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  • Authentic Leadership: Aligning Your Behaviors with Your Values with Gina Gardiner

    In this episode of The Eternal Optimist, Gina Gardiner shares her journey of resilience, determination, and leadership. She emphasizes the importance of taking radical responsibility for our lives, becoming the leader of our own story, and aligning our behaviors with our personal values. Her journey is a testament to the power of resilience and the importance of never giving up on our dreams. By following these principles, we can create a living legacy that inspires others and makes a positive impact on the world.

    In This Episode, You'll Learn:

    • 00:00:00 - Introduction and request for ratings and reviews on Apple and Spotify
    • 00:03:02 - Jena shares insights on writing and achieving excellence in life
    • 00:07:11 - From being a teacher to becoming a deputy principal, Jena talks about her journey to success
    • 00:10:41 - Jena's skiing accident and the process of her recovery
    • 00:16:45 - Life after a failed back surgery and Jena's professional success
    • 00:18:53 - Visiting lecturing and the retainer model for small companies
    • 00:21:18 - The importance of integrity in leadership
    • 00:24:12 - Creating a living legacy by leading your own life
    • 00:26:24 - Aligning behaviors with personal values for success
    • 00:30:03 - Defining company values and behaviors for a successful work environment
    • 00:32:31 - Rewarding excellence: A system of monitoring and motivating hotel staff
    • 00:34:36 - Sustainable success through radical responsibility
    • 00:40:43 - The importance of quick wins and feedback in improving experience
    • 00:43:12 - Jena discusses the lack of consistency in workplace values and behaviors
    • 00:48:53 - Reducing problems now to save yourself heartache later
    • 00:53:36 - Inspiration from Erin Brockovich
    • 00:58:07 - Call to support Ukrainian orphans with disabilities through crowdfunding

    Links And Resources:

    • Website
    • Gina Gardiner on YouTube
    • Gina Gardiner on LinkedIn

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    1 hr
  • Teaching Kids about Money and Business with Lila Wohlwend

    On "The Eternal Optimist" podcast, Lila Wohlwend shares her wisdom on raising young authors and investors, teaching children about business and money, and inspiring stories of young entrepreneurs. Lila discusses the importance of finding a mentor, investing in what you know, and encouraging children to pursue their passions at a young age. The episode also touches on the importance of spreading positivity and inspiring stories of young entrepreneurs who are doing amazing things. Lila emphasizes the need for continuous learning and marketing oneself in a new arena. Lastly, she stresses the importance of integrating work and life for a better overall experience, which is explored in-depth in her book "The Family Success Triangle." This episode provides a wealth of valuable insights and inspiration for anyone seeking success and happiness in their personal and professional lives.

    In This Episode, You'll Learn:

    • 00:02:04 - Unlock success by finding a valuable mentor
    • 00:05:46 - Invest wisely: put your money where your knowledge is
    • 00:09:21 - Encourage your kids to pursue their passions for a fulfilling future
    • 00:12:32 - Make learning fun for your kids to unlock their full potential
    • 00:17:10 - Conquer fears by taking action and pushing forward
    • 00:20:34 - Inspire the next generation by introducing them to investing at a young age
    • 00:23:27 - Hear inspiring stories of young entrepreneurs to spark your own creativity
    • 00:26:58 - Empower your kids by teaching them about money and business
    • 00:28:34 - Create a financial literacy curriculum for your home or school
    • 00:33:36 - Achieve a better work-life balance for a fulfilling experience
    • 00:35:25 - Embrace the love of learning and integrate it into your life
    • 00:39:12 - Share positive stories to inspire others
    • 00:40:35 - Breaking gender barriers in real estate
    • 00:42:55 - Connect with Lila and the Wohlwend family on Clear Sky Trainer's website

    Links And Resources:

    • Lila Wohlwend on LinkedIn
    • Family Success Triangle
    • Business Leader Interviews!
    • Clear Sky Training

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    45 min
  • Prioritizing for Confidence: Achieving Your Goals through Discipline with Ted Phaeton

    On this episode of The Eternal Optimist, host Matt Drinkhahn interviews meteorologist and entrepreneur, Ted Phaeton, about his journey of self-discovery and empowerment. Ted shares his love for science and meteorology, his struggles to graduate on time, and his experience breaking into a new career. He also talks about his entrepreneurial failure and the lessons he learned from ending a business partnership. Ted emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility for mental and gut health, and shares stories of unexpected blessings and the importance of checking in on men's mental health. The episode ends with a fun discussion about ice cream preferences and the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy," and Ted shares his tips for exuding confidence through priorities and discipline.

