Often the words “Let It Go” have been used as an alternative to taking responsibility for one's actions. This is my personal belief, but I believe that anyone who has hurt or wronged you has no right to tell you to let it go. Now I am saying that you should not let it go I am just saying that you should be allowed to go through the process. In order to get over a situation, you must admit that it is a situation, to begin with. You have to give yourself permission to feel without being overtaken by your emotions.

There comes a time in life when you get to the crossroads. The crossroads is that point in life where things are about to change and you are going to have to make a choice. I feel that we get to this point many times in life and if I am being completely honest, I have not always made the right choice.

Do not let what is happening on the outside affect you on the inside. You must stay focused on the destination, not the journey. You must be who you are and not who people want you to be. Realize that the world is a bad place with bad people and simultaneously a good place with good people. What I am trying to say is that trouble does not last always.

Are you a bystander in your own life? Are you just letting things happen to you? Are you just watching things happen to other people when you could do something? Are you diffusing responsibility and waiting for someone else to step in?

I heard someone say your character will sustain you where talent and wealth will not keep you and those words spoke to me. It made me realize that we cannot cover up who we are with what we do or what we have. We have to get to the heart of matter and fix what is underneath if we really want to please God.

You need some me-time. There comes a time in life when you have to shut yourself off to the world and get to know you. Often times we enter into relationships without truly knowing who we are as an individual. It is impossible to be a good partner if you do not know what you bring to the table.

In this day and age, no one wants to work for anything. They would rather have something given to them than to actually earn it. People want everything quickly and easily, so much, so that they are okay with things just looking good instead of actually being good. They do not care if things last anymore just as long as can brag on what they have for the moment or what they use to have. That is why they say easy come easy go.

Transform means to make a thorough or dramatic change in the form, appearance, or character of. Change means to make or become different. God asks us to transform not only in appearance but in character as well. Gaining knowledge is irrelevant if you do not apply the knowledge.

God knows what we need and what we do not need to fulfill our destiny. As long as you keep looking for something else outside yourself to validate you there is no way you can make it. You have to tell yourself that whatever you need God has already equipped you with.

Sometimes you do not know why you are going through so much pain. You cannot see what is on the other side of your struggle so you cannot see the sun for the rain. It’s hard to hold on when you don’t know what’s going to happen but I’m here to tell you that God didn’t bring you this far to leave you.