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  • Day 47: Easter Sunday – “He Is Risen” – Discerning Hearts Podcast
    A Lenten Spiritual Journey with Discerning Hearts: From Ashes to Glory – Discerning Hearts Podcast
    Day 47: Easter Sunday – “He Is Risen”

    Scripture Reading: (Jerusalem Bible)

    John 20:1–9
    It was very early on the first day of the week and still dark, when Mary of Magdala came to the tomb.
    She saw that the stone had been moved away from the tomb and came running to Simon Peter and the other disciple, the one Jesus loved. “They have taken the Lord out of the tomb,” she said, “and we don’t know where they have put him.”

    So Peter set out with the other disciple to go to the tomb.

    They ran together, but the other disciple, running faster than Peter, reached the tomb first;
    he bent down and saw the linen cloths lying on the ground, but did not go in.
    Simon Peter, who was following now came up, went right into the tomb,
    saw the linen cloths on the ground, and also the cloth that had been over his head;
    this was not with the linen cloths but rolled up in a place by itself.

    Then the other disciple who had reached the tomb first also went in;

    he saw and he believed.
    Till this moment they had failed to understand the teaching of scripture,
    that he must rise from the dead.

    Reflection:

    He is risen.
    Not metaphorically. Not symbolically. But in the flesh, in glory, and in truth.

    And so begins your real retreat: not the forty days you have walked, but the life you now must live.

    And now, with trembling and hope, you behold it open.

    The retreat has not ended. It has opened the door to Mystagogy.

    Mystagogy is the sacred time after baptism or renewal, when we are invited to go deeper into the mysteries we have received. It is the unfolding of what has already been given, a divine tutoring of the soul by the Spirit. For the early Church, it was the season after Easter when the newly baptized were taught the hidden meanings of the sacraments they had just received. For us, it is every day after the Resurrection where we learn, by grace, how to live what we have received.

    You are now living in Mystagogy.

    You are invited to ponder the Eucharist with new eyes.

    To read the Scriptures with burning hearts.
    To carry the Cross not as burden, but as seal.

    And above all, to pray. Not occasionally. Not only when it is quiet. But as a way of being.

    St. Paul writes:

    “Pray without ceasing.”

    — 1 Thessalonians 5:17

    This is not a suggestion. It is a spiritual necessity. Because we are not merely people who have seen the Lord—we are people in whom the Lord desires to dwell.

    And so we must become people who listen:

    Who live in the heart of the mystery.
    Who carry within them a discerning heart—a Mystagogical heart.

    This is the mystery St. John Paul II spoke of when he wrote:

    “We are not called to an abstract knowledge of Christ, but to a living, personal relationship with him: to contemplate his face, and learn to love as he loves.” (Novo Millennio Ineunte, §16)

    You have been invited into this love.

    And now, every day, you must return to the voice that called your name at the tomb. You must pray with Scripture, not to master it, but to let it master you—through Lectio Divina. You must daily turn your attention inward, examining your movements with God in the Daily Examen. You must seek silence. And in that silence, you will find Christ again and again.

    This is not spiritual ambition. This is Christian maturity.

    This is the baptized living as they are meant to live:
    as souls risen with Christ.

    Abba Macarius wrote:

    “The soul that has risen with Christ does not forget the tomb.

    She carries the marks of love and lives only to give Him away.”  (Sayings of the Desert Fathers)

    And so, beloved of God:

    Do not go back to life as it was before.
    Do not lose the silence. Do not forget the Word. Do not quiet the call.

    You are still on pilgrimage. You are still being formed. You are still being called.

    And each day—each moment of remembering Christ, turning toward Him, listening again—is conversion. Conversion is not a feeling. It is not a season.

    It is a verb, an action word. It is the continual, daily, humble act of saying: “I choose You again.” “I turn toward You again.” “I will follow You—today.”

