The Deep Dive with Adam Roa

What makes a great leader?

It's in times like this, when the world seems to fall further and further into confusion and division, that we look to our leaders for the answers that we need. Throughout history, leadership in times of crisis has made legends out of sometimes relatively normal human beings who, in those moments, were willing to stand firm in their values and guide others to do so as well. But, in a world where the gray area between right and wrong continues to grow, what does it actually mean to be a leader?

This week I talk leadership, and masks, with Nathan Kohlerman. Nathan is an amazing human who is a health and wellness wizard, founder of NeuIntention, and advocate for sovereignty who has spoken his truth about the need for masks during this time, and comes from a place of strength when it comes to his own values and his why. At a time when good leadership is of the utmost importance, one thing I believe good leaders should be doing is opening up these subjects for conversation. Enjoy the episode.

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Have you heard the news?

It says something about the state of our culture when I would legitimately be equally as surprised if you said you hadn't heard about the war going on in Ukraine, or the fact that Will Smith slapped Chris Rock at the Oscars. Russia's invasion of Ukraine has had it's fair share of shocking discoveries, and it's a major topic of discussion today, but nothing shocks the world more than a good old celebrity scandal; and that came this month in the form of one of the more beloved celebrities of our age being overcome with shadow, and choosing to react in a way that has blown up the internet.

This week, on another episode of WTF Is Going On? I want to weigh in on some important takeaways from both of these issues and share a little bit of my perspective. It's easy to jump to our own opinions, and react in whatever suits the emotion; but in these times I feel like it has never been more important to really step back and observe not only the events themselves, but why we feel the way we do about them. Enjoy the episode, and I look forward to hearing your thoughts.

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What does it mean to be a man today?

Ok, be honest. Were you triggered when you read the title of this week's podcast episode? I get it. Two major topics in today's culture (especially in the personal development space) are the rise of the feminine and mens work, and the line between the two can be a little blurry. The truth is that women have been silenced, objectified, and straight up mistreated in our culture (and others) for way too long and it's refreshing to see the rise that is happening and the power that is being claimed. What I am noticing however, is how confusing this is making it to be a man today.

Where is the line between toxic masculinity and embodied kingship? What do women actually want in a man?

For this touchy subject, I chatted with coach, mentor, and speaker Brenden Durell. Brenden has worked with numerous men and women, and was also featured as a coach on the popular Netflix reality series, Too Hot To Handle. The subject of what it means to be a man in today's day and age is an important one, and a very confusing one as well. I believe that we get closer to a healthy answer to that question the more that we open our hearts to the conversation.

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Do you believe in our youth?

The world can seem like a pretty crazy place sometimes, especially when dealing with all the hustle and bustle of being an adult in today's day and age. We have responsibilities, stresses and worries, relationships, and are all navigating through it in a world that is changing every single day. Sometimes, especially if we don't have children, it can be easy to forget how the world today is affecting the children growing up in it. To have a bright future, it's important to empower our youth with information and guidance. But, what may be unexpected sometimes is how much we can actually learn from our youth and to see how much perspective they already have on the problem in our world and what they might do differently. Were we the same way when we were kids?

This week, I decided to do something a little different. For the first time, I brought on 13 year old Benji Gonzalez, accompanied by his father Edwin, to talk about the world from the perspective of the youth. Benji stands out as a young teen who is hopeful for the world and focuses his energy on spreading a message of love and acceptance, rather than how to be cool or to fit in. Could this be the start of a world where tolerance and love for each other is the new cool? Enjoy the episode, and to follow along with Benji and Edwin check them out on Instagram at @benji.o_0 and @iam_edwin_gonzalez

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Do conspiracy theories even exist anymore?

Remember not so long ago, when conspiracy theories or conspiracy theorists were seen as crazy tinfoil hat wearing nut jobs that spent too much time preaching about doomsday events, ufo's and government cover ups and that sort of thing. Well, after the last two years of witnessing the world deal with a global pandemic and how it's been dealt with, as things that were previously covered up come to light, should we even consider these theories anymore? It's becoming more and more apparent that we are not exactly privy to all the information out there that really decides how we live as a society, or the systems that dictate some of the most important aspects of life today. One of the major questions of the last two years; What is actually going on here?

For this conversation I brought entrepreneur, farmer, and story teller Marc Angelo Coppola into a conversation examining the root of what a conspiracy is, are people inherently evil, and what lies underneath this movement of polarization that we've seen grow so radically in recent years on our planet.

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Are you pushing yourself to your edge?

Life is full of edges and boundaries. Figuring out the difference between the two is a great way to explore and grow in a way that is healthy and helps you to continue discovering how to live as authentically as possible. But pushing yourself to your own edge is not easy, and by no means comfortable. It's a process that will inevitably have you facing off with your fears and with parts of yourself that often go swept under the rug. This is where real growth lies, where real expansion can have a truly profound impact on your life and your reality.