    In This Episode, You'll Learn:

    • 00:00:00 - Welcoming Ted Phaeton to The Eternal Optimist
    • 00:05:22 - Overcoming an obstacle to graduate on time
    • 00:06:58 - Sharing struggles to graduate on time
    • 00:10:18 - Struggling to break into a new career
    • 00:12:09 - Experience with entrepreneurial failure and weathering it
    • 00:14:24 - Lessons learned from ending a business partnership
    • 00:18:16 - Emphasizing the value of work and family as an adult
    • 00:22:41 - Taking responsibility for mental and gut health
    • 00:26:29 - Sharing a story of unexpected blessings
    • 00:27:50 - Speaking up for men's mental health
    • 00:32:32 - Emphasizing the importance of community in men's pursuit of potential
    • 00:35:38 - Information about Ted's podcast and men's mastermind group
    • 00:37:07 - Ted's entertaining and positive Instagram channel
    • 00:40:56 - Importance of leading by example
    • 00:42:38 - Transforming from a people pleaser to a selfish selfless man
    • 00:44:04 - Tips for exuding confidence through priorities and discipline
    • 00:46:44 - Hilarious pinpoint weather forecast
    • 00:49:01 - Books that influenced Ted: "The Alchemist" and "Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself"

    Links And Resources:

    • The Modern Man Show
    • Instagram
    • Twitter
    • TikTok
    • YouTube
    • No More Mr. Nice Guy
    • The Alchemist by Paul Coelho
    • Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself

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    52 min
  • Embracing Life After a Heart Attack: A Story of Hope and Inspiration with Dex Randall

    In this episode of The Eternal Optimist, host Matt Drinkhahn interviews Dex Randall, a coach specializing in overcoming burnout and finding purpose. Dex shares his inspiring journey of overcoming a heart attack and immobility to thriving in career and personal life. He emphasizes the importance of having something to look forward to in difficult times and connecting with others who have gone through similar experiences. Dex also discusses the mental toll of job stress and pressure, and how compartmentalizing and reintegrating can break the cycle of burnout. His story highlights the power of eternal optimism and how transforming adversity can lead to a fulfilling life.

    In This Episode, You'll Learn:

    • 00:00:00 - Embracing Life After a Heart Attack: A Story of Hope and Inspiration
    • 00:03:40 - The challenges of success
    • 00:06:52 - Surviving a heart attack on the beach
    • 00:09:10 - The experience in the operating theater
    • 00:11:17 - Recovering from a heart attack: a six-month journey
    • 00:13:23 - Devastating injuries and their consequences on mobility
    • 00:17:09 - The importance of having something to look forward to in difficult times
    • 00:18:43 - Rehabilitation after months of being bedridden
    • 00:20:46 - Finding purpose in pain: transforming life's misfortunes into opportunities for growth
    • 00:25:26 - Overcoming burnout: a coach's journey
    • 00:27:12 - Heart-centered leadership: reconnecting with purpose and humanity
    • 00:32:20 - Work and financial struggles amid tighter compliance and Covid-19 pandemic
    • 00:35:12 - Restoring passion and connection: what recovering from burnout can look like
    • 00:38:00 - The cycle of burnout: compartmentalizing and reintegrating for success
    • 00:39:20 - Free video course that can help address the symptoms of burnout
    • 00:41:12 - Importance of eternal optimism for life's journey

    Links And Resources:

    • The Life Shift Podcast
    • Man's Search for Meaning
    • Burnout Coach
    • Dex Randall on LinkedIn

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    47 min
  • Surviving a Parent's Worst Nightmare with David Asbury

    In this powerful episode of Eternal Optimist, David Asbury shares his inspiring journey of healing and hope after the tragic loss of his son to suicide. He speaks about the incredible support he received from loved ones and the founding of the Samuel L Asbury Foundation for suicide prevention and awareness. David also reflects on his personal growth as a leader through his favorite question, "How is this helping you to be a better leader?" and how it has fueled his passion for giving back to the community. Listeners will gain valuable insights into mental health awareness, gender differences in relationships, and the importance of resilience and faith during difficult times. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking inspiration and hope.

