The Dialogic Approach

What does all of this mean, and why bother empathizing if it means that I will shoulder their pain and carry it with me into another space?!

Empathy is a skill that can be learned.

It is the ability to understand and share another person's feelings, thoughts, and experiences. It involves recognizing emotions in others, being sensitive to their feelings, and responding in a supportive and compassionate manner. Empathy can be cognitive (understanding someone’s perspective) or emotional (feeling what another person feels).

Does that make sense?

Where do you fall short, or what happened to you when you did have empathy in a dialogue?

Drop your comments!

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Welcome to The Dialogic Approach; we are hosts Rachelle Carrié and Dr. Funmi Aguocha!

We are two Black Professional Women in Leadership roles who have combined our subject matter experiences to better suit high-achieving women leaders in the workplace and at home. This is where we help you with nuances of dialogues.

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KEY TAKEAWAYS

- empathy is a fundamental component of effective dialogues

- the ability to share the experiences of others without shouldering their pain (big difference)

- when empathy is utilized, the other person feels heard and understood

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This one is for the high-achieving women trying to figure this out.

When encountering hurdles and challenges in conversations with others, it is essential to grasp the dynamics of communication and how individuals express themselves.

Here is the catch.

When responding from a place of stress or anxiety, the delivery will not be the same.

Sound familiar?

It happens to me!

Where do you fall short?

Drop your comments!

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Welcome to The Dialogic Approach; we are hosts Rachelle Carrié and Dr. Funmi Aguocha!

We are two Black Professional Women in Leadership roles who have combined our subject matter experiences to better suit high-achieving women leaders in the workplace and at home. This is where we help you with nuances of dialogues.

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KEY TAKEAWAYS

- what negative behavioral patterns impede dialogue?

- check emotional GPS

- enter the space of dialogue when your emotional GPS is pointing North

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I am committed to meeting you exactly where you are in your journey.


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Jot this down. I had a moment while writing this.

Respect while listening is the cornerstone of dialogue. You are probably asking yourself how I respect others without sounding demanding. As women, we don't realize that we often make demands when we speak: " Go do this, or that, pick up this or that."

Does that sound familiar?

I know this happens, and often, I catch myself when it is too late:)

Where do you fall short?

Drop your comments!

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Welcome to The Dialogic Approach; we are hosts Rachelle Carrié and Dr. Funmi Aguocha!

We are two Black Professional Women in Leadership roles who have combined our subject matter experiences to better suit high-achieving women leaders in the workplace and at home. This is where we help you with nuances of dialogues.

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KEY TAKEAWAYS

- wait before you respond (gives you time to think)

- suspending all biases and judgments

- listen, to understand. Don't listen to respond

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I am committed to meeting you exactly where you are in your journey.


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Let's break it down.

What is reflective listening? Have you ever even heard of it?

This is a genuine effort to understand their perspective. Sounds simple, right?

It is not.

It requires setting aside our biases and preconceptions to bridge the gaps and deepen relationships.

How?

By tuning in.

Before I spoil everything for you, please click play and tell your girlfriends what you learned from me today!

Where do you fall short?

Drop your comments!

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Welcome to The Dialogic Approach; we are hosts Rachelle Carrié and Dr. Funmi Aguocha!

We are two Black Professional Women in Leadership roles who have combined our subject matter experiences to better suit high-achieving women leaders in the workplace and at home. This is where we help you with nuances of dialogues.

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KEY TAKEAWAYS

- sit in a receptive manner (arms uncrossed)

- suspending all biases and judgments

- make eye contact

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I am committed to meeting you exactly where you are in your journey.


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Today, we are finishing off part 2 of The Edge of Listening!

You must be thinking, how could there be more?

Dialogue has many facets and takes on many forms.

Are you listening from a space of kindness and openness or judgment?

Have you asked open-ended questions? Hmph. What happens when you ask yes or no questions? Where does the conversation lead to?

Think about it.

What are your shortcomings when it comes to listening?

Drop your comments in the chat!

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We are two Black Professional Women who have combined our subject matter experiences in executive coaching and leadership organizational psychology to better suit high-achieving women leaders in the workplace and at home.

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KEY TAKEAWAYS

- open-ended questions that express interest

- understanding reflective listening

- ask for clarification

- be mindful of keeping sight of the overall message

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Today's minisode is special.

Wait.

Before I go on.

You are probably wondering what minisode means.

Well I will tell you. Instead of doing a full podcast episode of 45-60 minutes, I have changed the trajectory of podcasting! Yup!

These are digestible pieces of information that don't last more than 9 minutes where I dialogue directly with you. The information is concise and ready to consume and absorb.

However, our guest speakers and when Dr. Aguocha and myself have a dialogue, those will last not more than 30 minutes.

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We are two Black Professional Women who have combined our subject matter experiences to better suit high-achieving women leaders in the workplace and at home.

There are some big feelings and strong emotions that surround active listening.

I don't know about you, but there are a few areas where we need to work on (including myself), one is mastering the art of listening.

This edge in listening lifts us up and bridges the gaps between two or more people. This can change the trajectory of your personal and professional life.

Imagine, getting along better with your partner, sibling, co-worker, aunt, uncle, or even yourself?

Why is there an Edge in Listening?

Well I will tell you; when we don't listen, we don't capture the most essential parts of deepening a relationship to bond.

What?!

In this minisode, we learn how to be present and engage all of the senses, remove distractions and much more.

What are your shortcomings?

Drop your comments!

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KEY TAKEAWAYS

- remain present

- put devices away when in conversation

- avoid drifting into your thoughts (it happens)

- redirect energy towards that person (catch yourself!)

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I am a dedicated executive coach who empowers and supports high-achieving women.



I am committed to meeting you exactly where you are in your journey.


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After a long hiatus, I stepped back to rebrand and understood what you needed most from me.


2023 has proven to be a year of discomfort, change, and adjustment. We pivoted into a transition while entering 2024, and now we have returned more focused and niched - better than before!


Thank you for your continued support, and let's dive in!


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Welcome to The Dialogic Approach; we are hosts Rachelle Carrié and Dr. Funmi Aguocha!


We are two Black Professional Women who have combined our experiences and subject matter to better suit high-achieving women in the workplace and at home.


I don't know about you, but there are a few areas where we need to work on, one of which is dialogue.


What does that mean?


I get it; sometimes, we speak out of turn, from a place of fear or judgment, and less on the understanding that others have their lens through which they perceive their experiences and life!


In this minisode, I explain the differences between dialogue and having a discussion. In a discussion, individuals express their opinions.


Whereas in a dialogue, you have the opportunity to deepen relationships


Where do you fall short?


Drop your comments!


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KEY TAKEAWAYS


- remain receptive

- allow space for silence

- suspend biases and judgments

- deepened relationships

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I am a dedicated executive coach who empowers and supports high-achieving women.



I am committed to meeting you exactly where you are in your journey.



Alignment call ➡️https://calendly.com/eqconsult

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