The DSTLLD Podcast

This week's episode is with Josh Shea, a man who navigated the path of addiction and emerged with direction. Josh and I discuss porn addiction and highlight societal connotations that keep this issue hidden. As a recovery coach with a decade of sobriety, Josh brings expertise to the table, sharing his journey from his arrest to writing about his struggles.

We also examine societal dynamics related to porn addiction and the influence of social media on perceptions of nudity and sexuality for the upcoming generation. We analyze the Nofap movement, a platform for those addressing the addiction, and discuss strategies that aid in mitigating use. Josh offers a perspective on how boredom and pattern affect porn use, underscoring the importance of understanding triggers and situations leading to consumption.

In our conversation's conclusion, we address statistics related to porn addiction and the urgency of open discussions about it. Josh conveys his dedication to initiating dialogues with the aim of protecting future generations from developing similar addictive patterns. Reflecting on the influence his arrest and recovery journey exerted on his life, Josh describes how he guides others towards a better path. Join our discussion as we address a topic often kept silent due to shame and secrecy.

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I had a great chat with Andrew Wilkinson, who is trying to change how we think about dating. He has a lot of experience with dating apps and loves learning how to make himself better. We talked about how dating apps can be parasitic and how they try to keep us hooked. Andrew wants to change how we use dating apps and encourages real-life activities with a funny anecdote about Salsa dancing. We discussed being a 'Nice Guy' and how lying can cause problems. We also talked about how being real and honest helps to make real friends.

I discussed something Andrew calls the 'darkest timeline you.' This idea makes us think about the worst future we could have. We can use this idea to help us make better choices and avoid bad ones. We also discussed how doing things with friends and using online platforms can help us make deeper friendships. Lastly, we talked about how tracking progress can help us get better and how coaches can help us. Get ready for a talk full of surprising dating tips and unique ideas about self-improvement.

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Today I explore the impact of social media on the younger generation with Danny Desatnik. We'll discuss its risks and benefits, questioning the effectiveness of shielding youth from online influences. The concept of emotional connection and its role in managing the rise of social media.

We also explore the traction of the creator economy as a major industry. The importance of mentorship, authenticity and character in building a strong social media following will be highlighted, along with a debate on the influence of brand partnerships and the necessity of a long-term vision to navigate the algorithms of various platforms.

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Picture a world where school isn't just about getting ready for a job, but also helps you grow as a person. That's what we talk about in our exciting chat with Malcolm Collins. We discuss how education right now needs big changes.

We cover lots of important topics, like how well job training programs are working in small towns and the cool opportunities with new tech like virtual reality in the classroom. We also look at the influence of teachers' unions and how some of their goals might actually hurt education. Our talk then moves on to an innovative idea: a game-like system that encourages kids to enjoy learning from a young age. We explore how artificial intelligence could change tutoring and how peer pressure can motivate students.

As we wrap up our conversation, we dig into the complicated issues of education politics and money. We consider how changing the way we raise kids and plan cities could make education better. We talk about the idea of creating communities focused on schools that you can easily walk to. Throughout this engaging talk, we emphasize the importance of standing up for what you believe in and having tough discussions. Join us as we imagine an education system that really helps each student grow in all ways.

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Ever questioned the realities of your 9-5 job and contemplated the creative freedom of freelancing? Francis Jun, an experienced photographer, videographer and close friend joins me to shed light on the complexities of the freelancing world, sharing his insightful journey through the lens of wedding photography. He unveils the importance of understanding your work's value and building relationships with potential clients. He also discusses the challenges of market saturation, setting boundaries, and even understanding taxes – aspects many overlook when considering freelancing.

Delving deeper into the discussion, Francis shares his thoughts on the impact of social media on creativity and stresses the significance of creating content for self-gratification rather than likes and algorithms.

We also reflect on the world of sports storytelling, emphasizing its importance in fostering connections and open conversations. We explore the potential toxicity of creative communities, and how to navigate through it. Wrapping up the talk, Francis reminds us of the power of sharing opinions without fear of judgment, triggering a thoughtful conversation about society's evolving comfort with open discussions. Join me for this insightful episode as we navigate the intricate world of freelancing and storytelling with Francis Jun.

