Welcome to The Esme Graff Podcast! In this episode, we dive into Chapter 5 of my book Friendships: Cultivating Twelve Qualities to Become More Like Jesus, focusing on leadership. Whether you're a single mom, divorced single mom, a married mom, or anywhere in between, this episode is for you! 

Join me as I explore the idea that leadership isn't about your job title—it’s about how you lead in your everyday life, starting with your home and family.

As a divorced single mom, I understand the challenges of balancing leadership at home and work. I'll talk about biblical figures like Deborah, whose confidence, courage, and leadership made a difference not just in her life but in those she led. I’ll share practical insights on how to be the best leader in your family, especially for single moms navigating life post-divorce.

Today,  I share personal experiences, advice for thriving as a leader, and tips for cultivating godly character that will transform your home and community. Whether you're leading a family or stepping into new roles, learn how to lead with faith, confidence, and wisdom.

Be sure to like, follow, and review! For more content and resources, including my book Friendships, visit my website at www.esmegraff.com.

Moms, let's embrace our calling as leaders in our families and communities!

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Welcome to a new episode of The Esme Graff Podcast. This week, I'm diving into Chapter 4 of my book Friendships: Cultivating Twelve Qualities to Become More Like Jesus. We’re focusing on trustworthiness and the importance of trust in building strong, lasting friendships. 

Trust is the foundation of every meaningful friendship. I discuss betrayal and divorce and how trust has transformed my life and friendships. You'll hear stories of real, honest relationships, like Mary and Elizabeth, and how faithfulness can lead to deeper connections without fear of judgment.

Whether you’ve been hurt, feel guarded, or want to build genuine, lasting friendships, this episode will show you how to move forward, trust again, and create Christ-centered relationships that uplift and heal.

Hit play now to learn how to cultivate trust and find the friendships you deserve!

You can get a signed copy of my new book Friendships by going to my website, but you can also order from Amazon, Barnes & Noble. 

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Welcome Friends!
"Join me on this episode of The Esme Graff Podcast as I sit down with special guest Becky Culpepper, retired Pastor and Life and Mental Health Coach, to explore the power of forgiveness and the beauty of reconciliation.

Becky shares her heartfelt story of healing a broken friendship with her high school bestie and offers practical tips for resolving conflict with friends and even navigating the challenges after divorce.

If you're seeking guidance on conflict resolution, restoring relationships, or finding emotional peace after a breakup, this episode is filled with actionable advice and uplifting inspiration. Tune in for strategies to bring healing into your relationships, whether you're a single mom, leader, or anyone looking to grow emotionally and spiritually."

Our friends at Courageous Life Coaching are only a phone call away, ready to serve you!
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Welcome friends! In this episode of The Esme Graff Podcast, I dive into Chapter 3 of my book Friendships: Cultivating Twelve Qualities to Become More Like Jesus. This chapter focuses on the courage it takes to face conflict in friendships, family, and beyond. I reflect on how avoiding confrontation or fearing conflict can hold us back from true growth, while addressing conflict head-on fosters deeper, more authentic relationships.

We explore forgiveness and reconciliation, using the story of Jesus and Peter to highlight the power of restoration in friendship. By understanding the role courage plays in navigating hurt and disappointment, we can move toward healthier, more resilient relationships that reflect Christ’s love.

Join me as I share how fear can limit our potential and how choosing courage can lead to healing and redemption. Grab a copy of my book and the accompanying journal, and take this journey with me to become a better version of yourself!

Tune in, share your thoughts, and let’s grow together!

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Welcome to the Podcast—your go-to destination for transformative conversations on relationships, personal growth, and living life intentionally. 

If you're new here or missed our first two episodes, I highly recommend going back to listen. Trust me, this is the kind of wisdom that can transform how you approach friendships in your life. 

Today, we’re summarizing chapters 1 and 2 of my new book with a special guest: My dear friend Meredith Freeman. 

Meredith is not just a guest; she’s a living example of the very principles we’re discussing. We'll explore the qualities that make strong, authentic friendships and mentorships. 

We'll dig into the dynamics of transparency and the power of sacrificial love—two cornerstones that I believe are essential in any meaningful relationship.

Whether you’re navigating the complexities of new relationships, struggling to maintain old ones, or just curious about how to be a better friend, this episode is for you!!

If you’re in your 20s, 40s, or anywhere in between and looking to deepen your connections, you'll find actionable insights here. We’ll tackle everything from overcoming isolation in today’s tech-driven world to the art of balancing life, love, and work—especially when life feels like a juggling act.

