Josh, Jo and an intermittent guest, Michelle, explore the possible motivations of men when they see and approach women at a bar. What are they really looking for? Because Josh is slightly deeper than the average, he actually delivers the opposite when a woman looks like she's simply looking for validation! Also, an Esther Perel moment about giving your partner your leftover energy at the end of the day. Bottom line, it's a recipe headed for a breakup!