The Divorce Devil Podcast

🔥 Is your toxic workplace secretly training you to survive your divorce? In this episode of the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast, David and Rachel break down the hilarious — and painfully accurate — similarities between surviving a toxic job and recovering from divorce. If you're a man over 40 rebuilding your life after divorce, this episode is your permission slip to laugh, heal, and stop picking the scab. 💪

☢️ We call it the Chernobyl Effect: a toxic workplace is a slow-building nuclear disaster, and so is a bad marriage. Eventually it implodes — and everyone finally realizes the good people who left were NEVER the problem. Sound familiar?

🎭 In this episode, we introduce the Workplace Characters — and their divorce equivalents:

👉 Denise – Doesn't do her job but has ALL the opinions about how things should be divided 🙄

👉 Gina – Knows everything about your divorce… and gets every single detail wrong 🗣️

👉 Susan – Turns every small issue into a five-alarm emotional emergency 🚨

👉 Linda – Creates the conflict, then wants to discuss YOUR tone 🎤 👉 Lucy – Shows up late to mediation with no documents… and needs a meeting about the meeting ⏰

👉 Karen – Threatens to call the attorneys, the judge, HR… possibly the United Nations 📞

👉 Tammy – "I never said that!" (Good thing you documented EVERYTHING) 📝

👉 Nancy – Beating a dead horse for six months over a $47 reimbursement 🐴

👉 Peter – "Not my problem." (Until his desk catches fire) 🔥

👉 Rachel the Boss – Shows up, documents, communicates, sets boundaries, and protects her peace 👑

💡 Key takeaways for your divorce recovery:

✅ Document EVERYTHING — email, parenting apps, voice recordings. Never rely on verbal agreements with a high-conflict ex.

✅ Never delete your chat history — it protects you when the gaslighting starts.

✅ Set boundaries with toxic people at work AND at home. "I will no longer be accommodating people who aren't willing to accommodate."

✅ Create NEW traditions after divorce — Mexican food on Christmas Eve, Thanksgiving morning breakfast with the kids, whatever heals YOUR family. 🎄🌮

✅ Communication and boundaries are the two pillars of surviving a narcissistic ex — and a toxic boss.

Whether you're dealing with a narcissistic coworker, a high-conflict co-parent, or both — this episode will remind you that you're not crazy, you're not alone, and you WILL get through it. 🙌

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💬 CALL TO ACTION: Which character is YOUR ex — Denise, Linda, Karen, or Tammy? Or better yet… which character were YOU?

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Welcome to the Divorce Devil Podcast with hosts David and Rachel! 🎙️ In this episode, we dive into the surprising similarities between divorce recovery and selling your house.  Since Rachel is in the middle of a house move/sale.  🏡 From creating an "escape plan" to staging your life for new beginnings, this conversation is packed with humor, insight, and practical advice to help you navigate the challenges of life after divorce.

💔 Key Topics We Discuss:

• How selling a house mirrors the emotional and logistical challenges of divorce.

• The importance of staging your life for a fresh start (and why a new mattress might be key! 🛏️).

• Why creating boundaries and reclaiming your space is critical for recovery.

• Tips for co-parenting while juggling major life changes.

• The value of letting go, moving forward, and embracing new traditions.

Whether you're navigating a divorce, recovering, or simply looking for a laugh, this episode offers a raw yet uplifting perspective on starting over. 🌟

💬 Tell Us Your Story!

What’s been the hardest part of your divorce recovery journey? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below! We’d love to connect and support you. 💕

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Divorce is hard enough, but throw work into the mix, and you’ve got a recipe for chaos. In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, hosts David and Rachel tackle the messy intersection of divorce recovery and holding down a job. Whether you’re the boss, the employee, or the coworker caught between, this episode is packed with raw honesty, humor, and practical advice.

🎙️ What We Talk About:

• Managing work-life balance when you’re emotionally drained.

• How to approach your boss or coworkers about your situation without oversharing.

• The difference between being a struggling employee and a struggling boss.

• Real-life stories about “Johnny on the Spot” moments at work (yes, we mean porta-potties).

• Practical tips for using resources like EAP programs and workplace support systems.