    Let your life be a living witness of the Resurrection. Let your words be slow and your love be quick. Let your prayer be steady and your gaze be fixed.

    And when the world forgets what you have seen,

    when they ask why you are different,
    when they accuse you of being strange or out of step, remember this:

    You have come from the tomb. You have heard your name. You have seen the Lord.

    Now go. Let your discerning heart burn with the light of Easter. And live as one who carries glory in your body.

    Reflection Questions:

    1. What has risen in me that must now be protected and nurtured?

    2. How will I continue to live as one in Mystagogy—in daily formation and conversion?
    3. What concrete practices will I carry forward: silence, Examen, Lectio Divina, Eucharist, community?

    Final Prayer:

    Jesus, You are risen. And You have called us by name.

    You found us in ashes. You carried us through fire. You laid with us in silence. And now You send us in light.

    Let us never go back to who we were before. Let us never forget the road we have walked. Let us live now as those who listen in the heart of the mystery.

    Make our hearts discerning. Make our faith active. Make our prayer ceaseless. Make our lives radiant.

    You are risen. You are here. And we are Yours.

    Alleluia. Amen

    This reflection is written by Kris McGregor of Discerning Hearts®. The Scripture passage is taken from the Jerusalem Bible (1966 edition), used with permission. No unauthorized use or reproduction is permitted without prior written consent.

     

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    10 min
  • Easter Sunday – A Time of Lectio Divina for the Discerning Heart Podcast
    Easter Sunday – A Time of Lectio Divina for the Discerning Heart Podcast

    As you begin, take a deep breath and exhale slowly.  For at least the next few moments, surrender all the cares and concerns of this day to the Lord.

    Say slowly from your heart “Jesus, I Trust In You…You Take Over”

    Become aware that He is with you, looking upon you with love, wanting to be heard deep within in your heart…

    From the Holy Gospel According to St. John 20:1-9

    It was very early on the first day of the week and still dark, when Mary of Magdala came to the tomb. She saw that the stone had been moved away from the tomb and came running to Simon Peter and the other disciple, the one Jesus loved. ‘They have taken the Lord out of the tomb’ she said ‘and we don’t know where they have put him.’

    So Peter set out with the other disciple to go to the tomb. They ran together, but the other disciple, running faster than Peter, reached the tomb first; he bent down and saw the linen cloths lying on the ground, but did not go in. Simon Peter who was following now came up, went right into the tomb, saw the linen cloths on the ground, and also the cloth that had been over his head; this was not with the linen cloths but rolled up in a place by itself. Then the other disciple who had reached the tomb first also went in; he saw and he believed. Till this moment they had failed to understand the teaching of scripture, that he must rise from the dead.

    What word made this passage come alive for you?

    What did you sense the Lord saying to you?

    Once more give the Lord an opportunity to speak to you:

    It was very early on the first day of the week and still dark, when Mary of Magdala came to the tomb. She saw that the stone had been moved away from the tomb and came running to Simon Peter and the other disciple, the one Jesus loved. ‘They have taken the Lord out of the tomb’ she said ‘and we don’t know where they have put him.’

    So Peter set out with the other disciple to go to the tomb. They ran together, but the other disciple, running faster than Peter, reached the tomb first; he bent down and saw the linen cloths lying on the ground, but did not go in. Simon Peter who was following now came up, went right into the tomb, saw the linen cloths on the ground, and also the cloth that had been over his head; this was not with the linen cloths but rolled up in a place by itself. Then the other disciple who had reached the tomb first also went in; he saw and he believed. Till this moment they had failed to understand the teaching of scripture, that he must rise from the dead.

    What did your heart feel as you listened?

    What did you sense the Lord saying to you?

    Once more, through Him, with Him and in Him listen to the Word:

    It was very early on the first day of the week and still dark, when Mary of Magdala came to the tomb. She saw that the stone had been moved away from the tomb and came running to Simon Peter and the other disciple, the one Jesus loved. ‘They have taken the Lord out of the tomb’ she said ‘and we don’t know where they have put him.’

