We’ve been programmed for so many years based off of our parents and main role models. Just because salesman was a bad slimy yucky term in my house, it made me think less of them growing up. It made me think that money was evil.... well after I learned that I can do good with my money too, hear a story about me selling a waffle maker for 52$ that I got for 2$ from happy Gilmore’s grandma. And then I told work on Monday “GET, ME, OUTTA, HERE!” And they said “Here! Eat this! LEAVE US ALONE.” (More happy Gilmore quotes...) anyways I found freedom of choice from an open mind. Enjoy, like, share or do whatever I don’t really care. :)

Don’t miss out on opportunities today because you’re going through the motions looking forward to something else. If you’re aware of it, and make connections, you can have moments today that will shape the rest of your life. You might meet your best friend you didn’t even know. Also in the episode, you’re fucking human. Stop allowing yourself to be labeled. If my son came up to me and said dad some kid at last nights game said he had anxiety, what does that mean?? I would respond, it’s that feeling we talked about right before you do something important. Those little butterflies bud. We just call that “priming” in this house. Your body is preparing itself going through checks like an airplane pilot making sure you’re ready. The more practice you do. The less checks it feels like it needs to make. “Yeah dad but he says it makes him have to poop.” Well son his check system said that pizza and chocolate milk he had needs to go before this game starts. Don’t worry about it pal. When you’re excited and turned on, others see that as a negative. It’s really a positive because you’re trying to do something great.

When doing a new Leverage I’ll spend the majority of the time asking questions to get to know the guest until I have a grasp on where the pressure points are. So I don’t start giving advice until later in the podcast.... Have you ever felt stretched thin? Maybe felt like you aren’t that great at saying no? A lot of times when you are accepting a lesser role than you deserve, it’s because you don’t have enough love for yourself to stand up and say something. And if that’s not it, it’s self doubt. When you take a stand and say, “no I’m ready for a bigger role,” you have to back it up with work. And the pressure you put on yourself, is GOOD PRESSURE. Don’t be fooled. We can’t expect to go through life and have something handed to us because we are good people. You GOTTA ASK FOR IT. And let them know, “YOU JUST MADE ONE OF THE BEST DECISIONS.” I’ve never not succeeded and I won’t let you down. Then go work and back that shit up. You’re a star, you’re meant to be a star. Don’t be a team player.

Ashley is a wonderful role model and someone who you never know where she will be in 3 months with her adventurous spirit and glow for life. She has danced and performed in Disney’s Aladdin at Disneyland and with broadway performers. She’s performed at the presidents inauguration and danced in Steve Wynn’s productions in Las Vegas. Her love radiates through this podcast as she steps outside her comfort zone to bring her experience to your life!

Host of the Late Night Talk Sew! So grateful to have @Azy.Chyr on the podcast! Instagram @chyrinc fashion Instagram @xxcreativeagency shes well rounded, has tons of energy and original started a podcast while Sewing! I know she’s like your favorite grandma except an awesome millennial at the same time. She gives great podcast tips for new comers And brings some fire 🔥 to us at Always Loading! So glad to have you on!

If someone successful, really successful has tried something and you find out about it. Go ahead and give it a go. Because you can always stop tomorrow. Unless it’s drugs I’m not a fan of those

A recent episode of impact theory also explained this, where we are motivated by different things. And if you do not accomplish one of your goals, you really should discipline yourself. It’s quite simple really. When you set up that discipline BEFORE you try to do your goals, it’s even more powerful. Mine is I can’t eat until I’ve accomplished something usually. Because damn I love food and I will finish the task fast.

In my “Leverage” series I take time to mentor and guide both athletes and parents of athletes on gaining new perspectives, gaining leverage and discipline over their work habits, and pointing them in a good direction. If you ever need my help my first consultation is always free! I love helping people.

Pretty simple honestly. The system you’re trying to get into isn’t impossible. You just haven’t worked hard enough where you can be ignored. You’re not or haven’t been obsessed for long enough

So many of us in this arena of life are learned extroverts with the same anxieties and worries as everyone else. We just had Role Models that were more outgoing and had better social skills. And very important! We’ve just developed love for ourselves where we can stand proudly in who we are. When you learn how to state who you are and why you love being someone who gets to know people individually or why you love nerdy things like myself or what ever. two things happen. First, there are no expectations for you to be in the middle of the group being loud, or being anyone you don’t want to be. second, you tell people without saying “this is who I am, take it or leave it, but I love it” there is nothing anyone can say at that point. Even if someone made fun of you, you already stated that you love that part about you, so it’s a quick fuck off to them and they look like the jerk. Learn to love the shit out of yourself and stand in that!