We dive into the emotional and logistical challenges of juggling your job while going through one of life’s hardest transitions. Whether you’re crying in the bathroom, canceling patients, or just trying to keep your head above water, we’ve been there.

💬 Join the Conversation:

Have you ever dealt with divorce recovery while working? Share your story in the comments below! We’d love to hear how you coped—or didn’t. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell for more episodes about navigating life after 40.

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🎙️ Welcome to the Divorce Devil Podcast! Hosted by David and Rachel, this episode takes a deep dive into a modern challenge for people navigating divorce: social media triggers. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by seeing your ex or other couples online, or you’ve been tempted to overshare during your healing process, this episode is for YOU! 💔

💡 What you’ll learn in this episode:

✅ Why social media can be both a blessing and a curse during divorce recovery.

✅ How to avoid the “social media rabbit hole” that can lead to depression or anxiety.

✅ The dangers of oversharing and how it can impact your future relationships—or even your legal case!

✅ Strategies to set healthy boundaries for yourself online.

✅ How to turn social media into a tool for growth, inspiration, and connection.

David and Rachel also share hilarious and heartfelt stories about their own experiences with social media during divorce, offering practical advice for anyone in the beginning, middle, or end stages of divorce recovery. 🛠️

🔥 Key Takeaways:

• Disconnect to reconnect: Learn why stepping away from social media can help you heal faster.

• Protect your peace: Tips for navigating social media without falling into comparison traps.

• Embrace new beginnings: How to create positive habits and routines post-divorce.

💬 Let’s talk! What’s your biggest challenge with social media during divorce recovery? Drop your thoughts in the comments below! 👇

👉 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell 🔔 for more empowering episodes. Let’s heal, grow, and thrive together! 💪

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🚂 Welcome to the Divorce Devil Podcast! 🎙️ In this episode, David, Kyle and Rachel dive deep into the metaphor of the "Divorce Recovery Train" 🚉—a raw and relatable analogy for navigating life after divorce. From deciding when to get on the train, to assessing if you're on the right track, this episode is packed with humor, vulnerability, and actionable insights for those over 40 looking to heal after divorce. ❤️‍🩹

💡 Highlights of the Episode:

• Where are you on your healing journey? Are you still shoveling coal or riding peacefully in the dining car?

• Setting Boundaries: How to pull the pin and let go of toxic baggage 🎒.

• Finding Yourself: Learning to enjoy your own company and embrace being alone.

• Healing Signals: Recognizing progress and knowing when it’s time to step off the recovery train.

Whether you're figuring out how to move forward, struggling with boundaries, or just need a laugh, this episode is for you! 🤗

💬 Join the Conversation!

Are you on the right train in your divorce recovery journey? Share your thoughts in the comments below—we’d love to hear your story and connect! 🛤️👇

Don’t forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE this video with someone who might need some healing inspiration. 💕✨

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🎧 Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast Episode 259! 💡 Are you over 40, navigating divorce recovery, or wondering how remarriage changes everything? Join David and Rachel as they dive deep into life after divorce, co-parenting, and finding love again. 💕

In this episode, we share:

• How remarriage reshapes your perspective on divorce recovery 🌟

• The challenges of co-parenting and blending families 🛠️

• Why setting boundaries is key to personal growth 💪

• The importance of self-love, healing, and moving forward 🌈

• How to embrace your “new normal” and find happiness after heartbreak ❤️‍🩹

We also talk about:

• The emotional ups and downs of healing after divorce 💔

• Real-life advice on navigating relationships, remarriage, and family dynamics 💬

• Tips for creating healthy boundaries and letting go of past pain 🛤️

✨ Divorce isn't the end—it’s the beginning of YOU. Whether you're just starting your healing journey or exploring what comes next, this episode is packed with practical tips, laughs, and heartfelt stories. 🌟

💌 We’d LOVE to hear from YOU! What’s been the biggest challenge in your divorce recovery? Share your story or ask us a question in the comments below. Let’s keep the conversation going! 👇

💖 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell for more episodes on thriving after divorce. 🚀

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In this very special episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, David and Rachel celebrate a monumental milestone—Rachel is getting remarried! 🎊 After navigating the challenges of divorce and embarking on a journey of self-healing, Rachel is finally ready to take the leap into a new marriage. But what does ultimate healing really look like, and how do we ensure we don’t bring old baggage into new relationships?

