It’s extremely important to know what you value. It’s also important to know how much you value them. One way to do this is to make a list of them and than apply them to a particular life circumstance that you may not be fully aware of how and why you are valuing what you are valuing in the situation. Than once you become more aware of them, you can do something about how much you value these things that you perhaps didn’t see the opportunity to value. (Ex: Relationships, Life Mission, Career, Cultural Refinement/skills cultivation, Family, etc.) Maybe your in the best place you’ve ever been in a relationship because you’ve never experienced it quite like this before. Maybe you’re doing better in the relationship than you thought, up to this point.

Remember how far you’ve come. This is living in the now moment but also analyzing the pattern of events of progression and the likely path into the future that it implies.

Alanis, Summer, Christina and Norah all begin training their minds to become better at dreaming in this almost lucid way. But it’s not lucid because the dreams that they are dreaming are actually happening, but in environments that don’t seem to have a logical explanation.

Alanis discovers herself on a whole new and unfamiliar life Trajectory. How did it change?

This episode is about the first couple pages of my thriller, sci fi story “Trajectory.” It’s about a 37 year old women who accidentally goes back in time to when she was much younger (1998) and changes the trajectory of her life without noticing. With the help of her friends, they go on a long journey of events to change it back to how it was before.

Visualizing the end result as if it’s already done is an immensely motivating concept to use to get more of what you want and less of what you don’t. And Counting your little accomplishments along the way to it.

Go a way of relaxing into things. Going with them. A cooperation of what seems to be happening right now.

Notice the little changes as they come and use them as opportunities to learn to adapt to the continuous changing process of life. The list of necessary tasks that you need to get done will look a lot smaller and often even enjoyable.

If you feed the right addiction the others will become so weak that they will eventually begin to strengthen you when you see the opportunity to not take part in them. Get addicted to something that feels good to do through most of the process of it, like at the beginning of (right before you do it) and at the end, (when it’s done.)

Try it and see each one. One at a time. Which one do you usually do? Strengthen that one so that the other follow more strongly.