The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers - Members Podcast

Jude welcomes Jonathon Aslay founder of Understanding Men Now at jonathonaslay.com and the What Would Love Do? podcast to discuss the topic of his recent podcast titled, "Men Need to Grow the F Up When Dating." 

Resources discussed:
Jonathon's website - http://www.jonathonaslay.com
Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love - John Gottman
The Power of Committment: A Guide to Active, Lifelong Love - Scott Stanley
The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com
The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp
The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/
Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/

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Jude welcomes Sebastian Harris founder of the globalseducer.com website and podcast as well as author of the Rise of The Phoenix course that gives men the freedom and confidence to let their true personality shine and become irresistible to woman. They discuss a section of each chapter of the course including:

-How to Turn Your Limiting Beliefs into Pure Gold
-Zero Rejection with the Power of Screening
-How to Use Your Hobbies to Get Hotties
-First Date Ideas 99% of Men Don't Even Think of
-Oxytocin Addiction and the Disney Love Lie

Resources discussed:
Sebastian's website - https://www.globalseducer.com/rise-of-the-phoenix/
The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com
The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp
The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/
Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/

Music credit: Akira the Don - Daredevil Theme

Jude welcomes Dr. Jennifer Baker the founder and executive director of gooddads.com and clinical psychologist with an emphasis on marriage and family to the show. They discuss the philosophy of "Yes Dear" and "Happy Wife, Happy Life" and why it is a poor way to conduct a relationship. Some tips include:

-Make it safe to connect - Learn skills that allow you to effectively communicate
-Decide, don't slide - Be intentional in your dating as well as during your relationship
-Do your part - Be present and engaged

Resources discussed during the show:
Good Dads - www.gooddads.com
Love Takes Learning course - www.lovetakeslearning.com
The Power of Committment: A Guide to Active Lifelong Love - Dr. Scott Stanley
The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com
The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp
The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/
Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/

Music credit: Akira the Don - Daredevil Theme

Jude welcomes DSO from the Dad Starting Over podcast and they discuss why it is that woman seem to constantly be testing men. A few of the tips they share are:

-woman are testing for confidence and strength
-tests aren't good or bad but it depends upon the situation
-effective ways to handle the tests

Resources discussed:

The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com
The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp
The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/
Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/

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Jude welcomes Eric Payne of the Dating After Divorce Survival Guide and Podcast to discuss the topic of the appropriate time to begin dating again during or after divorce. Some pearls of wisdom shared include: 

-Be divorced first before dating 
-Don't drag someone else into your drama 
-Wait at least a year before dating 
-Seek counseling, therapy, or coaching before embarking on dating 
-Work on forgiveness 
-Take time to heal

Resources:

The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com
The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp
The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/
Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/

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Jude is joined by Jeff Oh of the Divorced Dad podcast. Their topic is "Self Care" during and after divorce. Some tips include: 

- Taking control of and creating your environment
- Get exercise, eat right, and get enough sleep
- Make time for things that you like to do 
- Spend time with loved ones
- Make sure to talk to someone

Resources:

The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com
The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp
The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/
Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/

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Jude welcomes Stephane Jutras of the Divorced Dad Diaries and they discuss the topic of divorced dads "Starting Over." Many great tips are shared including:

-Let yourself mourn the end of your marriage
-Learn how to work through your feelings
-Like yourself again
-Rediscover things you used to like to do
-Find new things that you like to do
-Take some time to be alone

Resources:

The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com
The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp
The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/
Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/

music credit: Akira the Don - Daredevil Theme