🚦 Join us as we dive into:

• The lessons learned from past relationships 🧠

• The importance of setting healthy boundaries 🌟

• Finding the balance between selflessness and self-care 💖

• What it truly means to heal before saying "I do" again 🙌

This conversation is raw, real, and full of laughter—covering everything from personal growth and emotional boundaries to, yes, even the hilarious reality of aging and adapting to new "positions" in life and love. 😂

Whether you're newly divorced, navigating the single life, or considering a second chance at marriage, this episode is packed with insights to help you on your journey.

💬 We want to hear from you! What’s the biggest lesson you’ve learned about love after divorce? Drop your thoughts in the comments below and let’s keep the conversation going! 💌

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💔 Divorce Recovery Is Hard, But You Don’t Have to Stay Stuck 💔

Welcome to Episode 257 of the Divorce Devil Podcast with hosts David and Rachel. In this raw and relatable episode, we tackle one of the toughest parts of divorce recovery: what happens when nothing seems to work? Whether you’ve been trying therapy, journaling, self-help books, or just "winging it," sometimes it all feels… pointless. But don’t worry — you’re not alone, and there is a way forward.

We dive deep into topics like:

• The emotional rollercoaster of grief and how to navigate it 🎢

• Why anger, guilt, or denial might be keeping you stuck 💭

• The importance of setting boundaries to protect your peace 🚧

• How therapy (or even switching therapists!) can help unlock your growth 🛠️

• Self-care ideas to jumpstart your healing journey ✨

Recovery isn’t a straight path — it’s messy, emotional, and sometimes downright frustrating. But millions have walked this path before, and so can you. It’s time to take small steps forward, rediscover who you are, and create a brighter future. 🌟

👉 What’s the one thing you’ve struggled with most during your divorce recovery? Let us know in the comments below! Your story could inspire someone else to keep going.

Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs it. ❤️ You’ve got this!

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🎧 Welcome to Episode 256 of the Divorce Devil Podcast!

In this deeply personal episode, hosts David and Rachel, joined by guest Kyle, dive into the raw truths about divorce recovery over 40. Divorce isn’t just an event—it’s a journey of survival, resilience, and rediscovery. 💔

We explore what comes easy and what comes hard during this life-altering process. From breaking free of past survival mechanisms to establishing new ones, the discussion touches on:

✅ How to stop drowning in negativity and start building resilience

✅ The surprising ways trauma shapes our recovery journey

✅ Why setting boundaries is essential for healing

✅ Coping with guilt, anger, and the urge to “fix” everything

✅ Learning to fill your cup and find joy after heartbreak 🌈

This episode is packed with heartfelt insights, laughs, and even a few tears as we navigate the complex emotions of divorce recovery. Whether you're just starting your journey or years into the process, you're not alone.

💬 Let us know in the comments: What’s been the hardest part of your divorce recovery? What’s been the easiest? We’d love to hear your story!

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Divorce can leave deep emotional scars, and triggers—those moments that bring back pain, anger, or frustration—can feel impossible to escape. In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, hosts David and Rachel dive into the world of post-divorce triggers. 🤯

We’ll uncover:

✅ What triggers are and why they happen after divorce

✅ How to identify YOUR triggers (and stop them from controlling you)

✅ Real-life advice for staying calm when your ex (or their new partner) sets you off

✅ Why therapy, boundaries, and communication are the ultimate tools for healing

Whether it's a random song, a parenting disagreement, or a text from your ex, triggers can drag you back into the pain of the past. But here's the good news: YOU have the power to take control of your emotional responses and grow stronger every day! 💪

Join us as we share personal stories, practical tips, and a few laughs along the way. Remember, healing is a journey, and you don’t have to do it alone. 🌱

📣 Let’s talk! What triggers you the most after divorce? How do you handle it? Drop a comment below and let us know—we’d love to hear your story! 💬 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share with anyone who needs this message. 🙌

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