The Challenger Podcast

Today we talk about when is a good time to Define the Relationship, or DTR!!!

Have you ever heard this phrase before?  "We need to talk" is rarely followed by anything good!  You kind of feel like you've been blindsided by the person you've only been seeing a few weeks, right?!

Well, in this episode, Dave talks about why you would want to define the relationship and how it can be an extraordinary way to level up in modern dating!

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Season 3 of the podcast begins with Stuart Motola, author and speaker, that I met recently at The Radical Love Summit. Stuart believes that unconscious self-betrayal is what holds us back in modern relationships.

In his book Fixing You is Killing Me, Stuart helps others eliminate self-betrayal and learn to walk the path of a healthy self-relationship and ascend the greatest heights of loving partnership. In today’s episode, we discuss his experience trying to be the hero for his family and how that was to the detriment of his own needs.

If Stuart’s message resonates with you today, please don’t hesitate to reach out to him through one of the links below.

www.stuartmotola.comwww.facebook.com/StuartMotolaCoachingtwitter.com/stuartmotola

Dave Glaser is the owner of Fit Life Champions and an Enneagram Coach for singles that wish to find lasting love in an authentic relationship. Join our free 3 Day Social Media Detox at www.believeberealbebold.com and receive a complimentary 30 minute consultation now!

 If you love the BBR Podcast and would like to show your support, please click here to donate today! 

To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at [email protected] for more information!

Season 3 of the podcast begins with Stuart Motola, author and speaker, that I met recently at The Radical Love Summit. Stuart believes that unconscious self-betrayal is what holds us back in modern relationships.

In his book Fixing You is Killing Me, Stuart helps others eliminate self-betrayal and learn to walk the path of a healthy self-relationship and ascend the greatest heights of loving partnership. In today's episode, we discuss his experience trying to be the hero for his family and how that was to the detriment of his own needs.

If Stuart's message resonates with you today, please don't hesitate to reach out to him through one of the links below.

www.stuartmotola.com www.facebook.com/StuartMotolaCoachingtwitter.com/stuartmotola

Dave Glaser is the owner of Fit Life Champions and an Enneagram Coach for singles that wish to find lasting love in an authentic relationship. Join our free 3 Day Social Media Detox at www.believeberealbebold.com and receive a complimentary 30 minute consultation now!

Our One Year ANNIVERSARY episode is all about how I began drowning in online dating!!!  I was overwhelmed and I was tired and it was distracting me from my true priorities.   I can't believe it has been one whole year of hosting the podcast!  Thank you so much for all of the support you're shown over the course of this past year.  Whether you have been a guest or a loyal listener, I want to personally thank you for sticking with me through the ups and downs, the personal growth I've gone through, and for taking the time to listen in with our expert guests each week! As a special gift to you, I would like to gift each and every one of you a 30 minute complimentary discovery session with me!  Please book at your convenience at believeberealbebold.com in the menu bar up top!     If you love the BBR Podcast and would like to show your support, please click here to donate today! 

To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at [email protected] for more information!

Laura Ellen Love believes that fear based on past rejection of being authentic, either subconscious or conscious with still needing to take different action is what holds us back in romantic relationships. A lack of guidance and confidence to step into an authentic place will help people move beyond their trauma to see the beauty in their life!

Her business, Energy Success Result has a mission to help as many driven, successful individuals as possible think less in order to achieve more, in all aspects of their lives. Laura helps her clients achieve this with guided personalized meditation you can do anywhere in the world!

When Laura said, “What’s the why behind the cry”, it resonated with me because until we get to the root of the real issue of repeated patterns, we will never fully move on from it.

If Laura’s message resonated with you today, please don’t hesitate to reach out to her through one of the following platforms on IG: LauraEllenLove, FB: Facebook.com/laura.gongwer

Dave Glaser is the owner of Fit Life Champions and an Enneagram Coach for singles that wish to find lasting love in an authentic relationship. Join our free 3 Day Social Media Detox at www.believeberealbebold.com and receive a complimentary 30 minute consultation now!

 If you love the BBR Podcast and would like to show your support, please click here to donate today! 

To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at [email protected] for more information!

Laura Ellen Love believes that fear based on past rejection of being authentic, either subconscious or conscious with still needing to take different action is what holds us back in romantic relationships. A lack of guidance and confidence to step into an authentic place will help people move beyond their trauma to see the beauty in their life!