    In This Episode, You'll Learn:

    • 00:00:00 Finding Strength In Tough Times: Interview With David Asbury
    • 00:01:18 - David Asbury's story of enduring the tragic loss of his son, Sam
    • 00:03:32 - Overcoming the tragic loss of a child
    • 00:04:38 - Remembering Sam: a tribute to a great athlete and young man
    • 00:06:38 - Sam's success in moving from university to Northwestern Mutual internship
    • 00:07:43 - The perfectionism of Sam: a strength and weakness
    • 00:09:10 - Sam Asbury: a life of athleticism and success
    • 00:11:06 - A heartbreaking message from a troubled young man
    • 00:14:19 - The inspiring care and devotion of friends during a difficult time
    • 00:16:42 - Finding purpose and honor in tragedy
    • 00:18:05 - Honoring a loved one by living life in a way that makes them proud
    • 00:20:34 - Sam's success in the Dogwood Invitation and a heartwarming story of friendship
    • 00:25:33 - Importance of acknowledging struggles and creating hope for mental health awareness
    • 00:26:49 - Supporting youth sports and mental health: two organizations close to our hearts
    • 00:30:55 - Self-reflection and humility in performance evaluation
    • 00:35:31 - Exploring gender differences in relationship depth
    • 00:37:20 - Reflections on work and life after honoring a loved one
    • 00:40:11 - Senior principal balances multiple ventures and family responsibilities
    • 00:40:18 - Work is not everything: a realization and a book recommendation
    • 00:42:07 - The importance of resilience in tough times

    Links And Resources:

    • David Asbury on LinkedIn
    • Grace Asbury - The Greatest Angel

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    45 min
  • Love, Music, and Leadership with Steve Farber

    Join Matt Drinkhahn on the Eternal Optimist podcast as he interviews Steve Farber, who shares his journey from buying and selling his first Gurian guitar to becoming a successful business leader. Steve emphasizes the importance of diversity in business and how it can lead to better decision-making and customer service. He shares his philosophy of eternal optimism, which means having a positive lens over everything and believing that everything will be fine. Steve also talks about his book, The Radical Leap, which emphasizes the importance of love as a competitive advantage in business. He even treats listeners to a song on his guitar. He discusses his work as a consultant and trainer in leadership development, helping companies put love into practice in measurable ways. This episode encourages listeners to consider how they can incorporate love into their business practices for positive change.

    In This Episode, You'll Learn:

    • 00:00:00 - Positive Impact: Inspiring Stories and High Performance Coaching with Matt Drinkhahn
    • 00:05:22 - Moving for Family: Challenge and Adventure
    • 00:10:01 - Coping with Trauma and Finding Support after Growing Up Without a Mother
    • 00:14:15 - Overcoming Challenges and Finding Purpose
    • 00:17:24 - Music as a Creative Expression: A Journey of Integration
    • 00:22:18 - Unplanned Path to Leadership and Success
    • 00:27:09 - Putting Love First in Business: The Radical Leap
    • 00:32:16 - New Management Takes Over Bankrupt Company
    • 00:34:03 - Shipping Company's Policy: Barges Must Be at Least 75% Full to Sail
    • 00:37:07 - Expertise in Love: Bringing Out the Human Dynamic in All Industries
    • 00:38:37 - Validation and Power of Optimism in Discussion
    • 00:43:34 - Embracing Diversity in Business for Success
    • 00:46:50 - Reunited with Long-Lost Guitar After 30 Years
    • 00:51:05 - Dramatic Story of Ashes and Phoenixes
    • 00:54:41 - Daily Audio on Extreme Leadership: Two Minutes of Inspiration

    Links And Resources:

    • The Radical Leap
    • Website
    • Steve Farber on LinkedIn

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    57 min
  • Transforming Education with Data-Driven Celebrations with Lyle Lee Jenkins, Ph.D.

    In this episode of The Eternal Optimist podcast, host Matt Drink invites Dr. Lyle Lee Jenkins to discuss the current state of the education system and ways to make learning more enjoyable for students. Dr. Jenkins shares his expertise on the importance of tracking data, celebrating progress, and implementing new systems on a mass scale. He also shares personal stories about his own experiences with education and how they have influenced his approach to teaching and learning. This engaging and informative episode offers valuable insights for parents, educators, and anyone interested in improving the education system.

