008  Isn't it funny how two people who have been married for over 10+ years can still have totally different interpretations of a situation

You'll discover in this episode the key to having successful crucial conversations.  You curious?  Hint:  You're on the right track!

I also share from heart about the power of believing for and expecting for the best in your future!

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007 My Secret Tool to Never Forget Anything and Delegate Effectively (Even if You're a Self-Professed Control Freak)

Discover how you can utilize checklists in every area of your life to conserve your precious brain power. Some ideas: 

• My Kid Responsibility Clipboards (also provides a big shot of power!)
• My Babysitter Action Guide
• Shopping List App for Grocery, Amazon, Consignment Sales and shared with hubby
• Virtual Assistant Recurring Tasks

Now, isn't that fun? Conserve your brain power by doing a brain dump into a checklist today!

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006 Discover some of my Mom Mindset Secrets in this episode!  

Andrew, 16 months, had a total eval for some likely gross motor delays. 

These appointments bring up all the Mom guilt for me.

Therapists asking me a zillion questions to which I don't know any answer. 

Me feeling melodramatic for my ridiculous-ness whilst Moms in many parts of the world struggle to even feed their babies.

I've actually developed a Mom Guilt No More Mind Flood System.  I got to the car and determined to check my self-talk and go through the 3 steps.  And, you know what? 

I didn't even cry.

Got home and realized I got my period for the 3rd time this month after having none for 2 years from pregnancy and nursing.

So, just wanted to share - this is real life.

Grass is always greener on the other side.

The enemy is always ready to whisper lies to us as women and leaders.

Its ok to have a good cry over it - believe me, check a bathroom stall 2-3 times per month and you'll find me.

It's also ok to check your self-talk, pray, process your emotions and move forward. 

Cheering you on, Mama!  You're doing better than you know. **Kick 2020 off right**

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005 What is the key to staying in love and having an the intimate relationship with your partner that we all crave?  Dating!

What do you want your relationship to look like 50 or 80 years from now? Date night is cheaper than divorce.

Key takeaways:

• Keep it fresh and do different things for dates!
• • Popsicle stick draw!
• Plan it out so you can look forward to it: Let the excitement build up and ignite your night.
• Flirt and dress up for the date:  End with sex.
• Make it a regular event: Set it as a recurring appointment.
• Doesn’t have to cost money: You can always have a date night in if you can’t find a sitter; just remember to keep it fresh! 
• • Date Night in a Box
  • https://getdatebox.com/
  • https://cratedwithlove.com/
  • https://dateboxclub.com/
• Babysitting co-op:  www.sittingaround.com
• Trade sits with another family.
• Go away overnight at least 1 time per year.

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004 Ever get excited about something, but then start thinking about everything you “should” do to make it happen and become overwhelmed!  Paralysis of analysis - eeks!

Often when I talk with people about my passion of online business, a lot of people share with me that they feel like they have no time to build an online business. 

I felt the same way!  This really led me to define this “Only 3 Offers System” I teach within Brilliant Life Business.

This works in every business, e-commerce products, brick and mortar and online businesses. 

3 Offers:

• Free offer: lead magnet (see Episode 2) 
• Intro offer:  $27-$97; leads you toward your core offer
• Core offer:  $297 - $8k; your main offer
• Interconnected. 
• Solve a problem and agitate a new problem.

3 Offer Fastest and Most Profitable Order of Creation

• Free offer:  Use your free offer to build your email list to 1k people. 
• Intro offer:  Quickly develop an intro offer so your growing audience has something it can buy from you. 
• Core offer:  Create your core offer outline for your course or main product, like a table of contents for a book, as you’re growing your email list.
  • You want to serve your people at the deepest level, then connect with them before actually building your core offer and make sure that you’re solving their problems.

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003 Have you ever wrestled with imposter syndrome?  It causes you to doubt yourself, despite obvious proof of your competence.  I have!

When considering starting any new venture, most especially an expert-based, online business, a lot of people struggle with imposter syndrome:

1) they’re not an expert in any subject matter 2) what they have to say has either been said before or just isn’t all that valuable

The 3 Keys of Why You Don’t Need to Be an Expert to Build an Online Business:

• 1)  Go Pro in Your Mind First.
• 2)  Give Up the Lie of Perfectionism
• 3)  Focus on the People Who Need You

1) Go Pro in Your Mind First:You just need to decide who you are. 