    So Peter set out with the other disciple to go to the tomb. They ran together, but the other disciple, running faster than Peter, reached the tomb first; he bent down and saw the linen cloths lying on the ground, but did not go in. Simon Peter who was following now came up, went right into the tomb, saw the linen cloths on the ground, and also the cloth that had been over his head; this was not with the linen cloths but rolled up in a place by itself. Then the other disciple who had reached the tomb first also went in; he saw and he believed. Till this moment they had failed to understand the teaching of scripture, that he must rise from the dead.

    What touched your heart in this time of prayer?

    What did your heart feel as you prayed?

    What do you hope to carry with you from this time with the Lord?

    Our Father, who art in heaven,

      hallowed be thy name.

    Thy kingdom come.

     Thy will be done on earth, as it is in heaven.

    Give us this day our daily bread,

     and forgive us our trespasses,

     as we forgive those who trespass against us,

    and lead us not into temptation,

     but deliver us from evil.

    Amen

    Excerpt from THE JERUSALEM BIBLE, copyright (c) 1966 by Darton, Longman & Todd, Ltd. and Doubleday, a division of Penguin Random House, Inc. Reprinted by Permission.

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    9 min
  • A Day of Vigil with the Blessed Virgin Mary – A Holy Saturday Reflection with Msgr. John Esseff – Discerning Hearts Podcast
    “A Day of Vigil with the Blessed Virgin Mary” – A Holy Saturday Reflection with Msgr. John Esseff

    Msgr. John Esseff and Kris McGregor discuss the significance of the Paschal mysteries, focusing on the relationship between Mary, Jesus, and believers. They emphasize that the events of Good Friday are not merely historical but continue to resonate in the lives of baptized individuals.

    Msgr. Esseff reflects on Mary’s role at the foot of the cross and her unwavering faith during Jesus’s death and burial, highlighting her as a model of hope in times of apparent failure and darkness.

    Drawing parallels between Mary’s faithfulness and the challenges believers face, Msgr. Esseff urges listeners to trust in God’s faithfulness even amidst despair or desolation; using Mother Teresa’s perceived spiritual darkness and the importance of hope in preventing despair as an example.

    Discerning Hearts Reflection Questions
    1. The Paschal Mysteries in Our Lives: Reflect on the idea that the Paschal mysteries are not just historical events but ongoing realities in the lives of baptized individuals. How does this understanding influence your perception of your own spiritual journey?
    2. Mary’s Role at the Foot of the Cross: Consider Mary’s presence at the crucifixion of Jesus. How does her unwavering faith and witness inspire you in times of trial or suffering?
    3. Mary as Mother of Hope: Reflect on Mary’s role as the Mother of Hope, particularly in moments of apparent failure or darkness. How does her example encourage you to maintain hope and trust in God’s faithfulness during challenging times?
    4. Trusting in God’s Faithfulness: In times of despair or desolation, how do you maintain trust in God’s promises, as Mary did during the darkness of Good Friday and Holy Saturday?
    5. Devotion to the Immaculate Heart: Consider the significance of devotion to the Immaculate Heart of Mary as a source of hope and triumph over darkness. How can you deepen your devotion to Mary’s immaculate heart in your spiritual life?
    6. Finding Resurrection in Darkness: Reflect on moments in your life when you have experienced darkness or apparent failure. How did you find hope and resilience in those times, trusting in the promise of resurrection and new life?
    7. Reading 2HEB 4:14-16; 5:7-9

      “Brothers and sisters:

      Since we have a great high priest who has passed through the heavens,
      Jesus, the Son of God,
      let us hold fast to our confession.
      For we do not have a high priest
      who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses,
      but one who has similarly been tested in every way,
      yet without sin.
      So let us confidently approach the throne of grace
      to receive mercy and to find grace for timely help.