    In This Episode, You'll Learn:

    • 00:00:00 Teaching and Leadership: Challenges and Inspiration Explored
    • 00:01:58 Reviving Love for Learning: Visual Records to Track Progress
    • 00:06:03 From Friend's Help to Published Author: Lyle Lee Jenkins on Homeschooling
    • 00:09:05 High School Education: Declining Enthusiasm for Learning
    • 00:12:36 Education as Competition: Military School to Fancy Baltimore
    • 00:13:42 Negative Effects of Quiz Begging on Student Motivation
    • 00:16:49 Celebrating Achievements, Not Bribing: The Power of Thank You
    • 00:18:50 Parents' Pride and Gratitude for Children's Actions in Education
    • 00:21:38 Clickers to Improve Language Teaching: Tracking Irritations
    • 00:26:37 Empowering Students: Changing Dynamics in Education
    • 00:27:14 Teaching for Long-term Memory: Simple Approach for High School Students
    • 00:31:42 Random Hug and Progress in Education System
    • 00:34:01 Flawed Education System: Pressure from Congress to Improve Test Scores
    • 00:36:46 Striving for Perfection in Education and Business
    • 00:40:37 Monitoring Engagement in Children's Activities: The Importance

    Links And Resources:

    • Lyle Lee Jenkins on LinkedIn
    • Lyle Lee Jenkins on Twitter
    • LtoJ on YouTube
    • LTOJ Website

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    45 min
  • Unlocking the Power of Perseverance and Optimism with Leo Popik

    Join host Matt Drinkhahn on the latest episode of Eternal Optimist as he speaks with Leo Popik, CEO and entrepreneur, about his inspiring journey through the ups and downs of business and life. Leo opens up about the challenges he faced while starting his business, including obtaining a work visa and navigating the impact of COVID-19 on his company. Throughout the discussion, Leo emphasizes the importance of connection and collaboration with like-minded individuals who share his core values of trust, accountability, growth mindset, meaningful relationships, and servant leadership. Matt praises Leo's unbreakable spirit and optimistic outlook, calling him the perfect embodiment of the show's mission to make a positive difference in the world. The conversation also delves into Leading Peers, an entrepreneur community dedicated to sharing ideas and information for mutual growth. Leo highlights the opportunity for visitors to attend peer board meetings and see if they're a good fit for the community. Tune in to this empowering episode to gain insights on resilience and hope in challenging times.

    In This Episode, You'll Learn:

    • 00:00:00 - Leo's Journey to Redemption: Overcoming Adversity with Perseverance and Optimism
    • 00:02:54 - A Meeting of Minds: Two Energies Collide in an Inspiring Conversation
    • 00:06:54 - Leadership Lessons: Bringing Your A-Game and Core Values to Achieve Success
    • 00:09:18 - Loss and Growth: How Losing Childhood Memories and Relationships Can Lead to Personal Development
    • 00:11:55 - The Struggle to Fit In: A Local Creative's Journey Through Argentina's Society and Politics
    • 00:15:04 - Green Card Delay Puts Company's Future in Jeopardy: Leo's Battle Against Disconnection
    • 00:17:59 - Weathering the Storm: Overcoming Green Card Delays, Loss, and Covid-19 Challenges
    • 00:22:53 - Navigating Business Losses During a Pandemic: Leo's Coping Strategies and Lessons Learned
    • 00:26:10 - Quick Decision-Making: How Leo Started His Business Against All Odds
    • 00:29:50 - Leading Peers: A Community of Entrepreneurs Empowering Each Other Through Collaboration
    • 00:32:15 - Joining a Peer Advisory Board with Leading Peers: Discovering Growth Opportunities Through Shared Knowledge
    • 00:36:43 - How to Join a Peer Board with Leading Peers: Tips and Tricks for Entrepreneurs
    • 00:38:36 - The Importance of Legacy in Business: Leaving a Positive Impact That Lasts
    • 00:42:36 - Eternal Optimism: Leo's Belief in Purpose, Humility, and Curiosity
    • 00:44:49 - Eye of the Tiger: The Inspiring Song That Saved a Relationship