Don’t forget to connect with me on social media (here) or visit my website at esmegraff.com.

And if you love what you hear, be sure to subscribe, share, and leave a review to help others discover The Esme Graff Podcast.

Let’s dive in!

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In this second episode of a new series, we delve deep into Chapter Two of my book, Friendships: Cultivating Twelve Qualities to Become More Like Jesus. Today, we're exploring the profound concept of sacrificial love and its role in building meaningful, Christ-centered friendships.

Sacrificial love goes beyond the superficial—it’s about putting the needs of others above our own, just as Jesus did. But can we find such friendships in places where we spend most of our time, like our workplace? Should we even have friends at work? 

Drawing inspiration from the biblical story of Esther, we’ll examine how her sacrificial love and courage influenced an entire nation. Esther’s willingness to risk everything for her people is a powerful reminder of what it means to love sacrificially. How can we apply these lessons to our own lives? Can we inspire our friends to pray, seek God, and live out our purpose? This episode challenges you to consider your impact on those around you.

Despite many challenges, research shows that having friends at work can significantly increase happiness and productivity. However, navigating these relationships requires wisdom and discernment to avoid toxic dynamics. 

This episode is perfect for anyone seeking to deepen their friendships, grow spiritually, and understand the transformative power of sacrificial love. Whether navigating friendships at work, at home, or within your community, this conversation will equip you with the tools to build stronger, more fulfilling relationships that reflect the love of Christ.

So, grab your copy of Friendships here and join me each week as we explore the qualities that can transform your life!

Scripture: Esther 4:15-16

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Welcome to the first episode of the Friendships Series, where we will dive into the relationships that truly shape and transform us. From our relationship with God to our connections with friends, each plays a critical role in building our character.

Today, we're focusing on chapter one of my new book Friendships: Cultivating Twelve Qualities to Become More Like Jesus.

Friendships are more than casual interactions; they profoundly impact our decisions, behaviors, and even our identity. Have you ever made a choice based on a friend's advice or behavior? Our friends’ influence can be a powerful force, leading us to life or death.

True friendships don’t just happen; they require intentional effort. This means being present, showing up as your authentic self, and being open to vulnerability.

There are two common reasons why forming friendships can be difficult:

1.   Avoiding Effort

2.   Fear of Vulnerability

Compassion goes beyond just feeling sorry for someone; it involves a desire to help them overcome their challenges. It’s about taking action to support others, just as Jesus showed compassion throughout His ministry.

Mentorship is another critical aspect of personal growth. A good mentor guides, supports, and challenges us to be better without expecting anything in return. They create a safe space for growth and encourage us to reach our fullest potential. A mentor should never feel like a burden but rather a source of inspiration and support.

Take some time to reflect on your current friendships and mentorships. Are they contributing positively to your life? Are you being the kind of friend or mentor that fosters growth and compassion? 

For more insights, grab a copy of my book, "Friendships," available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and my website www.esmegraff.com. If you order through my website, you'll receive a signed copy with a special message!

Stay connected with me on social media or use the Q&A section on Spotify to share your thoughts on this episode. I’d love to hear from you!

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Welcome! 

Join Esme as she shares practical advice on staying connected with God and your church community during summer downtime. This episode is especially helpful for single moms looking to prioritize what matters most when traditional vacations aren’t an option.

Discover essential tips for nurturing your faith and staying engaged with your community even when taking a break from work this summer. 

Don’t miss out on this uplifting discussion that offers valuable insights for enhancing your summer with spiritual growth and community support!

Scripture: Psalms 19:1-4

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Welcome to today's episode, where I explore the profound lessons from the season of motherhood through a spiritual lens. 

Join me as we delve into three key insights that have helped me grow in faith and have more appreciation for my journey with God.

Firstly, understanding that God created me uniquely and purposefully. Secondly, discovering that God's love for me is boundless and personal. And finally, embracing the truth that God loves each of His children unconditionally and equally. 

Stay tuned as we unpack these invaluable lessons together.
Scripture: John 3:16, Ecclesiastes 3:1

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In this episode, Esme discusses the heart of this podcast: empowering divorced single moms to walk in this season, knowing that this is not the end and there is a future brighter than the sun ahead. But I also want to encourage women, in general, to live out their faith & calling regardless of the season they are in.

Kenya Gantenbein drops in to discuss ways to confidently do what God has called you to without worrying about what people say. Dive in with us as we talk about life, kids, and Kenya’s new Christian single, “Running Home,” which will be released on May 19, 2024.  

Scripture: 1 Corinthians12:6

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