      In the days when Christ was in the flesh,

      he offered prayers and supplications with loud cries and tears
      to the one who was able to save him from death,
      and he was heard because of his reverence.
      Son though he was, he learned obedience from what he suffered;
      and when he was made perfect,
      he became the source of eternal salvation for all who obey him.”

      Lectionary for Mass for Use in the Dioceses of the United States, second typical edition, Copyright © 2001, 1998, 1997, 1986, 1970 Confraternity of Christian Doctrine; Psalm refrain © 1968, 1981, 1997, International Committee on English in the Liturgy, Inc. All rights reserved.

      Msgr. John A. Esseff is a Roman Catholic priest in the Diocese of Scranton. He served as a retreat director and confessor to St. Teresa of Calcutta. He continues to offer direction and retreats for the sisters of the Missionaries of Charity. He has lived in areas around the world, serving in the Pontifical missions, a Catholic organization established by St. Pope John Paul II to bring the Good News to the world, especially to the poor. He is a founding member of the Pope Leo XIII Institute. He continues to serve as a retreat leader and director to bishops, priests, sisters, seminarians, and other religious leaders.

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      26 min
    8. SP 35 – Episode 35 – The Mystery of Holy Saturday – In Search of the Still Point with Dr. Regis Martin – Discerning Hearts Podcast

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      Episode 35 – The Mystery of Holy Saturday
      Dr. Regis Martin

      Discerning Hearts is honored to host the reflections of Dr. Regis Martin.  Filled with profound insights, wisdom, and joy, he is one of the most trustworthy guides one can have on the spiritual journey.

      For years Regis Martin, STD, has been regaling audiences about the mysteries of God and Church, most especially his students at Franciscan University of Steubenville where he teaches theology. Author of half-dozen or more books, including The Suffering of Love (Ignatius, 2006), The Last Things (Ignatius Press, 2011), Still Point (Ave Maria, 2012), The Beggar’s Banquet (Emmaus Road, 2012), Witness to Wonder (Emmaus Road, 2017) his work frequently appears in Crises and The Catholic Thing.

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    9. A Novena to the Divine Mercy – Day Two

      Second Day – “The souls of priests and religious”

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      Divine Mercy Novena – Day Two

      “Today bring to Me the Souls of Priests and Religious, and immerse them in My unfathomable mercy. It was they who gave me strength to endure My bitter Passion. Through them as through channels My mercy flows out upon mankind.”

      Most Merciful Jesus, from whom comes all that is good, increase Your grace in men and women consecrated to Your service,* that they may perform worthy works of mercy; and that all who see them may glorify the Father of Mercy who is in heaven.

      Eternal Father, turn Your merciful gaze upon the company of chosen ones in Your vineyard — upon the souls of priests and religious; and endow them with the strength of Your blessing. For the love of the Heart of Your Son in which they are enfolded, impart to them Your power and light, that they may be able to guide others in the way of salvation and with one voice sing praise to Your boundless mercy for ages without end. Amen.

      * In the original text, Saint Faustina uses the pronoun “us” since she was offering this prayer as a consecrated religious sister. The wording adapted here is intended to make the prayer suitable for universal use.

      For other days of the novena visit:  The Discerning Hearts Divine Mercy Novena Page

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      2 min
    10. Day 46: The Great Silence – Discerning Hearts Podcast
      A Lenten Spiritual Journey with Discerning Hearts: From Ashes to Glory – Discerning Hearts Podcast
      Day 46: The Great Silence

      Scripture Reading: (Jerusalem Bible)

      Luke 23:55–56, 24:1
      The women who had come with him from Galilee followed, and they saw the tomb and how his body was laid.
      Then they returned and prepared spices and ointments.
      And on the Sabbath they rested, as the Law required.
      But on the first day of the week, at the first sign of dawn, they went to the tomb…

      Reflection:

      Today is the silence that holds everything.
      It is the still point at the center of all we have walked through.

