First verse, look at what it says...nope, not going there today guys. That is written to my wife and I am not stepping on that landmine!
But looking at verse 7, notice what husbands are commanded to do...to understand our wives, to honor them. And look at the little ‘barb’ at the end of these couple of verses... “...so that your prayers may not be hindered”. Wow - think about that, God may not hear me as clearly as he otherwise would if I am not honoring and seeking to understand my wife.
How am I doing? That’s hard...I know I could do better. We are in the throws of parenting a 12 year old and a 3 year old, and I know I could lead them better in seeking to understand and honor their mother. Man, tough stuff this morning, I have to say.
And then the biggie, a pair of verses that are just rich with application...I mean rich:
15 but in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy,...in other words, be right with God yourself, and be faithful to His teaching
...always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; ...we talked about this yesterday, or in the read through, but this idea of defending our faith...are you able to defend your faith? Not are you a Christian apologist expert...but do you have your faith on a solid philosophical footing? If I were to ask you, “Why do you believe what you believe, why are you a Christian?”, what would you say? If your answer is ‘because the Bible says so’, or ‘because that’s the way I was raised’, you aren’t ready for the storms of life. I am not judging you if that is your best answer, I am just suggesting that you should have a better one...because people that come to steal your faith, people that want to convince you that they know a truth that you don’t know have been more intentional about that thought that you, and you are ‘at risk’ as a Christian. In fact, I think tomorrow will be dedicated to this very idea of defending our faith. But think about it.
yet do it with gentleness and respect, ...and I love this, once you have your answer, it should be something you reserve for the right moments, with the right person or people, and it should be something that is expressed in love and in a way that is inviting of others...or, said another way, not an ‘I gotcha’.
16 having a good conscience, so that, when you are slandered, those who revile your good behavior in Christ may be put to shame. ...then this little gem...having a good conscience, so that we can be confident in ourselves when things get hard. It always feels better when we are hit hard and we feel like we’ve given it our best. Isn’t that true? That’s not only what FEELS good, but that makes God proud as well...and that is how we build spiritual strength. We can keep dropping the ball and coming back to the forgiveness well, sure...God will always give us more. But at some point, we want to move forward and change and be more like Christ. This is a reminder that part of the reward for that is a confidence. A little here, a little there, and before long, we can do things we didn’t think we could because of a confidence, a spiritual confidence, that we’ve built over time, piece by piece. Love that.
Great reading today...tomorrow we will dive into defending our faith and take a quick pause from our study.