Learn how your attachment system can help you or prevent you from finding and keeping love. My husband Mark joins me as we break down what Attachment is and how the different attachment styles can play into your dating style. 

Meet the Dating Counselor | Dating Anxiety, Relationship OCD & LDS Dating Support

What if dating wasn’t about fixing yourself, but understanding yourself?

I’m Loni Harmon, a licensed clinical social worker and dating coach aka The Dating Counselor, and I specialize in dating anxiety, Relationship OCD (ROCD), attachment patterns, and the unique emotional challenges of dating within the LDS community.

If you find yourself overthinking your feelings, questioning whether you’re with the “right” person, struggling to trust yourself in dating, or feeling pressure from faith, family, or culture, you are not alone.

In this podcast, I talk about:

• Why modern dating creates anxiety and emotional burnout

• How Relationship OCD shows up in dating and relationships

• The impact of LDS dating culture on self-worth and decision-making

• Why boundaries, emotional safety, and self-trust matter more than chemistry

• How therapy-informed dating support can change the way you approach love

This podcast is for single men and women who are tired of feeling like they have to be less, give more, or prove their worth in order to be chosen. It’s also for those who want emotionally healthy dating, faith-aligned guidance, and practical tools without shame or fear-based advice.

Whether you’re navigating online dating, recovering from divorce, questioning patterns that keep repeating, or struggling with intrusive thoughts about your relationship,The Dating Counselor Podcast is here to help you date with clarity, confidence, and self-respect.

🎧 Subscribe for weekly episodes on dating psychology, Relationship OCD, attachment styles, boundaries, confidence, and modern dating from a licensed therapist’s perspective.

Should I call? Are they supposed to be calling me? I've got to stop checking my phone. Wait did it vibrate? I know I'm technically at work, but I have no idea what is going on in this meeting... Does this sound like you? If so, you may have relationship anxiety! I'm Loni Harmon, LCSW aka The Dating Counselor, and I'd love for you to listen in and learn what relationship anxiety is and learn what you can do about it.