This week I invited my good friend, and "edge pushing addict" Zahara Zimring, to have a real conversation about boundaries versus edges, and what benefits can come from being open to exploring both. Do we need to be constantly pushing our edges, or is it healthy sometimes to just exist in contentment and in containers we feel safe in? Is feeling safe an edge in itself? Let's dive deep.

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Is it wrong to want pleasure?

It may seem like a weird question, like who doesn't want to experience pleasure? But it's actually pretty surprising how many of us, and predominantly men, think that pleasure is a sign of weakness. Self love, pleasure practice, inner work, etc, these (to some) embody feminine sides of us, and for a lot of men who are caught up in a somewhat wounded version of what the masculine is, this can be confronting. Often when we think pleasure, we think sex. But pleasure is something that is experienced in so many ways in our life, through every single one of our senses, and learning more about how to find pleasure in all aspects of your life is a secret to a generally healthier overall experience.

For this week's episode I was honored to have this conversation with Cam Fraser, an amazing sex coach as well as a certified Sexologist, counselor, and among other things; host of the "Men, Sex, and Pleasure" podcast. I myself have been a fan of Cam's work, and followed along with his message for years, which is why I thought he would be perfect to discuss the topic of male sexuality, and the purpose of pleasure in the healing of masculinity. Enjoy the episode.

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Are you staying up to date?

It's ok if you're not. Let's face it, there is SO much going on in the world today that the thought of keeping yourself in the know is somewhat overwhelming. We are currently seeing a state of being around the globe that is, I would say, unprecedented in our human history. So much so that there are things going on in this world, important and transformational things, tragedies and events, breakthroughs and accomplishments, that we will never even hear about. What is rising to the surface, especially on a mainstream level, are things like the pandemic, vaccines, protests, and the narrative is somewhat controlled depending on where you are getting your information from.

This week I wanted to update you. Not as an expert or a correspondent, but as a human being who has access (for the most part) to the same information that you do. I want to update you on a few issues from the last month that I find extremely important to be aware of, and what my perspective on it is. I hope it provides some insight, some value, and at the very least some awareness to some of the important stories of our current reality.

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How do we remember who we are?

If we are to look at ourselves as a stream of consciousness, a soul or spirit, then we naturally must acknowledge that there is something bigger at play than just these human bodies and our short time on this earth. Many belief systems or spiritual practices acknowledge the possibility, for some the reality, that there are other dimensions and other lives that we have navigated before (and after) we ever embody these human forms. So where do we really come from, and what knowledge might we have stored in the deepest chambers of our consciousness?

For this question, there was no better people to discuss with than Ahaumna and Alex Tarris. You may remember Ahuamna from the episode "Is New Age Spirituality Syphoning Energy For The A.I Matrix", and it was one that frankly blew a lot of minds and raised some deep questions about the current state of our planet and what the reasons and intentions behind it are. This week, I believe, will be no different; as Ahaumna and Alex continue the conversation and bring in further perspectives and clarity on their take of what's going on cosmically and universally to bring us to this current timeline here on earth. If you're scratching your head already, prepare yourself for a Deep Dive on this week's episode.

The CREATE Love Fest is happening February 10th, 11th, and 12th. This is the community's 3rd online festival and for this one, we are diving into the topic of Love. Joined by some of the top facilitators, coaches, and thought leaders in the space, we are going to be focusing on upleveling your experience of sex, dating, and relationships and breakups. For tickets or more information, head over to www.createlovefestival.com

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Is something missing in your life?

Not everyone feels called to finding a romantic relationship that lasts a lifetime. In fact, not everyone even believes that the idea of a soulmate is actually a real thing. The way we look at relationships and partnership has shifted and expanded over the years and in a way has become more customized to the individual and no longer needs to look like the conventional relationships that may have been the norm in generations past. But if you're like me, there is a part of you that believes that "the one" is out there. That each experience, each partnership, and each breakup or transition, is a lesson and a stepping stone leading us closer to that person that is a fit for what you both are looking for in this life. As I continue to open myself up to the possibility, the knowledge, that my person is out there looking for me too, I realize that the work it takes to really have a supportive and lasting relationship begins well before you ever find each other. The time we spend single and sovereign is a time to get to know ourselves so authentically and honestly that we actually become an energetic match to that type of partnership.

This week my guest is Bibi Brzozka, a certified sex, love, relationship coach, teacher and facilitator, who has helped so many men and women alike become more embodied in their life, their sexuality, and their relationships. Our exploration of the topic of soul mates is one that you might relate to, know matter where you are in your journey, because I think that in a way we have all wondered it before. What is a soul mate, where are they, and what is the next step in calling them into our life? Enjoy the episode.

The CREATE Love Fest is happening February 10th, 11th, and 12th. This is the community's 3rd online festival and for this one, we are diving into the topic of Love. Joined by some of the top facilitators, coaches, and thought leaders in the space, we are going to be focusing on up-leveling your experience of sex, dating, and relationships and breakups. For tickets or more information, head over to www.createlovefestival.com

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Lastly, for more information on all things Bibi and the work she is doing go to www.bibibrzozka.com