Ignite Your Confidence with Karen Laos

The Courage to Be Disliked (Part 2)


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In Part 2 of The Courage to Be Disliked, we're moving from mindset to action. If you've ever said yes when you meant no, over-explained a decision, or worried about disappointing someone, this episode is for you. I'm sharing five practical communication habits that will help you stop seeking approval, trust yourself more, and show up with greater confidence and clarity.

In this episode, you'll learn how to:

  • Pause before saying yes. Give yourself time to respond instead of reacting from guilt or people-pleasing.
  • Stop explaining your decisions. A clear, respectful answer is enough, you don't owe everyone a lengthy justification.
  • Replace approval-seeking with clarity. Focus on being understood rather than being liked.
  • Let awkward silence do its job. Say what you need to say, then resist the urge to fill the silence or soften your message.
  • Expect disappointment. Not everyone will agree with your decisions, and that's okay. Leadership requires the courage to disappoint people from time to time.
  • If you're ready to stop managing everyone else's reactions and start leading with confidence, this episode will give you practical tools you can put into practice today.

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    About me:

    Many years ago I found myself tongue-tied in a boardroom, my colleagues and executives staring at me. My stomach in my throat, I was unable to get the words out (in spite of being in a senior leadership role). 

    Then, I heard my boss shut down the meeting. My heart sank. I was mortified. She pulled me aside and said, "You didn't trust your gut. You could've tabled the meeting like I did."

    Why didn’t that option occur to me in the moment? Why did I feel like I needed permission?

    That was the day I set out to change. I began a journey of personal growth to discover the root of the problem. Once I did, I wanted every woman to experience that same freedom.

    I’m now on a mission to silence self-doubt in 10 million women in 10 years by giving them simple strategies to speak up and ask for what they want in the boardroom and beyond, resulting in more clients, job promotions, and negotiation wins.

    Companies like NASA, Netflix, Google, and Sephora have been propelled toward more effective communication skills through my signature framework, The Confidence Cocktail™.

    This is your invitation to step into your most confident self so you can catapult your career!

    Karen Laos, Communication Expert and Confidence Cultivator, leverages 25 years in the boardroom and speaking on the world’s most coveted stages such as Google and NASA to transform missed opportunities into wins. She is fiercely committed to her mission of eradicating self-doubt in 10 million women by giving them practical strategies to ask for what they want in the boardroom and beyond. She guides corporations and individuals with her tested communication model to generate consistent results through her Powerful Presence Keynote: How to Be an Influential Communicator.

     

    Get my free tips: 9 Words to Avoid & What to Say Instead: Words to Avoid | Karen Laos

     

    Connect with me:

    Website: https://www.karenlaos.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karenlaosofficial 

    Facebook: Ignite Your Confidence with Karen Laos: https://www.facebook.com/groups/karenlaosconsulting

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karenlaos/

    Episodes also available on YouTube:

    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEwQoTGdJX5eME0ccBKiKng/videos

    My book “Trust Your Own Voice”: 

    https://karenlaos.com/book/

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