the people around you.
3. Take Breaks and Practice Self-Care: Give your mind time to rest and recharge. Engage in activities that bring you joy and relaxation. A well-rested mind is more open and receptive to new ideas.

Remember that managing negative and anxious thoughts is an ongoing process, and it's okay to seek help when needed. If your negative thoughts persist and significantly impact your daily life, consider reaching out to a mental health professional for additional support and guidance.

With much love

A.

• Overcoming negative thinking and coaching services offered. 0:04
• Aurora offers coaching services for personal growth and well-being.
• Managing anxious thoughts and becoming more aware. 1:51
• Speaker reflects on origins of anxious thoughts and seeks self-awareness.
• Speaker engages in self-inquiry to challenge limiting beliefs and cultivate mindfulness.
• Managing negative thoughts and anxiety through mindfulness. 5:32
• Reframe negative thoughts by questioning assumptions and exploring different perspectives.
• Practice mindfulness to understand your mind, heal anxiety/depression, and observe thoughts/behaviors without judgment.
• Self-awareness and mental health. 9:16
• Speaker 1 emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and reframing negative thoughts to improve mental health and well-being.
• They suggest detaching from thoughts and observing them without judgment to gain greater insight into oneself.
• Self-care, mindfulness, and personal growth. 12:29
• Speaker 1 emphasizes the importance of self-care, including mindfulness, nutrition, and personal relationships, to improve overall well-being and reduce feelings of inadequacy.
• The speaker encourages listeners to prioritize self-care practices, such as journaling, meditation, and connecting with loved ones, to cultivate a positive mindset and improve their mental health.

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yourself from a situation you don’t wish to be in. I invite you to get to know yourself better in order for you to make...