      Holy Saturday is not a space of absence.

      It is a space of fullness.
      A fullness too deep for sound.

      The tomb is sealed.

      The world is quiet.
      The Church has no liturgy, no Eucharist, no words—
      because today, Christ speaks from the depths.

      He is hidden. Descending. Gathering the lost.

      Breaking the gates of death, not in fire or thunder,
      but with the silence of love that will not abandon those who wait in darkness.

      And we, too, are called to descend.

      Into our hearts.
      Into our memory.
      Into our love.

      Today we remember everything.

      We remember how He called us.

      How He forgave us.
      How He healed us, taught us, walked with us, wept with us.
      We remember Gethsemane. The scourging. The weight of the Cross.
      We remember the last breath—and the yes that poured out from the Cross to cover the whole world.

      And we remember the forty-five days that brought us here.

      Forgiveness. Justice. Trust. Interior poverty. Spiritual clarity.
      We remember how we were invited to love when it hurt,
      to surrender when it didn’t make sense,
      to stay when we longed to flee.

      And now, the invitation is simply this:

      Remain. Rest. Love.

      Because this silence is not empty.

      It is the heart of prayer.
      The prayer that does not need words.
      The prayer that waits with Mary in darkness.
      The prayer that allows what is broken to remain broken,
      until God raises it.

      This is the deep contemplative space that so few know how to enter.

      But you—you have been led to it.

      The Catechism tells us:

      “In prayer, the Holy Spirit opens the eyes of our hearts and teaches us to see everything in the light of Christ.”

      — CCC 2711

      And on this day, the Spirit does that not through speech, but through silence.

      St. John of the Cross writes:

      “Silence is God’s first language. Everything else is a poor translation.”

      — Sayings of Light and Love, 118

      And Abba Isaac the Syrian says:

      “The highest form of prayer is to stand silently, inwardly attentive, in love before God.”

      — Ascetical Homilies, I.5

      So that is what we do now.

      We stand in love.

      In memory.
      In the in-between.
      Where death has passed—but resurrection has not yet been seen.

      This is the hour where you ask not for answers, but for presence.

      Not for resolution, but for communion.

      You are being invited into the prayer Jesus prayed in the tomb:

      The silent offering of all.
      The trust that God would raise what was placed in His hands.
      The hope that love, hidden though it is, still holds the final word.

      And so today, remember to love.

      Let that be your prayer.

      Let that be your offering.
      Let that be what rests with Him in the tomb, waiting for dawn.

      There is a line found scratched into the wall of a cellar in Cologne during the Holocaust—believed to have been written by a Jewish prisoner:

      “I believe in the sun even when I don’t see it.

      I believe in love even when I don’t feel it.
      I believe in God even when He is silent.”

      This is the posture of Holy Saturday:

      Not loud. Not triumphant.
      But reverent, watchful, and full of hope that does not depend on sight.

      It is the silence of Mary’s heart—pondering all these things.

      It is the stillness of the Church at the tomb—keeping vigil in faith.
      It is the prayer of the soul that trusts in God’s promise,
      even when everything remains hidden.

      Because silence is not empty.

      It is the stillness where heaven breathes and eternity begins to speak.
      It is where God’s deepest work unfolds—beneath words, beyond vision,
      in the furnace of the heart.

      Reflection Questions:

      1. What is Christ asking me to remember today—not just in my mind, but in my heart?
      2. Have I learned how to pray in silence? Can I let love be my only word?
      3. What must I place in the tomb with Christ tonight—trusting it will be raised?

      Closing Prayer:

      Lord Jesus,
      This is the silence I feared—
      and yet now, it feels like home.

      I bring to You every moment of this retreat.

      Every quiet “yes,”
      every small surrender,
      every prayer prayed in secret.

      You remember it all.

      You hold it now—
      even the parts I don’t understand.

      I will not rush the silence.

      I will not fill the stillness.

      I will let love remain here.