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In this episode I sit down with 15 time Rank 1 mage Josh 'Xaryu' Lujan to discuss how he's making gaming a healthier place. Everything from gratitude to life balance, getting started and taking baby steps towards a healthier lifestyle.

Xaryu talks about the advantage of thinking in decades instead of days and how to fall in love with your passion and purpose. Learn about how to do your dailies of "Get outside, Move, Hydrate, Eat, Sleep and Connect."

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My chat with Jacob Wolf - a leading voice in esports & gaming journalism - takes us on an incredible journey enriched by powerful mentors, the unpredictable world of esports, and the enduring influence of Jacob's grandmother. From his early work in the music industry to his crucial role at ESPN, Jacob's career path is testament to his adaptability in an ever-evolving landscape.

Our conversation ventures into the intricate world of esports and gaming, shedding light on the industry's seismic shift driven by venture capital funding, rising gaming influencers, and the pandemic's transformative impact. Delving deeper, Jacob shares his insights on the challenges of social media monetization, the dramatic decline of legacy media, and the intriguing journey of content distribution that mirrors the primitive days of the internet. His candid reflections reveal the commercial challenges defining an industry in constant flux.

As we move into weightier subjects, Jacob thoughtfully navigates the intricate challenges of mental health in gaming, the pervasive influence of role models, and the complex, often harmful practices within the gaming industry. Jacob's wisdom and industry insights, coupled with his personal stories, make for a riveting conversation that will leave you with plenty to think about.

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Could you imagine maintaining a close-knit group of friends for an annual camping trip spanning over years? Entrepreneur Coltin does just that, and he’s here to share his insights, not only about friendship in the digital era, but also on the power of travel and photography in cultivating gratitude. Through Coltin's experiences, you'll discover that these seemingly disconnected aspects of life hold valuable lessons for every entrepreneur navigating today's fast-paced world.

How did a high school side hustle evolve into a thriving business? Join us as Coltin takes us through his entrepreneurial journey, from selling t-shirts in his parents' basement to owning an award-winning custom clothing company. His story reflects the importance of taking risks early on and the value of a strong support system. You'll discover how Coltin's travels have not only broadened his horizons but also honed his soft skills and how these have been critical in his business growth.

In the final part of our conversation, listen in as Coltin shares the lessons he's gathered along his journey. Understand the importance of making measured investments, navigating the complexities of a growing business, and preparing for potential downturns. Discover the role of standard operating procedures in business success and how betting on the East Coast has worked out for Coltin. His unique insights and experiences are sure to inspire and enlighten every listener, whether you're an aspiring entrepreneur or a seasoned one seeking fresh perspectives.

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What happens when you combine a passion for running, traveling, and connecting with others? You'll find out from our incredible guest, Gabe, an extroverted athlete who shares his journey of transforming running from a hobby to an intense training experience. Gabe discusses how meeting new people through traveling and creating friendships has impacted his life.

In this episode, we explore the unique community of Midnight Runners, which unites the runner's high, music, and socialization to fight urban loneliness. Gabe shares his experiences building this global community and maintaining its culture during the pandemic. Additionally, he talks about his adventures traveling and living in different cities, including Berlin, and the importance of grounding his roots in one place for a while.

Join us as Gabe reflects on his eye-opening journey to Tajikistan, where he discovered similarities in the human condition and received a warm welcome from the local people. He also shares valuable lessons learned from his move to Berlin, such as surrounding oneself with the right people and putting in the work to achieve anything.

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Join me for a conversation with Evan Walters, Commissioner of the World Knife Throwing League and Director of Operations for the World Axe Throwing League. Evan shares his journey from part-time axe thrower to spearheading these fantastic leagues.

Uncover the power of community-building and lasting adult friendships forged through hobbies like axe and knife throwing. Learn how to create welcoming environments for newcomers and the benefits of participating in local leagues to find meaningful connections. Plus, Evan's perspective on the double-edged sword of viral fame on social media - the highs, the lows, and everything in between.

We explore the importance of creativity in unconventional jobs, the role of restrictions in fostering artistic expression, and the balancing act between passions, hobbies, and life responsibilities. We also discuss the impact of male role models in fraternities and the inspiring legacy of Mr. Rogers. Don't miss this thrilling conversation with Evan Walters and immerse yourself in the captivating world of competitive throwing!

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