The Complete Man

Are you happy? With your spouse, with your career, with your physical health? Do you feel like balance means sacrificing fulfillment?

If so, you're not alone. Millions of guys feel like, no matter how hard they work, happiness is always right around the corner.

Some say that settling is the key to happiness... But is it really?

Here's a new way to look at things, and a way to get the happiness you deserve. While discussing that, we'll also cover:

• 3 key areas most guys don't realize their settling in
• How to get the most out of your relationships
• Why sacrificing one aspect of life for another is a dangerous myth
• What to do when you keep running out of energy
• The difference between settling and being happy with what you've got
• The link between low self-esteem and low expectation ( and how to overcome it)
• The key to keeping your ego in check
• What to do when reaching your goals doesn't leave you feeling fulfilled
• 2 things you can do to start feeling more satisfied in life right now
• The answer to "what is the meaning of life?"
• And a lot more

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What comes to mind when you think of a strong leader?

Is it someone who commands respect? Is it someone who oozes with charm and charisma? Whatever it is, "Love" is probably not what first came to mind when you asked yourself the question.

In fact, love is one of those mushy-feely words that we don't really talk about that much as guys. But we should. And this week, we dive into why.

Whether you want to be a better boss, a better father, or a better bro, this uncomfortable topic might be what's holding you back. Listen, and you'll discover:

• Four family values that can make you a better father
• How the media uses our instincts against us
• Why social media algorithms are destroying society
• Why we're less open with positive our emotions as we get older
• What to do when the world gets you down
• The relationship between health and your emotional state
• The real purpose of meditation (it's not what most people think)
• A secret energetic superpower that you don't even know you have
• Why you need to be a little selfish every now and then
• The biggest reason to stop comparing yourself to other men today
• Why you should choose your words carefully, now, more than ever
• And a lot more

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Iron sharpens iron, the old saying goes. Sometimes your greatest inspiration can come from within your family. That's what this week's episode is all about.

Purdeep's younger brother comes on the show do discuss their childhood. You'll hear what it was like for the two of them growing up, and how they both inspired each other to be the best versions of themselves.

You'll also hear:

• How sibling rivalries bring out the best in both parties.
• Why younger brothers are often more ambitious than firstborn sons
• How to get the most out of every day, before most people even wake up
• The pros and cons of "Participation Trophies"
• Why guys are naturally competitive
• The benefits of fistfights when you're younger
• Why mixing business with family isn't always a bad idea
• The pros and cons of growing a beard
• How to find brotherhood, even if you're an only child
• And a lot more

If you have a brother, this episode is a must-listen.

Kids these days... Am I right? No respect.

Okay, that might be a bit over the top and "Boomer" sounding, but the generational divide does seem to be at an all-time high. The role models keep get younger, and the wisdom that comes with experience keeps dropping in value.

What will the long-term ramifications be of this trend? Is there any way to correct course? What can you do as a father, and what should you be doing as a son?

These questions get explored in this week's podcast episode, along with:

• What's behind the "Okay Boomer" meme
• The cultural dangers of not listening to your elders
• One way our generation is screwing up BIG time
• The dangers of looking up to Silicon Valley Superstars
• How family, stories, and culture rely on each other to survive
• Why Google Search is steering us wrong in the way we research the past
• Why erasing the sins of our past is the wrong way to handle them
• How to get the most out of your relationships with older people
• One simple trick to encourage independence in your children (that also teaches them to respect you as an elder)
• And a lot more

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Without a clear destination, you're basically a victim of circumstance.

Setting goals is the first step to claiming ownership over your life and destiny. But if it were that easy, everybody would be doing it. So what's stopping them?

This week, we explore why goals are so important, why so many people never set them, and why most people fail at reaching them.

That, and:

• The outer and inner programming that keeps people from setting goals
• Why some goal setting is actually bad for you
• The biggest difference between high achievers and the rest of society
• Proof that being an impactful leader is easier than you might think
• What it takes to break free of outside circumstances that might be holding you back
• Why microwave popcorn is killing your goal-setting skills
• One major lesson to learn from Toyota
• The best trait you can instill in your kids if you want them to succeed in life
• The danger of long-term goals
• The only 3 types of goals you should be focusing on
• Common ways we set ourselves up for failure when setting goals
• And a lot more

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Some call them the three buckets. Others call them the three bank accounts. These are the three relationships every man must have in his life if he wants to reach his full potential.

