The Challenger Podcast

The Challenger Podcast

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  • 169. Why It's Hard to Let Go with Dave Glaser
    On this week's podcast episode, we look at how each of the attachment styles hang onto an ex and what they need to understand in order to let go!  We will walk you through how the anxious attachment clings to an ex while the avoidant may rush on to a new partner shockingly fast!  
    To try our private members only group coaching program free for a week, click here now.  Each week, you will get to attend a group coaching call to talk about your life through the lens of your Enneagram type, your attachment style, and receive feedback from like minded people who wish to grow personally!
    Please subscribe, rate, and review the podcast so that we may share the message with more conscious and authentic daters!
    17 min
  • 168. What Your Enneagram Type Can Teach You about Anger with Paula Gasparini de Oliveira Santos, type 7w81
    On this week's episode of the podcast, we are joined by art therapist, Paula Santos! Our deep conversation touches on so many things that are important to me; including personal growth, anger vs. assertiveness, and how I must be reminded that "Connection is safety". 
    Please subscribe to the podcast, give us a rating, and leave us a review to be the first to listen to this amazing, deep, and lighthearted conversation with Paula Santos, an Enthusiast on the Enneagram, and she showed up today with the energy you would expect from type 7s!
    To connect with Paula, please reach out to her on her website freshstartarttherapy.com or on Instagram @gdosart
    To apply for our private, members only, group coaching program, click here now to join tonight's call!  
    If you're looking to join our remote personal training program to reach your goals quickly and safely, click here to apply now!
    Please vote today!
    57 min
  • 167. How to Best Share Your Trauma with Dr. Kristen Mark, type 8

    On today's episode, we are joined by Dr. Kristen Mark, PhD, and we discuss sex education, how to find the clitoris, and more importantly, how to share your trauma with a partner.  Originally from Canada, Dr. Mark is a researcher and therapist with a passion for working with trauma survivors that have a healthy sex life after they experience trauma.

    We are both Challengers or type 8 on the Enneagram and we discuss deeply how we tend to root for the little guy in our professional lives while pursuing our live's purposes without deviation.  If her message resonates with you today, please connect with her at kristenmark.com or on Twitter @kristen_mark to learn more!

    Dr. Mark mentioned this Tedx talk that begs us to switch the metaphor for sex from baseball to pizza!  Click here to watch now.

    We are pleased to offer our audience exclusive access to Dave's go anywhere, do anytime HIIT workouts through Fit Life Champions, click here to apply for a complimentary consultation today!

    59 min
  • 166. What is Important to Understand about Your Attachment Style with Dr. Morgan Anderson, type 8
    On this week's episode, we are joined by Dr. Morgan Anderson Psy.D. from my home state of Montana.  That's not all we have in common because we are both certified personal trainers and Challengers on the Enneagram.  Today's conversation is like looking in the mirror for me as we dig into attachment theory through the eyes of two type 8's; from one masculine and feminine perspective.
    If Dr. Anderson's message resonates with you today, please feel free to connect with her on Instagram @drmorgancoaching or in her private group community on Facebook here.
    Join us for an Open House event on Oct. 20th at 7 pm mst where we will be joined by Dr. Kristen Hick from Center for Shared Insight to answer all of your dating and love questions.  To save your spot for Tuesday night's virtual even via zoom, click here now!
    In today's episode, I mentioned a funny video from satirist J.P. Sears which you can view here.  Tag us on social media @believeberealbebold to let us know what made you laugh or cry about his take on the Spiritual Pick Up artist.
    52 min
  • 165. How Dating Can Boost Your Confidence with Chelsey Sterling, type 5

    On this week’s episode of the podcast, we are joined by Chelsey Sterling, a local Denver dating and relationship coach, who brings a research based approach to answer all of your questions about love.

    As an Enneagram type 5, or The Investigator, you can believe that Chelsey has done her research! When she is at her best, Chelsey is open to receiving the views of others, especially loved ones. We dive deep into her personal journey to build confidence through dating and meeting a lot of new people in Washington, D.C.

    Chelsey and I lay out how dating can help you on a personal growth journey as you recognize yourself in others. Lastly, we wanted to remind our listeners that you can be both a masterpiece and a work in progress at the same time.

    Chelsey’s mission is in helping women to show up as their authentic selves in the world and find love while they build confidence.

    If her message resonated with you today, please connect with her on Instagram @chelseysterlingcoaching or on Facebook @Sterling Coaching as well as via her website www.chelseysterlingcoaching.com

    We are sponsored by Center for Shared Insight and if you're looking for extra support from a counselor or therapist, please reach out to Dr. Kristen Hick as she is accepting new clients now!  Get your free consultation at centerforsharedinsight.com

    Join us for a free week trial of our private, members only, virtual group coaching program by applying here today!  Each week, you will get to join a live group coaching call, receive two lessons in personal growth, and for a limited time, get a 60 minute coaching consultation with me included for only $37 per month!

