“I know who I am. If I just believe in myself, I can accomplish miracles!” This is the message of confidence that sells billions of dollars in self-help books and seminars annually in the United States. The market for this message is big as insecure Americans seek out services and ‘professionals’ to improve their lives. This industry claims to have answers for all spiritual, financial, and health questions. The market is primarily female, but men are getting more involved. The market ranges in categories from curriculums on self-improvement, personal coaching, books, holistic institutes, and motivational speakers. The profits are growing from $13.4 billion in 2022 to $14 billion dollars in 2023.1 The market could easily top $15 billion dollars by 2025. The holistic medicine message is most dangerous in the Church right now since its message claims to be based in spirituality to heal the mind and body. Some in our own congregation have rejected pastoral care in favor of holistic medicine ‘professionals’ claiming to not need the church or spiritual support from church leadership or lay persons. The results are not Christ honoring. The great danger in self-improvement messages is the over-confidence that they produce. Confidence in one’s identity in Christ is always healthy. But confidence in one’s own ability leads to a sinful crash. Improper self-confidence, like that of Peter the night of Jesus’ arrest, is the first step to a fall. We are all prone to be overconfident. Those soon to fall are the most confident, and most foul, in themselves. Those are least safe, who think themselves most secure. Satan is active to lead the prideful mind astray. The over-confident are most off guard. God leaves them to themselves, to humble them. This passage of Jesus’ prophecy of Peter’s (and the disciples’ denial of their LORD) follows a biblical pattern found in the Old Testament Prophets of denial, suffering, and restoration.
Let us dig into Matthew 26:30–35 and glean from God’s Word a warning to turn from one’s own pride and turn to Christ our LORD.