      Let my memory be prayer.

      Let my silence be trust.
      Let this quiet become union.
      I will wait.
      I will remember.
      And I will love.

      Amen.

      This reflection is written by Kris McGregor of Discerning Hearts®. The Scripture passage is taken from the Jerusalem Bible (1966 edition), used with permission. No unauthorized use or reproduction is permitted without prior written consent.

       

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    11. Holy Saturday – A Time of Lectio Divina for the Discerning Heart Podcast
      Holy Saturday – A Time of Lectio Divina for the Discerning Heart Podcast

      As you begin, take a deep breath and exhale slowly.  For at least the next few moments, surrender all the cares and concerns of this day to the Lord.

      Say slowly from your heart “Jesus, I Trust In You…You Take Over”

      Become aware that He is with you, looking upon you with love, wanting to be heard deep within in your heart…

      From the Letter to the Hebrews 4:14-16,5:7-9

      Since in Jesus, the Son of God, we have the supreme high priest who has gone through to the highest heaven, we must never let go of the faith that we have professed. For it is not as if we had a high priest who was incapable of feeling our weaknesses with us; but we have one who has been tempted in every way that we are, though he is without sin. Let us be confident, then, in approaching the throne of grace, that we shall have mercy from him and find grace when we are in need of help.

      During his life on earth, he offered up prayer and entreaty, aloud and in silent tears, to the one who had the power to save him out of death, and he submitted so humbly that his prayer was heard. Although he was Son, he learnt to obey through suffering; but having been made perfect, he became for all who obey him the source of eternal salvation.

      What word made this passage come alive for you?

      What did you sense the Lord saying to you?

      Once more give the Lord an opportunity to speak to you:

      Since in Jesus, the Son of God, we have the supreme high priest who has gone through to the highest heaven, we must never let go of the faith that we have professed. For it is not as if we had a high priest who was incapable of feeling our weaknesses with us; but we have one who has been tempted in every way that we are, though he is without sin. Let us be confident, then, in approaching the throne of grace, that we shall have mercy from him and find grace when we are in need of help.

      During his life on earth, he offered up prayer and entreaty, aloud and in silent tears, to the one who had the power to save him out of death, and he submitted so humbly that his prayer was heard. Although he was Son, he learnt to obey through suffering; but having been made perfect, he became for all who obey him the source of eternal salvation.

      What did your heart feel as you listened?

      What did you sense the Lord saying to you?

      Once more, through Him, with Him and in Him listen to the Word:

      Since in Jesus, the Son of God, we have the supreme high priest who has gone through to the highest heaven, we must never let go of the faith that we have professed. For it is not as if we had a high priest who was incapable of feeling our weaknesses with us; but we have one who has been tempted in every way that we are, though he is without sin. Let us be confident, then, in approaching the throne of grace, that we shall have mercy from him and find grace when we are in need of help.

      During his life on earth, he offered up prayer and entreaty, aloud and in silent tears, to the one who had the power to save him out of death, and he submitted so humbly that his prayer was heard. Although he was Son, he learnt to obey through suffering; but having been made perfect, he became for all who obey him the source of eternal salvation.

      What touched your heart in this time of prayer?

      What did your heart feel as you prayed?

      What do you hope to carry with you from this time with the Lord?

      Our Father, who art in heaven,

        hallowed be thy name.

      Thy kingdom come.

       Thy will be done on earth, as it is in heaven.

      Give us this day our daily bread,

       and forgive us our trespasses,

       as we forgive those who trespass against us,

      and lead us not into temptation,

       but deliver us from evil.

      Amen

      Excerpt from THE JERUSALEM BIBLE, copyright (c) 1966 by Darton, Longman & Todd, Ltd. and Doubleday, a division of Penguin Random House, Inc. Reprinted by Permission.

