my boyfriend and I met on hinge (he was my first and last date through the app) and I've met some of my closest friends I've had for years through bumble bff. everyone is using apps to connect but that doesn't mean they're easy to use. 

whether you are in the process of using dating apps, have used them before, or are thinking about it, I hope these solutions to common mistakes can bring some clarity to what can feel like chaos-

here's the four mistakes -

1 - Your dating profile isn't attracting the type of people.

2 - You're in a scarcity mindset instead of abundance mindset.

3 - Are your matches about quality or quantity?

4 - Focus on yourself. Don't chase, attract.

viv is here for you to offer insight on ways to love who you are now and who you are becoming. the divine feminine is the goddess energy that exists within all of us- healing, connection, and understanding.  go to @thedailydivinefeminine on instagram to be a part of it all

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it's Q&A thursday! every week on thursday i'd love to answer your specific questions on the podcast. just submit your questions to our story post on instagram @thedailydivinefeminine (if you wish to stay anonymous, let the know!)

todays questions:

- you think the spaces in which we live influence the way in which we live, and how we feel?

- do you have a bachelor degree?

- do you prefer digital as to keep tracks of your goals or a a physical planner?

viv is here for you to offer insight on ways to love who you are now and who you are becoming. the divine feminine is the goddess energy that exists within all of us- healing, connection, and understanding.  go to @thedailydivinefeminine on instagram to be a part of it all

let't link up! (:

youtube: https://www.youtube.com/viviannnv

viv's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/viviannn_v/

the daily divine feminine podcast instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedailydivinefeminine/

shop meraki & moon: https://www.instagram.com/merakiandmoon/

Where attention goes, energy flows.

Are you focusing on your insecurities in your relationship? Jealousy, anger, and fear are all human emotions but how much power are they holding within your relationship?

Relationships are built with time and effort. Through the ups and downs, focus on how you can grow from learning how to love yourself and your partner more.

In regards to relationship insecurities, it all stems from the feeling of being attached to someone and the fear of losing them.

here are 3 ways to work on relationship insecurities:

1. LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF

2. REMEMBER YOU ARE TOGETHER FOR A REASON AND APPROACH YOUR RELATIONSHIP UPS AND DOWNS AS SEASONS.

3. BUILD TRUST AND UNDERSTANDING

viv is here for you to offer insight on ways to love who you are now and who you are becoming. the divine feminine is the goddess energy that exists within all of us- healing, connection, and understanding.  go to @thedailydivinefeminine on instagram to be a part of it all

https://www.instagram.com/viviannn_v/

https://www.instagram.com/thedailydivinefeminine/

https://www.instagram.com/merakiandmoon/

it's Q&A thursday! every week on thursday i'd love to answer your specific questions on the podcast. just submit your questions to our story post on instagram @thedailydivinefeminine (if you wish to stay anonymous let the know!)

todays questions:

- how do you manifest on a daily basis? is it actually effective? is it beneficial to your mental being?

- how many hours of sleep do you get a night?

- do you regret any of your tattoos? thinking about getting one but don't want to regret it.

- i want to start doing daily affirmations but having a hard time coming up with them

viv is here for you to offer insight on ways to love who you are now and who you are becoming. the divine feminine is the goddess energy that exists within all of us- healing, connection, and understanding.  go to @thedailydivinefeminine on instagram to be a part of it all

https://www.instagram.com/viviannn_v/

https://www.instagram.com/thedailydivinefeminine/

https://www.instagram.com/merakiandmoon/

1) Be more genuinely interested in others rather than trying to get them interested in you.

2) Make a good first impression, SMILE.

3) Remember people's names and address them by name. People's names are so important to them. 

4) Be a good listener and encourage others to talk about themselves. Find out what they are proud of, what they want to hear, what they care about. Understand, appreciate, and validate.

5) Talk in terms of the other person's interests.

6) ALWAYS MAKE THE OTHER PERSON FEEL IMPORTANT

the deepest human craving is to be appreciated.

sending you so much love and healing as you go through this new chapter of life xx

viv is here for you to offer insight on ways to love who you are now and who you are becoming. the divine feminine is the goddess energy that exists within all of us- healing, connection, and understanding. go to @thedailydivinefeminine on instagram to be a part of it all

https://www.instagram.com/viviannn_v/

https://www.instagram.com/thedailydivinefeminine/

https://www.instagram.com/merakiandmoon/

we all have divine masculine and divine feminine energy within us regardless of our identified gender. in a demanding, action-based society it's often suppressed or neglected. today's episode is about how we can channel, heal, and nourish our divine feminine energy in order to connect with our intution, creativity, and sensuality.

sending you so much love and healing as you go through this new chapter of life xx

viv is here for you to offer insight on ways to love who you are now and who you are becoming. the divine feminine is the goddess energy that exists within all of us- healing, connection, and understanding. go to @thedailydivinefeminine on instagram to be a part of it all

4 habits I started to become the best version of myself in a year. In the beginning of 2022 I realized I didn't like the person I was and wanted to change that. I decided to put myself first and along with that, making serious changes to my habits. Here are 4 habits that helped me live my best life. 

1. Making self-care a priority. It’s time to put myself first.

2. Waking up earlier.

3. Being intentional about what I put in my body. Balanced healthy eating and taking vitamins.

4. Reading and journaling everyday.

sending you so much love and healing as you go through this new chapter of life xx

viv is here for you to offer insight on ways to love who you are now and who you are becoming. the divine feminine is the goddess energy that exists within all of us- healing, connection, and understanding. go to @thedailydivinefeminine on instagram to be a part of it all

5 signs you should end a friendship - a highly requested topic. knowing when to end a friendship is one of the hardest experiences to go through. as life goes through different seasons, so do relationships. 

here are five signs that could indicate it may be time to move on.

1. the friendship is consistently one-sided

2. they betray your trust or share your secrets

3. they are overly pessimistic/negative

4. they are always creating/attracting drama

5. you've grown apart or are in different places in life

if you're currently in a long-term relationship and are struggling with whether you should end it, I recommend listening to the episode on"4 habits to avoid if you want your relationships to last"

sending you so much love and healing as you go through this new chapter of life xx

viv is here for you to offer insight on ways to love who you are now and who you are becoming. the divine feminine is the goddess energy that exists within all of us- healing, connection, and understanding.  go to @thedailydivinefeminine on instagram to be a part of it all

the holidays can be a favorite time of the year or sometimes a mentally challenging time. it can be a reminder of loss or a trigger for anxiety. today is a reading from viv's diary about her personal experience and how she is learning to deal with it. for those who are experiencing struggles this holiday season, know you are not alone and so loved.

you presence is a present in itself 

xx- viv 

viv is here for you to offer insight on ways to love who you are now and who you are becoming. the divine feminine is the goddess energy that exists within all of us- healing, connection, and understanding.  go to @thedailydivinefeminine on instagram to be a part of it all

it's Q&A thursday! every week on thursday i'd love to answer your specific questions on the podcast. just submit your questions to our story post on instagram @thedailydivinefeminine (if you wish to stay anonymous let the know!) 

todays questions: 

-tips on manifesting?

-stories of manifestations coming into fruition

-how to be more confident in yourself

 viv is here for you to offer insight on ways to love who you are now and who you are becoming. the divine feminine is the goddess energy that exists within all of us- healing, connection, and understanding.  go to @thedailydivinefeminine on instagram to be a part of it all