We weren’t built to do life alone , even if adulthood keeps trying to convince us otherwise.
In this episode, we deconstruct why friendship isn’t a “nice to have,” but a core pillar of our mental, emotional, and nervous system health. From the loneliness epidemic to the quiet grief of drifting friendships, we talk about why connection matters, how friends regulate us, and what happens when we don’t have them.

We scroll to feel connected, but often end up feeling more anxious, lonely, and disconnected from ourselves.

In this episode, we unpack the complex relationship between social media and mental health (and my own journey)! From dopamine hits and comparison culture to body image, burnout, and nervous-system overload, we explore how constant online exposure quietly shapes our thoughts, emotions, and sense of self.

Feeling exhausted, unmotivated, or disconnected? This episode breaks down why what we often label as “laziness” is actually burnout.

We explore how chronic stress impacts your nervous system, why pushing harder makes things worse, and what real burnout recovery looks like. This is an honest, validating conversation for anyone who’s tired of blaming themselves for being overwhelmed.

You’re not lazy.

Blue Monday is often called the saddest day of the year—but is it really? In this episode, we unpack where Blue Monday came from, why January can feel so heavy, and how to gently support your mental health during the winter months.

Every January, we’re told this is the year we finally get it together; new goals, new habits, new versions of ourselves. But for so many of us, that pressure quickly turns heavy.

In this episode of The Deconstructed Life, we gently unpack where New Year’s resolutions came from, why motivation fades so fast after January, and how self-improvement culture has tied our worth to productivity and output. From ancient promises made to the gods to modern expectations of constant growth, we explore why the “new year” can feel less hopeful and more overwhelming.

This episode isn’t about fixing yourself or setting better goals. It’s about questioning the pressure, letting go of perfection, and finding a softer, more realistic way to move through the year.

If January already feels heavy, this conversation is for you.