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    12. BW45 – Fidelity in the Ordinary – The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life with Kris McGregor – Discerning Hearts Podcasts

      The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life: Learning to Listen to God with a Discerning Heart with Kris McGregor
      Episode 45 – St. Frances of Rome- Fidelity in the Ordinary

      In this episode of The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life, Kris McGregor turns to St. Frances of Rome, a wife, mother, widow and Benedictine oblate whose holiness was formed not in withdrawal from responsibility, but in the middle of it. Frances lived amid family duties, illness, grief, service to the poor and the demands of household life. Yet prayer was not lost there. It was carried within those realities and gradually deepened through them.

      Frances shows that ordinary duties are not outside the spiritual life. They can become the very place where love of God is tested and purified. Her famous insight, that a married woman may leave God at the altar to find Him in her domestic cares, does not diminish prayer. It reveals its fruit. What begins at the altar is meant to continue in charity, patience and fidelity toward the people already entrusted to us.

      This witness fits naturally within the Benedictine way. The Holy Rule forms the heart through prayer, psalmody and the liturgical rhythm of the Church, so that even when life becomes interrupted, demanding or heavy, the soul can remain steadier within. Frances reminds us that holiness is not found only in set-apart moments. It is also found where duty and charity meet. This episode invites listeners to see that real life is not an obstacle to sanctity. It is often the very place where Christ waits to be loved faithfully.

      Citations

      St. Frances of Rome

      “A married woman must leave God at the altar to find Him in her domestic cares.”

      Matthew 25:37-40, RSV–Catholic Edition

      Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see thee hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you drink?

      And when did we see you a stranger and welcome you, or naked and clothe you? And when did we see you sick or in prison and visit you?’

      And the King will answer them, ‘Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brethren, you did it to me.’

      Discerning Hearts Reflection Questions
      1. Do I sometimes think my daily responsibilities keep me from prayer rather than offering a place to live it?
      2. Where is God asking for my attention and love in the ordinary duties right in front of me?
      3. How have interruptions, fatigue, or family responsibilities tested my fidelity?
      4. In what ways can liturgical prayer and the rhythm of the Church continue shaping my heart even in busy seasons?
      5. How is Christ inviting me to love Him more faithfully where duty and charity meet?
      6. For other episodes in this series, visit
        The Rule Of St. Benedict For Daily Life: Learning To Listen To God With A Discerning Heart
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      7. The Mystery of Good Friday with Deacon James Keating Ph.D. and Kris McGregor – Discerning Hearts Podcast


        The Mystery of Good Friday – A Special Conversation with Deacon James Keating, Ph.D., and Kris McGregor

        During this podcast, Deacon Keating will offer his insights on the mystery of this Good Friday.

        Amidst the turmoil of the COVID-19 lockdowns in 2020, this recording captured Deacon Keating’s profound insights.

        Remarkably, his words continue to resonate with timeless relevance, offering poignant guidance and wisdom that remains as crucial today as it was during those uncertain times.
        Here are a few of his comments:

        Deacon James Keating:

        “John is the one who gives us that famous line. It is finished. It is finished. What is finished? This creation, creation is finished. Everything after the crucifixion, the resurrection, everything after that is creation, a sort of groaning as Paul says, to catch up to what Jesus has already done, that perfect man, that perfection of God. And again, perfection is not as we understand it perhaps mathematically with no errors or faults, but scripturally, perfection is what Jesus said it was, be perfect as your heavenly Father is perfect. And then he contextualized that within the sense of welcoming your enemies, welcoming the other, welcoming those who are not you. And of course, that’s what Jesus was literally doing on the cross. He was welcoming those who were the enemy, who were not him, in other words, were against him, and this is what perfection is for the Christian.

        On the cross, Jesus was the perfect man because he was the man who was forgiven, welcoming of the enemy, welcoming of the one who was literally killing him, and still not calling down his angels to destroy them, but actually welcoming the one who is killing into his own heart. As scripture says, “God has the sun shine on the good and the evil”, and that’s what Jesus was doing from the cross. He was saying, “You’re still welcome in me even as you’re killing me because I am love itself.”

