We take listener questions about green flags to look for, and how to know whether you're "just comfortable" or "in love."

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Alexandra shares some big news and we talk to Rhonda Findling, the author of "When He Can't Commit: What To Do When You Fall For An Ambivalent Man."

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We give updates on what's been happening with our love lives, talk about a ridiculous sex toy that lets ball-havers uh... penetrate with their balls (https://www.balldo.com/), and we get into what it's like dating a "ripped guy" if you're not ripped yourself.

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Part two of our three-part series where we dive into the book, "When He Can't Commit: What To Do When You Fall For an Ambivalent Man" by Rhonda Findling. We read over the rest of the types of Ambivalent people and gear up for part three, which goes over WHY we fall for ambivalent people and how to stop it!

In this episode, we dive into a book published in 2004 that Alison has had in her book shelf for a minute now. It perfectly describes what we now refer to as a "f*ckboy". In this book, it's called an "Ambivalent Man". Alison, Alexandra, and Jack examine the first few sections of the different types of Ambivalent Men out there. Stay tuned for the next episode to find out more!

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Catch up with us as we go over our past week. Alison deals with a break-up, Alexandra has some wet and wild fun with bikers, and then we dissect whether or not an ex's weird networking text is trash or not.

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Actress Shuang Hu (@TheOneShu) tells the epic tale of how her ex-boyfriend swindled her out of hundreds of thousands of dollars in a scheme similar to The Tinder Swindler, Lev Leviev. She talks about how she was duped, red flags to look for, and how she was able to move on with her life.

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Expert, speaker and writer on healthy vs harmful masculinity Jeff Perera talks about working out our emotional "muscles," reframing the tendency for transactional intimacy, and how we can call men in to create healthier relationships.

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We talk about our release party, then read a listener submitted dating story that serves as a very important reminder why we should always be researching our online dating matches.

We also discuss Tinder's new "Blind Date" feature, which Alexandra actually got to try out.

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Meet your hosts, Alexandra Tweten and Alison Stevenson. Alexandra created the @byefelipe Instagram account in 2014 and wrote a book about dealing with online harassment, "Bye Felipe: Disses, Dick Pics, and Other Delights of Modern Dating." Alison is a comedian who has been on thousands of dates and writes about it. Her audiobook, "Like Mother" is available on Audible.

The hosts met when a dude they both dated put them in a group chat together, and the rest is history.

In this episode, Alexandra and Alison answer a sticky question about a "sneaky link."

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