Twenty seasons. Over one hundred weddings. Only twelve couples still married.

Married at First Sight Season 20 based in Seattle, and we are watching the same pattern play out that over and over again. The wedding is electric. The honeymoon is exciting. Then they move into the apartments, real-life begins, and the spark starts flickering. Here is what almost nobody tells you: passion is not something you find. It is something you build...intentionally.

In this episode of The B-Side of Marriage Podcast, we break down what MAFS Season 20 is showcasing about connection, desire, and what actually keeps couples together after the butterflies wear off. We are a husband and wife marriage and relationship coaching team, so you get both perspectives: his and hers, no filter.

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The B-Side of Marriage podcast is hosted by Jason and Ra'Shunda Adams, who are marriage coaches and premarital counselors, where they discuss the good, the bad, and the real of marriage life and family. They have been married for over 17 years and are raising 2 young kings and 1 young queen. They do not have the perfect marriage, but they do have a strong one and are extremely passionate about helping couples have fulfilling, secure, and healthy marriages. ******************************************************

Bside Of Marriage Song Created by Lain Gray https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGCZ6MBOcTg5oG2SV89t-RA

Every Black parent carries the heavy weight of sending your child into an area, a school, a team, or a neighborhood that wasn't built with them in mind.

In this episode of The B-Side of Marriage, we sit with something a lot of us are dealing with right now: the fear, the grief, and the hard questions that come with raising Black children in predominantly white spaces.

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The B-Side of Marriage podcast is hosted by Jason and Ra'Shunda Adams, who are marriage coaches and premarital counselors, where they discuss the good, the bad, and the real of marriage life and family. They have been married for over 17 years and are raising 2 young kings and 1 young queen. They do not have the perfect marriage, but they do have a strong one and are extremely passionate about helping couples have fulfilling, secure, and healthy marriages. ******************************************************

Bside Of Marriage Song Created by Lain Gray https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGCZ6MBOcTg5oG2SV89t-RA

How long do you wait for someone to change?

In this episode, we explore how to extend grace without losing yourself, why accountability requires agreement, and how unspoken expectations quietly erode relationships.

If you’ve ever wondered whether patience is helping—or hurting—this episode is for you.

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The B-Side of Marriage podcast is hosted by Jason and Ra'Shunda Adams, who are marriage coaches and premarital counselors, where they discuss the good, the bad, and the real of marriage life and family. They have been married for over 17 years and are raising 2 young kings and 1 young queen. They do not have the perfect marriage, but they do have a strong one and are extremely passionate about helping couples have fulfilling, secure, and healthy marriages. ******************************************************

Bside Of Marriage Song Created by Lain Gray https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGCZ6MBOcTg5oG2SV89t-RA

When your partner is stressed, quiet, or short with you—do you assume it’s about you? In this episode, we break down how couples attach meaning to moods and body language, and how that spiral can create unnecessary tension.

You’ll learn the two questions that slow down your reaction, how attachment styles show up, and why empathy doesn’t mean carrying emotions that aren’t yours.

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The B-Side of Marriage podcast is hosted by Jason and Ra'Shunda Adams, who are marriage coaches and premarital counselors, where they discuss the good, the bad, and the real of marriage life and family. They have been married for over 17 years and are raising 2 young kings and 1 young queen. They do not have the perfect marriage, but they do have a strong one and are extremely passionate about helping couples have fulfilling, secure, and healthy marriages. ******************************************************

Bside Of Marriage Song Created by Lain Gray https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGCZ6MBOcTg5oG2SV89t-RA

In this episode, Ra'Shunda and Jason talk about what happens when life gets overloaded—kids, work, school, goals—and your marriage starts running on fumes.

They share why “white space” matters, how to stop missing bids for connection, and how couples can recalibrate before burnout turns into resentment.

🎧 Listen now and subscribe for weekly marriage and relationship conversations.

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The B-Side of Marriage podcast is hosted by Jason and Ra'Shunda Adams, who are marriage coaches and premarital counselors, where they discuss the good, the bad, and the real of marriage life and family. They have been married for over 17 years and are raising 2 young kings and 1 young queen. They do not have the perfect marriage, but they do have a strong one and are extremely passionate about helping couples have fulfilling, secure, and healthy marriages. ******************************************************

Bside Of Marriage Song Created by Lain Gray https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGCZ6MBOcTg5oG2SV89t-RA

Welcome to 2026! In this episode, Ra’Shunda and Jason share why couples don’t always need brand-new resolutions—sometimes you need a reset.

They discuss revisiting last year’s goals, redefining consistency, celebrating wins, and avoiding a performance mindset in marriage. Plus, they share a fun idea: a Marriage Goals Bingo Card to help you track progress and celebrate along the way.

🎧 Listen now and subscribe for weekly marriage and relationship conversations.