        And so as we meditate on Good Friday and on the crucifixion, we’re also meditating on our own dignity as Christians. We have, again, through the Holy Spirit, we have that spirit of perfection in us, the spirit of forgiveness, the spirit of welcoming those who are not ourselves. In other words, to no longer live as extensions of our egos, but to literally be hospitable to the other, even the other who would hurt us through the process of forgiveness.

        Obviously, great mysteries here that the Holy Spirit must tutor us in real life. We can always think about them and write about them and speak about them, but when it comes to living them, we really need the incredible combustible power of the Holy Spirit moving our will to actually welcome the enemy and forgive those who are hurting us. But it’s all there on the Cross. The perfect man, the forgiven man, the man who is in perfect harmony with God, all of those things Jesus is trying to gift us with as well.”

        Deacon James Keating, Ph.D., is a professor of Spiritual Theology and serves as a spiritual director at Kenrick Glennon Seminary in St. Louis, MO.

        Check out Deacon Keating’s “Discerning Heart” page

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        35 min
      8. A Good Friday Reflection with Msgr. John Esseff – Discerning Hearts Catholic Podcast
        A Good Friday Reflection with Msgr. John Esseff – Building a Kingdom of Love

        Msgr. John Esseff guides listeners through a meditation on the Passion of Jesus Christ, drawing upon The Passion of the Christ film and the Stations of the Cross to help internalize Christ’s suffering. He invites the listener to not merely recall Christ’s death as a historical event, but to see it as a present and deeply personal encounter—where one’s own experiences of false accusations, humiliation, abandonment, and physical or emotional pain can be united with Jesus on the Cross. Through the lens of suffering, he encourages the faithful to discover how their wounds, rejections, and even anger can become moments of profound communion with Christ.

        The crucifixion is the ultimate revelation of divine love and mercy, extending to every person throughout all time. Jesus’ death was not just an act of redemption but also a call for each individual to carry their own cross in union with Him. Msgr. Esseff reflects on the power of the Cross to overcome evil, the importance of spiritual companions like Mary, Simon of Cyrene, and Veronica, and the intimate way in which Christ shares in all human suffering.

        Discerning Hearts Reflection Questions
        1. How have I experienced false accusation or rejection, and how might I unite that with Christ’s own Passion?
        2. In what ways have I been invited to carry my own cross, and how have I responded to that call?
        3. Who has been a Simon of Cyrene or a Veronica in my life, helping me bear suffering with compassion?
        4. Have I ever felt abandoned by God, and how does Jesus’ cry from the Cross speak into that experience?
        5. Do I allow Christ’s suffering and love on the Cross to transform the way I view my own pain and struggles?
        6. How can I enter more deeply into the mystery of Good Friday and stay spiritually present with Jesus in the tomb?
        7. In moments of humiliation or spiritual dryness, do I turn to Mary, my spiritual mother, for comfort?
        8. How does the crucifixion reveal to me the depth of God’s mercy and love for every human person, including myself?
        9. What part of the Passion narrative resonates most deeply with my current season of life?
        10. Do I see my daily sacrifices and trials as opportunities to grow in union with Christ and participate in His redeeming love?
        11. Msgr. John A. Esseff is a Roman Catholic priest in the Diocese of Scranton.  Msgr. Esseff served a retreat director and confessor to St. Teresa of Calcutta.    He continues to offer direction and retreats for the sisters of the Missionaries of Charity around the world.  Msgr. Esseff encountered St. Padre Pio,  who would become a spiritual father to him.  He has lived in areas around the world, serving in the Pontifical missions, a Catholic organization established by Pope St. John Paul II to bring the Good News to the world, especially to the poor.   He continues to serve as a retreat leader and director to bishops, priests, sisters, seminarians, and other religious leaders around the world.

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          50 min

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