The Dating Counselor

Join me as I dive into why having an official marriage proposal is a crucial step in building a secure and committed relationship. Whether you’re navigating LDS dating, online dating, or just trying to understand relationship milestones, this episode breaks down what a proposal really means for emotional security and long-term success.
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Dr. Hughes joins me to explore the unique challenges of sex and singleness—especially for those who follow the law of chastity and choose abstinence before marriage. As the owner of Covenant Sex Therapy and author of You, Me and We, Dr. Hughes shares expert insights on maintaining healthy relationships, honoring personal values, and thriving while waiting.

Whether you’re single, dating, or preparing for marriage within a faith-based context, this episode offers compassionate guidance and practical advice.

Follow Dr. Hughes on Instagram @covenantsextherapy for more resources and support.
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Feeling stuck when it comes to making the marriage decision? You’re not alone. In this honest and eye-opening episode, therapist Leslie Stobbe, CSW joins me to share her personal experience navigating the anxious-avoidant attachment dynamic that made commitment feel overwhelming.

We explore how attachment styles, relationship anxiety, and even ROCD (Relationship OCD) can cloud clarity and stall progress—even in healthy relationships. If you’re wrestling with doubt, fear, or indecision about taking the next step, this episode offers real insight and hope.

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What does it actually mean to feel secure in a romantic relationship? In this fun and insightful episode, I bring in my charming husband to share what emotional safety, trust, and healthy connection look like in real life.

We get real about what helps a relationship thrive, how to navigate hard moments, and what secure attachment actually feels like day to day. Whether you're dating, engaged, or already in a relationship, this episode offers a hopeful and relatable look at what’s possible when two people feel truly safe together.

Do you relate a little too much to Chandler Bing or Jerry Seinfeld—always finding a reason why the date isn’t quite right? If you've been told you're too picky, go on tons of first dates, but never quite "click" with anyone… this episode is for you.

I’m joined by my friend (and talented graphic designer) Austin Simkins, and we’re diving into how Relationship OCD (ROCD) can show up in modern dating. We talk patterns, intrusive thoughts, unrealistic expectations—and how to tell the difference between your intuition and anxiety.

Whether you're deep in the dating world or just starting to question your own patterns, this episode is full of insight, laughs, and a fresh perspective you won't want to miss.

Gaslighting can be confusing and hard to spot—especially when you're in the middle of it. In this powerful episode, I’m joined by special guest Shawnee Johnson, CSW who bravely shares her personal experience of being manipulated in a toxic relationship.

We break down what gaslighting really looks like, why it's so damaging, and how to reclaim your confidence and get out safely. If you've ever second-guessed yourself or felt like you're "the problem" in a relationship, this episode is a must-listen.

Tune in for real talk, emotional validation, and tools to help you recognize the signs and protect your peace.

Is passive-aggressive behavior quietly wrecking your dating life? In this fun and eye-opening episode, my husband joins me as we break down the sneaky dating habits that can leave you stuck, confused, or ghosted.

We share real stories, expert tips, and the red flags to watch for—plus plenty of laughs along the way. Whether you’re dating online, getting back out there, or just trying to decode mixed signals, this episode will give your dating game the clarity (and boost) it needs.

Perfect for singles, dating app users, and anyone tired of games in modern relationships.

In this episode, I’m joined by my friend Melanie Cox, MFT, to unpack the unique dating culture in Utah—especially within the LDS (Latter-day Saint) community. We dive into the real challenges singles face while dating in Utah, including cultural pressures, unrealistic expectations, and the influence of religious norms on relationships.

Whether you're navigating LDS dating apps, trying to find meaningful connections, or just curious why dating in Utah feels so different, we’ve got insights, honest opinions, and plenty of laughs to share. Tune in for dating tips, real talk, and a fresh take on what it's like to be single in Utah today.

Perfect for single adults, relationship seekers, and anyone exploring the world of LDS dating culture.

Meet Emily Steele, LCSW. Em is a therapist, dear friend and someone who struggles with Relationship OCD. Join me as she shares her story and we talk about what has helped her AND what partners can do to help their loved one with ROCD.