Each one is an investment. Each one builds off the other. Most guys focus on one or two of them, but all three need attention if any of them are to yield fruit.

What are they? Well, you'll have to listen to find out. We'll also get into:

• How to regain your passion in life
• What to do when the world gets you down
• What to focus on when rebuilding your business
• The 3 relationships that matter most for every high achieving man
• Why devoting all your energy to your business is a fool's errand
• The truth behind achieving "work/life balance"
• How self-worth tricks us into chasing the wrong things in life
• Why you sometimes need to be selfish for your own good
• One thing men could learn from the women in their lives
• The masculine trait you have to keep in check if you want to succeed
• And a lot more

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You know you need some outside perspective if you want to take things to the next level. Now, you're at a crossroads.

Should you:

A. Keep going it alone, and just have some patience

B. Join a high-level mastermind

C. Get a coach who's been where you want to go?

The answer depends on who you are, how you tick, and what you need. That's why we put this episode together.

Take a deep dive with us, and discover:

• The mindset needed for a successful mastermind that you don't need when you get coaching instead
• How COVID19 impacts coaching and masterminds
• What attracts people to mastermind groups (more than just wanting to be more successful)
• The perfect number of people for a productive mastermind meeting
• One thing that might hold you back from getting the most out of a mastermind
• The two most valuable things you'll get from having a business coach
• The main strengths and weaknesses of masterminds and one-on-one coaching
• How to pick which is right for you, based on your needs
• And a lot more

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The biggest thing holding most men back is their own beliefs.

Even the most successful guys I've ever worked with had one or two issues preventing them from reaching their goals. And after finding them, and working through them, they were able to smash through their self-imposed glass ceilings.

This week, Nathan and I sit down and chat about the most common self-limiting beliefs we see in our clients. These are the six most common, and their effects can be devastating. Do you suffer from any of them?

We'll also get into why these belief systems are so flawed, why the impact so many guys, where they originate, and what you can do to break free.

This was one of the best episodes we've done, to date. And it's probably because we just did it off the cuff.

If you want to find out what our Sinister Six are, you gotta give it a listen.

Do yourself a favor, don't miss this one.

How has COVID19 impacted your business?

Some of the biggest brands out there have started closing up their doors. Economists estimate more than 40% of small businesses will never open again either. Did you have the right pieces in place to weather the storm?

Do you even know what those pieces were?

This week, we take a look at our money system, why so many businesses were taken out so easily, and the unfair advantage some other businesses enjoyed in this crisis.

We'll also look at:

• Why big banks fail when they do
• The secret truth of where our money comes from
• What gives money it's value
• Why corruption is so rampant in the banking industry
• How credit is hurting more businesses than it's helping
• What COVID19 exposed about business operations
• The biggest difference between how our parents managed their money and how our generation does
• One thing you want to know before you ever take on new clients
• Why so many businesses failed when the pandemic struck
• The silver linings and hidden dangers of our current economy
• And a lot more

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Whether it's a recession or a depression we're about to enter, real estate is one of the best places to have your money... if you know what you're doing.

On the flip side, if you find yourself upside down in your investment, you might end up losing it all.

Steven Pesavento is an investor, coach, and host of The Investor Mindset Podcast. He joins us to share his journey, the bumps and bruises he got along the way, and how it worked out for him in the end.

We'll also be talking about how the current lockdowns, safety concerns, and economic responses might shape the future of real estate investing. This one gets deep.

Tune in and discover:

• What to read after Rich Dad, Poor Dad
• Which properties are the best to invest in
• Why some people strike it rich and others fall flat when investing in real estate
• How mindset impacts your results in life and investing
• Why Corona is sending mixxed messages about the future of property values
• What health and safety guidelines mean for property showings
• How to be ahead of the curve when the economy starts top open back up
• What small business closures mean for commercial properties
• Why so many people are flooding to real estate right now
• How the stimulus checks are going to impact your savings
• And a lot more

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And check out Steve's website at

https://theinvestormindset.com/