Her business, Energy Success Result has a mission to help as many driven, successful individuals as possible think less in order to achieve more, in all aspects of their lives. Laura helps her clients achieve this with guided personalized meditation you can do anywhere in the world!

When Laura said, "What's the why behind the cry", it resonated with me because until we get to the root of the real issue of repeated patterns, we will never fully move on from it.

If Laura's message resonated with you today, please don't hesitate to reach out to her through one of the following platforms on IG: LauraEllenLove, FB: Facebook.com/laura.gongwer

Dave Glaser is the owner of Fit Life Champions and an Enneagram Coach for singles that wish to find lasting love in an authentic relationship. Join our free 3 Day Social Media Detox at www.believeberealbebold.com and receive a complimentary 30 minute consultation now!

HOTTTT TOPIC!!! Can a long distance relationship work? What causes problems in a long distance relationship?

I reached out to a former guest on the podcast to get their opinion on the subject and they offered up this advice, “Be prepared for heartbreak”.

Is it that simple? “Heartbreak or nothing at all” when it comes to committing to someone long distance? All-in or all out?!

Today on the podcast, Dave Glaser dives into the reasons why long distance can work and why it absolutely won’t be easy for some! A resource he likes to refer to often is Gary Chapman’s book,The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate.

About ten years ago, Dave was in a long distance relationship that was doomed from the start but he wasn’t aware of why until recently! Tune in to today’s episode on the podcast, subscribe, rate, and review on iTunes or Spotify to be the first to know when a new episode drops!

Dave Glaser is the owner of Fit Life Champions and an Enneagram Coach for singles that wish to find lasting love in an authentic relationship. Join our free 3 Day Social Media Detox at www.believeberealbebold.com and receive a complimentary 30 minute consultation now!

 If you love the BBR Podcast and would like to show your support, please click here to donate today! 

To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at [email protected] for more information!

“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” Proverbs 27:17 New International Version (NIV)

This bible verse resonates with me because in our tough times in modern America, men need a positive reminder that getting together in groups can and will build stronger identity and relationships. A local Denver men’s group, The Evolving Man, that I have mentioned that I am a member of a few times on the podcast was begun by Geoff Laughton who believes that men are held back in relationships for fear that they’ll be found out to be some kind of fraud.

Geoff is a two time national best selling author of Building a Conflict Proof Relationship and Built to Last both are available at yourrelationshiparchitect.com. Geoff was a previous guest on the podcast Your Relationship Architect and is back for a special, live interview in Denver, Co to discuss what men need most vs. what the most want out of life!

His mission is helping people be fully comfortable in their own skin & power using their relationship with self and other as the incubator. With Geoff’s men’s work, he is all about changing the paradigm of gender relations, empowering men to show up for themselves, their partners, and their lives of which I can attest to the power of gathering together as men because I have connected with strong, compassionate men that help me become sharper and my more authentic self.

Dave Glaser is the owner of Fit Life Champions and an Enneagram Coach for singles that wish to find lasting love in an authentic relationship. Join our free 3 Day Social Media Detox at www.believeberealbebold.com and receive a complimentary 30 minute consultation now!

 If you love the BBR Podcast and would like to show your support, please click here to donate today! 

To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at [email protected] for more information!

"As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another." Proverbs 27:17 New International Version (NIV)

This bible verse resonates with me because in our tough times in modern America, men need a positive reminder that getting together in groups can and will build stronger identity and relationships. A local Denver men's group, The Evolving Man, that I have mentioned that I am a member of a few times on the podcast was begun by Geoff Laughton who believes that men are held back in relationships for fear that they'll be found out to be some kind of fraud.

Geoff is a two time national best selling author of Building a Conflict Proof Relationship and Built to Last both are available at yourrelationshiparchitect.com. Geoff was a previous guest on the podcast Your Relationship Architect and is back for a special, live interview in Denver, Co to discuss what men need most vs. what the most want out of life!

His mission is helping people be fully comfortable in their own skin & power using their relationship with self and other as the incubator. With Geoff's men's work, he is all about changing the paradigm of gender relations, empowering men to show up for themselves, their partners, and their lives of which I can attest to the power of gathering together as men because I have connected with strong, compassionate men that help me become sharper and my more authentic self.

Dave Glaser is the owner of Fit Life Champions and an Enneagram Coach for singles that wish to find lasting love in an authentic relationship. Join our free 3 Day Social Media Detox at www.believeberealbebold.com and receive a complimentary 30 minute consultation now!