The Decided Mind

When is the last time you’ve sat alone with yourself. I am talking about in the silence by yourself with no distractions? Are you happy with where you are in life? Are you happy with yourself? A great way to check in with You and see how you are doing is to look at your reflection. Yup! That person looking back at you in the mirror when you’re all alone. What do you think when you see your reflection? What do you feel when you see your reflection? In today’s Podcast I share some life changing tips to help you grow, and to focus on changing how you feel about You. Today we are deciding to tune in with your reflection. Stay Decided.

You only have one life to live. So many people go to their graves and their lives were unfulfilled. Here’s why. So many people are so concerned about other people’s opinions. Why? Who knows why. Its stems from fear. Fear of what? Disappointing other people. That fear drives them their whole life unless they interrupt that pattern. No eggshells is you staying true to your character no matter what environment you are apart of. Staying true to your purpose and to your direction. In today’s Podcast I share some insight into the true meaning of No Eggshells. Today we are deciding no more walking on eggshells. Stay Decided!

For things in your life to change, you’ve got to change things in your life. Sounds simple but it’s hard to implement. Why? Change is hard. The end of something is the beginning of something else. Most people won’t give up their old life for a new one. No matter how hard their current life is. Change is going to cost you period. It will cost you your old life to get to the new life. In today’s Podcast I share some ideas to help you evaluate your current life and see where you need to change. Today we are deciding to pay the cost of change. Stay Decided!

Have you ever asked yourself why you believe what you believe about yourself? Typically a belief doesn’t become a belief until you accept it as truth. Once accepted that belief takes root and affects the way you live your life. There is a little voice that’s constantly talking to you, constantly trying to keep you safe, stuck, and comfortable. In today’s Podcast, I share some key things to help take that voice from the master to the servant. The people that listen to that voice either thrive or the crash. Today we are deciding to tune into that little voice. Stay Decided!

Have you gone through something tough, made it through, and came out better from it? How many boundaries do you have in your life right now? Are those boundaries there to keep you from going back to a life you escaped from? In this life we will experience pain. It’s inevitable. Pain is temporary! The choices we make because of that pain are permanent. In today’s Podcast I share some things that will help you self-evaluate so you can grow through your pain. Today we are deciding to grow through pain. Stay Decided!

A new year brings new energy and a hopeful spirit, until it doesn’t. Why do people fizzle out and run back to comfort? Why do people choose the same vices knowing that they will end up in the same place or somewhere worse? It’s because they haven’t fought the old them long enough for the new them to show up. In today’s Podcast I discuss topics that shed some light on why letting go of the old you is crucial to your growth and life. Today we are deciding to let go of the old you. Stay Decided!

How often do you reflect back on your moves? I call reflecting: Data Collection. We are collecting data from this past year. What friendships do you need to keep? What friendships do you need to cut? What boundaries do you need to set up? How did your year look, and would you want to repeat it? At the end of each year people reflect back and start making choices as to what they want to change. In today’s Podcast I share some ideas to help you question things about You so you can understand yourself better. Today we are deciding to tune into our Cause and Effect. Stay Decided!

How many storms have broken you? I mean truly knocked you on your butt and kept you down. Did you get back up to fight again? Did you know that if you determine what the purpose of the storm is, the effects of the storm changes. So you assign meaning to the storm. In today’s Podcast I share an idea that will help you to reflect and to grow. A year passes by so quick. Today we are deciding to wake up. Stay Decided.

With the new year fast approaching, this is the time people reflect on their lives and on their direction. This is when we realize how fast a year flies by. Have you reflected on your year? How many conversations did you need to avoid? What should you have said no to? What have you decided that you need to change? If nothing changes then nothing changes. In today’s Podcast I share some tips to help you set your direction. Tips to encourage you to stay the course! Things have got to change in order for things to change. Today we are deciding to not fold! Stay decided.

Have you put some thought into why you are doing what you are doing? What if you just give up? And then what? What if you keep allowing that vice to defeat you? And then what? What if you don’t take control of your life? And then what? We can go so far down the negative rabbit hole that your life will not end up in a good place. In today’s Podcast I help you tune into the and then what mindset, and how you can reverse this mindset in a great way. Today we are deciding to dive into the and then what mindset, and use it to thrive. Stay Decided!