How Do You Know If You Can Trust Your Pastor? ๐ค
For starters, remember that all pastors are sinners ๐, but God still wants there to be a church and works through imperfect people. ๐
Unfortunately, there have been pastors that have abused that trust. ๐
Here are concrete ways to evaluate trust in your pastor: ๐
1๏ธโฃ First, check if they align with Scripture ๐ and foundational teachings.
Start by attending the church โช and listening to their sermons โ do they preach what the Bible teaches? ๐โจ
For Lutherans, the Small Catechism provides a clear baseline โ if your pastor contradicts these teachings, that's a red flag ๐ฉ.
Your pastor's job isn't to define truth, but to convey God's truth. ๐กโ๏ธ
2๏ธโฃ Second, evaluate how they handle confession and forgiveness. ๐
Ask questions like: "If I confess a sin to you, will God forgive it?" ๐โจ and "Will you keep my confession confidential?" ๐ค
A trustworthy pastor understands that forgiven sins belong to Jesus and shouldn't be disclosed. โ๏ธ๐
You don't have to share everything at once; trust can develop over time. โ๐ฌ
3๏ธโฃ Third, observe their approach to helping people overcome sin. โ๏ธ
Good pastors will:
๐ค Focus on giving sins to Jesus
๐ก๏ธ Help protect both you and others from harmย
๐ซ Walk alongside you in fighting against sin ๐ช
โ๏ธ Emphasize forgiveness through Christ's death, not through your promises to do better ๐ค๐
Remember that the goal isn't to find a flawless pastor (they don't exist ๐
), but one who carries out God's work of forgiveness and spiritual care while acknowledging their own sinfulness. ๐๐
The ultimate purpose of pastors and the church is to forgive your sins โ๏ธ, to proclaim the gospel to you ๐ฃโจ, and to speak His Word to you. ๐๐ฃ๏ธ
The best indicator is whether they point you to Christ โ๏ธ rather than themselves. ๐
Contributor Amelia is a college student and HTโs assistant webmaster.
Contributor Rev. Harrison Goodman is the Higher Things Content Executive.
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