--You are a ______ .

Steven Pressfield, The War of Art, calls it, “going pro in your head.”

2)  Give Up the Lie of Perfectionism. Cheryl Sandberg’s, “Done is better than perfect.”

80/20 rule 

Release the need to be perfect.  You don’t need to be perfect in your knowledge or perfect in the content that you’re releasing in order to build an online business.

3)  Focus on the People that Need YouServant hearted leadership and business.  

Who in this world is waiting for you?  Looking for answers. Needing encouragement.  Crying themselves to sleep because they don’t have the tools and knowledge that you do.  

The world needs what you alone can offer.Conclusion:You don’t need to be an expert to Build an Online Business.  Anyone can do it even if you’ve never sold anything before!

If you’ve never thought about this, I encourage you to think about it.  Think about the people who need you and how you can start serving those around you at an even greater level!

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002 Most people go into businesses that are service based businesses.  There’s a whole new model available to entrepreneurs or people that are just unhappy in their current career - this is called an online, expert based business. This is what my Brilliant Life™ Business teaches!

You take your expertise, knowledge and experiences and package it in a way to get it out into the world via the internet.

Your focus is on serving, not selling.  You’re focused on serving others with the knowledge that you’ve gathered over your life - hopefully save them time, money and pain.  

How satisfying is that?!

So, the secret is simplifying How to Grow Your Online Business the Easy Way - Even if You’ve Never Sold Anything Online. 

I teach a 4 Step System to Automate Sales for your Online Business, for service or expert based businesses, utilizing what’s called an online funnel.  A sales funnel takes a large group of potential buyers and funnel it down to actual sales.

• I believe websites are dead.  They’re overwhelming. Funnels simplify a buyers experience.
• It is kinda like going to a car lot and there’s only one car salesman working and when he’s working, he’s working.  When he’s not and the lot is closed, no sales are being made.
• With an online sales funnel and the power of the internet, you have sales people working for you 24-7, around the clock, while you’re sleeping, bringing in new, qualified leads to your product or service.
• 1) Build Your Audience: 
• • Build Your Show
  • Pick one platform to focus on
  • Speed this up:  paid traffic via ads
• 2) Create a lead magnet:
• • Lead people from your show to your lead magnet.
  • Download “x”
  • Really want it.
• 3) Grow and nurture your email list:
• • Each email on your list is worth $.25
  • 75% of sales come from lists.
• 4) Sell your products/services: 
  • Use sales funnels web page to sell your products and services.

Thanks so much for listening and I’m cheering you on to live your Brilliant Life™ today! 

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001 Welcome to the trailer for the Brilliant Life™ Show!

Ever wondered if you it’s possible to be a really amazing leader, friend, wife and mother and still pursue other dreams or business ideas?

The Brilliant Life™ Show is going to help you discover how to grow, monetize and scale a passive income business using online business without  sacrificing your family and health, 

being a tech whiz and 

spending thousands of hours and dollars fancy marketing tactics.

I’m going to share with you secrets about my Micro-Planning™ Systems and so much more!

A big obstacle in living your Brilliant Life™ is a lack of clarity around what that personally means.  Not for your parents, partner, boss, kids, neighbors or culture. What does your Brilliant Life™ mean for you?   

**5 Years in 5 Minutes // A Simple Exercise that Brings Lasting Clarity!**

“Most people overestimate what they can do in one year and underestimate what they can do in ten years.”  ~Bill Gates

• Take 3-5 minutes to envision what you want your life to look like 5 years from now.
• Imagine you had a magic wand which removed all limitations. 
  • Get quiet.
  • Get specific:  smells, sounds, feelings, etc.
  • Write things down.
• Four life categories:
  • Emotional/Relational
  • Spiritual
  • Physical
  • Financial/Vocational

I don’t believe you’re expecting too much out of life.  In order to encourage you to live your Brilliant Life™, you’ll first need to clarify what that means for you! **Kick 2020 off right!** 

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