Who among us hasn't been caught snuggling an affair partner in the kiss cam at a rock concert and gone mega-viral? Oh...none of us, that's right. 

But why do people cheat? And can a relationship recover? Moving beyond simplistic explanations, we consult Esther Perel's transformative insights into why people cheat, often revealing a longing not just for another person, but for a different self. We'll dissect the interplay of desire, secrets, and the modern romantic ideal. Crucially, we then tackle the question of recovery: what does it truly take to process the pain, grieve the past, and, for couples who commit to the work, navigate the challenging yet potentially regenerative path to redefine intimacy and move forward after an affair? 

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