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In the Book of Proverbs, King Solomon reminds us that “life and death are in the power of the tongue.” So it should come as no surprise that how we use our words really matters, especially when we talk to and about our spouse. In this program, Chip helps us better guard what comes out of our mouths and how we can repair past wounds we have created with careless or harsh comments. Discover how to cultivate a more loving and supportive environment with your mate.

Introduction:

• Have you ever wondered why a little comment can cause such a big argument with your spouse?

Fighting lies with truth

Lie #14 (for women):

• My husband’s attitude makes no sense to me. He gets so upset when I make even the smallest comment in front of others about something he did wrong.

The truth:

• Husbands fear FUTILITY, the sense that they don’t measure up. That’s why my AFFIRMATION, refusing to CRITICIZE publicly, and PHYSICAL intimacy build up his confidence.

Key verse:

• Philippians 2:3-4

Lie #15 (for men):

• My wife’s attitude makes no sense to me. If I joke about her gaining weight or take notice of other women, she comes unglued.

The truth:

• Women fear ABANDONMENT, of losing the relationship. That’s why saying “I LOVE you,” being a good LISTENER, and showing AFFECTION in public build up her sense of belonging.

Key verse:

• Philippians 2:3-4

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Today, Pastor Jack teaches that Samuel knew the vital importance of creating a life of memorable worship that reminds us of all the things that God has done in our lives. The sacrifice of praise might be costly, but it is powerful enough to overcome our greatest challenges.

I know I’ve been there. If you’ve ever been out on the water battling a headwind, it can be frightening. No matter how hard you struggle, the boat seems to be going nowhere, and you wonder if you’ll ever make it back to land. As Pastor Chris points out in today’s message, as the disciples struggled against the storm, even as experienced fishermen, they felt intense fear. Then Jesus stepped into the storm with them, and He wants to do the same for us as we struggle through this life.

There has been a dramatic shift in the family dynamic over the last 50 to 60 years. Back then, men typically went to work to earn money, while women managed the house and cared for the kids. In this program, Chip Ingram raises a few vital questions: how does this traditional structure compare to the realities of how families function now? And what does the Bible have to say about the roles men and women play in their households? Join us for those profound answers!

Introduction:

“Relationships just don’t work well when the man neglects to take the lead when he should, neglects to make decisions at home, and fails to be proactive in his involvement with his family.” -“Passive Men, Wild Women” by Pierre Mornell

Fighting lies with truth

Lie #12 (for men):

• Husbands are to earn the money and wives are to take care of the kids and the house.

The truth:

• As a husband, I am the SERVANT LEADER in our home. I am responsible to provide for and protect my family’s physical, spiritual, and emotional needs, as I MODEL Jesus every day.

Key verse:

• Ephesians 5:1-2

Lie #13 (for women):

• My husband is almost like another child I have to take care of. If I didn’t handle our finances, the house, our children, and major decisions, this place would fall apart tomorrow.

The truth:

• When I take care of everything myself, I’m actually usurping my husband’s GOD-GIVEN role. Until I STOP taking care of everything, my husband will never step up and lead.

Key verse:

• Proverbs 3:5-6

Breaking the cycle

• Women: Refuse to do things that are your spouse’s job
• Men: Step up and own the responsibility

Broadcast Resource

• Download Free MP3
• Message Notes

Additional Resource Mentions

• Marriage Truth Cards Offer
• "Uninvited Guests" Resources

Connect

• 888-333-6003
• Website
• Chip Ingram App
• Instagram
• Facebook
• Twitter

Partner With Us

• Donate Online
• 888-333-6003