    Links And Resources:

    • Leading Peers
    • Leo Popik on LinkedIn
    • Lee Popik on Twitter

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    51 min
  • Embracing Pain and Gratitude in Business with Eric Sardina

    In this episode of the Eternal Optimist podcast, host Matt Drinkhahn welcomes guest Eric Sardina to share his story of resilience and grit. Eric spent most of his career in sales and marketing, priding himself on his work ethic and achieving at a high level. However, he found that his corporate career was full of successes that ultimately ended in disappointment. He would earn a sale but not get credit or payment for it, leading to feelings of betrayal and shock. This pattern repeated throughout his career, leading him to realize that he was destined for something more. Through introspection and working with a coach, Eric discovered that his place on this planet was to pour into others and offer the experiences and lessons he learned over the years. He found true happiness investing in humans rather than chasing money or titles.

    In This Episode, You'll Learn:

    • 00:00:00 Resilience and Positivity: Building Strength to Overcome Challenges
    • 00:03:17 Interview with Eric Sardina: Discovering Happiness and Peace through Perseverance
    • 00:05:04 Adapting to Change: A Workout Routine Disrupted by an Ice Storm
    • 00:06:56 Watching Magnum P.I and Embracing Early Mornings
    • 00:12:35 Investing in Others: The Importance of Supporting Those Around You
    • 00:15:19 The Busy Group: Prioritizing Work over Sales
    • 00:18:33 Company Seeks Staffing Help Despite Previous Claims of Being Full
    • 00:20:52 Rivalry over a Massive Tax Project at the Firm
    • 00:22:43 Fighting for Fair Payment: Scrutiny over Excessive Fees
    • 00:24:40 Determined to Stand Up for What's Right
    • 00:30:19 The Power of Control for Entrepreneurs
    • 00:32:18 The Reality of Entrepreneurship: The Illusion of Safety in the Corporate World
    • 00:35:50 Maximizing Time: Investing in Relationships and Personal Passions
    • 00:41:24 Eric Sardinas' Social Media Presence: Staying Connected
    • 00:43:56 Thunderstruck by AC/DC: The Energizing Power of Music

    Links And Resources:

    • TP Faith
    • Website
    • Eric Sardina on LinkedIn

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    49 min
  • Micro Practices For A Happier Life With Ashish Kothari

    Ashish Kothari shares his personal journey to find happiness in this episode of The Eternal Optimist. He discusses the importance of micro practices, such as focusing on what we can control and showing up in the world with a positive attitude. Ashish offers practical advice on mindfulness, including techniques like thinking about plants and how they grow, which can help us identify what we need to thrive. Listeners can learn more about these topics on the Happiness Squad website.

    In This Episode, You'll Learn:

    • 00:00:00 Qualifications Of A Happiness Democratizer: A Story Of Success And Unhappiness
    • 00:01:45 Discovering Happiness: A Journey Of Micro Practices
    • 00:06:07 A Father's Sacrifice For His Son's Time
    • 00:10:28 Micro Practices For Happier Habits
    • 00:16:58 The Importance Of Self-awareness In Finding Purpose And Direction In Life.
    • 00:20:12 The Illusion Of Success And Happiness In Marriage And Career
    • 00:23:03 Finding The Magic In Every Moment
    • 00:24:54 Understanding Animal Thoughts And Feelings: Going Beyond Words
    • 00:27:38 Nine Practices That Changed My Life: Boosting Energy And Controlling Cholesterol With Ontological Coaching
    • 00:30:50 The Power Of Small Interactions And Creating Positive Change.
    • 00:33:26 Overprotecting Children: The Unintended Consequences Of Creating A Cocoon Of Darkness
    • 00:36:23 Transforming Frustration And Anger Into Compassion: A Thought Experiment With A Potted Flower
    • 00:39:09 Taking Control Of Our Own Experience: Mindfulness And Compassion
    • 00:42:09 Online Community To Start Charging $1 A Day From March: Join The Conversation!

    Links And Resources:

    • Ashish Kothari on LinkedIn
    • Happiness Squad
    • Hardwired for Happiness

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    45 min

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The ‘Eternal Optimist’ is the show for people who see the good in the world and want to make a positive difference in the lives of their families and communities! Twice a week Matt Drinkhahn will…