In this episode, Karen sits down with Susan Hart, a mom of four who shares her transformative journey from deriving her self-worth entirely from her children's successes to discovering her own divine identity and purpose. After nearly 20 years of living her life through her kids, Susan experienced a wake-up call when her son was rejected from his dream college. This moment led her to realize she had lost herself in motherhood and was placing unfair pressure on her children to validate her worth.
Susan opens up about her journey back to herself - how she reconnected with God, rediscovered her passions, started her own editing business, and became a coach to help other moms find their purpose beyond motherhood. Her story is a beautiful example of how we can be devoted mothers while still maintaining our individual identity and divine calling.
Key Takeaways:
- Recognize when you've lost yourself - Living vicariously through your children's achievements creates unhealthy pressure on them and robs you of your own identity
- Partner with God to rediscover your purpose - Prayer and seeking God's guidance helps you discover your unique calling beyond motherhood
- You can be both a devoted mom AND pursue your passions - Schedule time for yourself and rediscover what you used to love - it's not selfish, it's necessary
- Let your children learn through their own experiences - Allow kids to handle challenges and learn from mistakes while they're still in your home
- Take time to be still and listen - Find quiet moments to hear God's voice amidst the chaos of motherhood
Scripture Highlight:
Romans 8:16-18 - "The spirit itself bears witness with our spirit that we are the children of God, and if children then heirs, heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ..."
Resources Mentioned:The Balanced Mom Facebook Group - "Creating Purpose and Passion Beyond Motherhood"
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