The Challenger Podcast

On today's episode, Jason Lange and I share our experiences with how effective and expansive men's work can be to grow and develop.  I previously interviewed his wife, Violet, and we talk about their relationship today through the lens of the Enneagram as he is a 9 and she is a 3.  Jason's knowledge of the Enneagram provided unique insight into how it can be used as a common language to help a partnership grow closer to each other and reach goals together!

If his message resonates with you today, please share this episode with just one man who could use leadership and guidance in his life or direct them to evolutionary.men to connect with Jason directly!

May is Lyme Disease Awareness month and to highlight that, today's podcast guest is Jess Willmorth.  Jess lives in Seattle, Wa and has been dealing with this chronic disease for some time now.  Before and during her diagnosis, Jess turned to social media as a resource and a support community to learn more about how to live with her disease while thriving in work and dating.

Today, we talk about how a true partner would complement her life and understand her needs with a chronic condition like Lyme disease.  To support and connect with Jess, please reach out to her on Instagram @healingjess_ for fun prizes and fundraisers each May to celebrate her birthday and bring awareness to Lyme disease.

On today's episode, we catch up with everyone's favorite marriage and divorce coach, Kim West.  Today, we discuss everything from moving cross country before the quarantine, to Maslow's hierarchy of needs, and what divorcing parents are going through coparenting and cohabitating with their soon to be ex!

Kim is passionate about helping people lower stress and uncertainty as she guides them through the emotional rollercoaster that is modern marriage; whether they are entering or exiting their commitment!  If her message resonates with you today, please don't hesitate to reach out to her at www.whenitsknotforever.com or on Instagram @nativating_the_knot 

In this week's episode, Jason Polk, a PACT Certified counselor is back for a live episode with me to discuss Nice Guy Syndrome, Sherlocking, and being a man during Covid_19.  I can't thank him enough for authentically and vulnerably sharing his personal experiences during these challenging times and I feel as if we connected deeper during this episode.

If his message resonates with you today, please connect with him at coloradorelationshiprecovery.com 

Amber Kierra is a speaker and a coach who has chosen to live her life boldly despite losing 90% of her vision as a young girl.  Her mission in life is to share her story of losing her sight to inspire others to overcome fear.  Our conversation today is one of my favorites so far on the podcast because we pull off the mask that is our personality through the lens of the Enneagram.

If her message resonates with you, please connect with her at amberkierra.com on Facebook @asherrard92 or on Instagram @amberkierra and if you would like to read the recent blog post referenced in today's podcast, click believeberealbebold.com

In part two of our five part series, we share a client's story of how she wants to be quarantine exclusive plus we dive into what pick up artists call The Attraction Method.  We dissect what techniques a "player", the "too busy" guy, or someone that sends nothing but mixed signals does to make themselves inauthentically yet insanely attractive?  Tune into what your gut is telling you and listen up as today's episode will give you the tools to beat "the game" when it's being played on you!

Read more on this week's blog post Hate the "Player" and "The Game" 

Roz Ware is a sagittarius and chemistry coach with a fiery passion for helping women find excitement in their life.  On today's episode, I pick her brain on how astrology plays into chemistry for a couple and how a woman receives love when she is in her feminine energy.  It was so much fun to banter back and forth with her within the framework of masculine energy.

If her message resonates with you today, please connect with Roz on Facebook @RozWare  Her message that she delivers on FB is originally what caught my attention and I knew that she would be a great guest all the way from London, England.

Geoff Laughton is a relationship coach and recently joined me to record a Facebook live episode of the podcast!  We dive deep into the Nice Guy syndrome that we find is commonly holding men back from finding lasting and fulfilling relationships.  We reference Dr. Robert Glover's book No More Mr. Nice Guy, Dating Essentials for Men, as well as Dr. Stan Tatkin's Wired for Dating.

Each of these books have helped me become a more authentic version of myself finally putting together the missing pieces in my personal life and repeated patterns that hold me back in relationships.  If Geoff's message resonates with you today, please connect with him at yourrelationshiparchitect.com or theevolvingman.com

We have a special bonus episode for you today: The 8 guys you don't want to date if you're looking for a relationship!    After we share with you those types of guys, we invite you to  grow with us and learn more about how to make your partner feel heard. 

We've been there before, where we just don't feel heard in our relationship or the person we are dating  "just doesn't get it".  We are bringing it up now so that we can become better communicators in our relationships!  Share this episode with just one person you believe could benefit from its message!

If you'd like more support when you're out there dating, apply to join our private, virtual, members only group call each week by clicking here now.  Your first week is free!  For a limited time, your first month comes with a 60 minute call with me included in your membership!