Breastfeeding is often described as “natural,” so why does it feel so hard?
In this episode, I’m joined by lactation consultant Ayelet Kaznelson, who brings over 25 years of experience supporting new mothers through the realities of feeding their babies. I first met Ayelet postpartum with my third baby, during a time when feeding felt painful and overwhelming. Working with her felt like a reset.
We talk about why so many women struggle with breastfeeding in those early days and why it’s not a personal failure.
Ayelet shares how her approach differs from the support many women receive immediately after birth, and why what happens after you leave the hospital can make all the difference. We also get into the bigger picture that’s often overlooked: your sleep, your recovery, your mental health, and the support around you—all of which impact your feeding journey.
If you’re pregnant, newly postpartum, or navigating breastfeeding challenges, this conversation will help you feel more informed, more supported, and a lot less alone.
In this episode, we cover:
Why breastfeeding can be painful or difficult in the beginning
The difference between hospital lactation support vs. in-home support
What actually affects a baby’s ability to latch
How sleep, recovery, and mental health impact feeding
A more realistic, supportive philosophy around breastfeeding
Why better prenatal education could change everything
Whether your goal is to breastfeed, combo feed, or simply understand your options—this episode is for you.
Find support from Ayelet at www.ayeletkaznelsonlc.com
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