    59 min
  • 164. Why Love Fucking Sucks with Brett Mcginn, type 2 and Emily Cox, type 7

    From grandiose gestures to the friend zone, Brett McGinn is our guest this week and he has seen it all.  Brett is the owner of an apparel company called Love Fucking Sucks and shares his story that began in college when he was giving girls advice while his buddies were getting drunk!  We have a special merchandise giveaway for you this week as we invite him and his friend Emily Cox to share their thoughts on their Enneagram types and how oral sex was a deal breaker one night after a concert!

    To win two special logo shirts and a hoodie from Brett, head on over to his Instagram account @lovefuckingsucks___ now to enter for your chance to win! 

    We are sponsored by Dr. Kristen Hick at the Center for Shared Insight, who is accepting new tele therapy and in person clients now beginning with a complimentary consultation!  If you are looking for more support right now, click centerforsharedinsight.com to connect with her today!

    Each week, we host a private, exclusive, members only group coaching call where you can learn how the Enneagram, your attachment style, and love languages can build the foundation for an ideal relationship.  Click bit.ly/Believe-group-coaching to apply now! 

    1 hr 3 min
  • 163. How The Enneagram Type 8 Shows Up in Attachment Styles

    On this week's podcast episode, Dave Glaser goes solo to share what the Fearful Avoidant looks like as it pairs with The Challenger personality type.  When growing and learning about oneself, it won't all be sunshine and rainbows as you progress forward and today, we talk about the shadow, the ego, and how they show up when we are not at our best.

    We are sponsored by The Center for Shared Insight and Dr. Kristen Hick has a new blog I'd recommend you check out now!  Click Three Reasons why People Come Together to learn more about yourself and why you are attracted to others!  To book a complimentary consultation with Dr. Hick, click here to contact them now!

    To join us for a free week of our private, exclusive, members only group, click here to apply and join us for this week's topic: Why you may want to date more than one person at a time!

    17 min
  • 162. How Porn Impacts Your Relationship with Jason Kendrick and Kirk Samuels

    On this week's episode, we have Jason Kendrick and Kirk Samuels returning as The Mad Men of Masculinity to discuss how porn consumption impacts our relationships.  We also discuss what holds men back from finding what they are looking for in relationships and we close out our conversation with Jason and Kirk each sharing the number one thing they wish men knew that would help them most right now!

    If their message resonates with you today, please connect with them at jasonbkendrick.com or kirkmsamuels.com now!

    We are sponsored by the Center for Shared Insight and Dr. Kristen Hick has written a new blog on why online dating is so complicated and how you can build an authentic connection today while enjoying your dating experience!  Click centerforsharedinsight.com now to book a complimentary consultation!

    Dr, Hick will be our special guest joining us on Oct. 20th in our private group coaching program to share all of her knowledge and expertise on modern dating, attachment theory, and relationship recovery!  Click here now for your free trial and to save your seat for the live event on Oct. 20th at 7 pm MST!

    57 min
  • 161. How Shadow Work Impacts Your Life with Soma Miller, type 1

    On this week's episode, we are joined by Soma Miller from The Essential Man to talk about the importance of men doing their work!  From his initiation into manhood to an improvised cold plunge, Soma leads men who are looking to begin their journey but need support along the way.

    We discuss psychedelic ceremony to open up the mind and how our shadow will leak out and erupt in our lives if we don't learn how to face it through our fear and shame as men.  If Soma's message resonates with you today, please connect with him for his new program at theessentialman.net/ignite or on Instagram @the.essential.man

    We are sponsored by Dr. Kristen Hick at the Center for Shared Insight and their newest blog is a must read!  Click centerforsharedinsight.com now to schedule a complimentary consultation for support in relationship, divorce recovery, anxiety, or depression.

    If you would like to join our weekly support group to learn more about The Enneagram, your Attachment Style, and how love languages help you understand yourself better, fill out this quick form to apply now!

    49 min
  • 160. What it Means to Be a Man's Top Priority with Roz Ware, type 3

    On this wee's episode, we welcome back Roz Ware, who exudes feminine energy and rarely holds back her thoughts on astrology, polarity between the sexes, and how women self-sabotage.  As hard as that may be to hear, the feminine will never be the masculines top priority and in our conversation today, I asked Roz to explain her reasoning further!

     According to Roz, a man's purpose is his true north star and when he is purpose driven, the feminine finds that VERY attractive.  To prove her point, Roz shares a story of a man and a woman planning a wedding and what that may sound like from both perspectives.  If her message resonates with you today, please reach out to her on Facebook @rozware now.

    Join us this week for our private virtual group coaching call with our special guest Dr. Liz Fedrick who we welcome in to do an in depth Q and A on how attachment styles show up in your relationships.  This week's group call is an open house and 100% free to join, so send us a direct message on Instagram @believeberealbebold with your email address to save your seat.

    Dr. Kristen Hick and the Center for Shared Insight is our go-to resource for counseling and therapy in Colorado.  They specialize in relationship and women's health, and provide excellent therapeutic care to clients of all walks of life. Contact them now at centerforsharedinsight.com and take the first step to healing, strengthening and transforming your relationship with yourself and with others.

    56 min

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The Challenger Podcast helps you show up authentically and navigate modern dating where texting, social media and dating apps have become the way people connect and communicate.