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The B-Side of Marriage podcast is hosted by Jason and Ra'Shunda Adams, who are marriage coaches and premarital counselors, where they discuss the good, the bad, and the real of marriage life and family. They have been married for over 17 years and are raising 2 young kings and 1 young queen. They do not have the perfect marriage, but they do have a strong one and are extremely passionate about helping couples have fulfilling, secure, and healthy marriages. ******************************************************

Bside Of Marriage Song Created by Lain Gray https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGCZ6MBOcTg5oG2SV89t-RA

Ever had a day (or season) where you’re exhausted, overwhelmed, or emotionally checked out—yet life still expects you to show up in your relationship?

In this rewind episode, Ra'Shunda and Jason talk about why marriage isn’t 50/50, how to stop negative thought cycles, how to communicate what you need without shutting down, and why self-care and gratitude can help you reconnect when you’re not feeling it.

🎧 Subscribe for weekly conversations that strengthen marriages through real life advice and experiences.

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The B-Side of Marriage podcast is hosted by Jason and Ra'Shunda Adams, who are marriage coaches and premarital counselors, where they discuss the good, the bad, and the real of marriage life and family. They have been married for over 17 years and are raising 2 young kings and 1 young queen. They do not have the perfect marriage, but they do have a strong one and are extremely passionate about helping couples have fulfilling, secure, and healthy marriages. ******************************************************

Bside Of Marriage Song Created by Lain Gray https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGCZ6MBOcTg5oG2SV89t-RA

Why Get Married? What Marriage Really Is (and Isn’t)

In this replay episode, Ra’Shunda and Jason revisit one of their most honest conversations: Why get married in the first place?

They unpack their own love story, the expectations couples bring into marriage, why commitment changes everything, and what it actually means to build a life with someone long-term.

A must-listen for engaged couples, newlyweds, and anyone who wants a deeper understanding of marriage beyond the fairy tales.

SUBSCRIBE for more honest marriage conversations every Wednesday.

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The B-Side of Marriage podcast is hosted by Jason and Ra'Shunda Adams, who are marriage coaches and premarital counselors, where they discuss the good, the bad, and the real of marriage life and family. They have been married for over 17 years and are raising 2 young kings and 1 young queen. They do not have the perfect marriage, but they do have a strong one and are extremely passionate about helping couples have fulfilling, secure, and healthy marriages. ******************************************************

Bside Of Marriage Song Created by Lain Gray https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGCZ6MBOcTg5oG2SV89t-RA

Stress doesn’t just affect your mood, it affects your marriage. 

In this episode of The B-Side of Marriage Podcast, husband-and-wife duo Ra’Shunda (Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist Associate) and Jason (Certified Premarital Counselor and Marriage Coach) have a transparent conversation about how stress sneaks into relationships and what couples can do to stay connected through it.

In this real and relatable episode, they unpack:

*How men and women experience stress differently

*The hidden emotional “weight” each spouse carries

*Why couples stop asking for help (and how to change that)

*The importance of “marriage meetings” and brain dumps

*How to communicate “I’m fine” moments with honesty and grace

If you’ve been feeling disconnected, overwhelmed, or like your marriage is running on autopilot, this episode will help you recognize the signs of stress and learn how to get back on the same team.

🎧 Tune in every Wednesday for real, practical conversations that help you build a stronger marriage — one honest talk at a time.

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The B-Side of Marriage podcast is hosted by Jason and Ra'Shunda Adams, who are marriage coaches and premarital counselors, where they discuss the good, the bad, and the real of marriage life and family. They have been married for over 17 years and are raising 2 young kings and 1 young queen. They do not have the perfect marriage, but they do have a strong one and are extremely passionate about helping couples have fulfilling, secure, and healthy marriages. ******************************************************

Bside Of Marriage Song Created by Lain Gray https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGCZ6MBOcTg5oG2SV89t-RA

The holidays are supposed to be joyful, but for many couples, this season brings up grief, loss, and painful memories. ❤️‍🩹

In this replay of one of our most heartfelt episodes, husband-and-wife duo Ra’Shunda (Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist Associate) and Jason (Marriage & Relationship Coach) open up about their personal journey through loss — and what they’ve learned about navigating grief together during the holidays.

💬 In this emotional and hope-filled episode, we talk about:

Coping with grief as a couple when the holidays trigger painful memories

Supporting your spouse while managing your own emotions

Honoring loved ones through family traditions and stories

How faith, communication, and grace help you heal together

Why it’s okay to not feel okay — and how to set boundaries with family this season

If you’ve lost a loved one, or if the holidays feel heavier than joyful this year — you’re not alone.  This episode offers gentle reminders, practical ways to honor your loved ones, and encouragement for couples who are grieving together.

🎧 Listen every Wednesday for real, honest conversations that help you build a healthy marriage through every season — even the hard ones.

Subscribe for more real, practical marriage advice every Wednesday!

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The B-Side of Marriage podcast is hosted by Jason and Ra'Shunda Adams, who are marriage coaches and premarital counselors, where they discuss the good, the bad, and the real of marriage life and family. They have been married for over 17 years and are raising 2 young kings and 1 young queen. They do not have the perfect marriage, but they do have a strong one and are extremely passionate about helping couples have fulfilling, secure, and healthy marriages. ******************************************************

Bside Of Marriage Song Created by Lain Gray https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGCZ6MBOcTg5oG2SV89t-RA