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Welcome to episode 4 of the Everyday Life Balance Show. Today’s show is on personal development and in particular, I’m going to share with you 7 things that stop you from moving forward and walking 100% in your greatness.
This podcast is for the people out there who suffer in silence because they shy away from expressing their greatness and the very best that is in them.
As you go through the list you might identify a few things you could consider re-addressing in order to be happy, fulfilled and 100% true to yourself.
As I share this information with you my intention is to help you grow in awareness so that you live your life from your highest level of awareness, true values and aspirations.
The first thing that stops people from walking 100% in their greatness is a lack of confidence
Your critical voice is telling you “Who do you think you are to be the full expression of your greatness?”; “You are not good enough”; “everything is fine as it is”; “It is too scary to step up”; “You are not talented”; “Others will laugh at you.” Etc.
My answer to these limiting beliefs is: who are you not to be the full expression of your greatness? You are doing us a disservice by shying away from your magnificence and greatness. Honor your Self and your unique divine gifts by honoring us with your presence as a being who is whole and authentic.
Then there is a Lack of flexibility
You want everything to be perfect. You think you need to know it all and you are not ready because you do not know enough.
My question to you is when will you be ready? When is a good time to get started but Now to take your life to the next level? If you make mistakes it doesn’t matter, it is part of the journey towards a more meaningful and fulfilling life. What matters is that you take action.
The 3rd point is a Lack of clarity
You’re 100% clear about what you want. You know that there’s a yearning inside of you to be more and play a bigger game however you cannot quite qualify it clearly.
Follow this path, this is your heart and soul talking to you and helping you pursue the path of your highest ideal where you will only experience joy. Stay connected to this feeling of wanting to express your potential more fully and take action so that you become clearer and clearer. Clarity will create order in your mind.
The 4th point is a Lack of focus
You may have many ideas in your head but too many incompletes. For example, if you’re a writer you have lots of book ideas; you’ve started writing more than one book at the same time however none has been completed.
I went to see a Giacometti exhibition recently and I admired how this artist was committed to excellence. He spent hours and hours working on his craft, focusing on one piece at a time.
In order to be the full expression of your greatness I recommend you bring this new awareness into your consciousness that is to complete the incompletes in your life. This will give you greater ease and clarity and help you release any tension you might be holding on to because of the various things you have not completed.
No. 5 is a lack of assertiveness
Because you are not clear about how you’re going to make your ultimate dream come true this creates a lack of assertiveness and affects your confidence to move towards your dream.
If you fear failure, or what I call ‘falling forward’ this is just a false expectation you create in your mind.
Let me explain why it is a false expectation? You believe that you will fail yet you have not even tried to take the first steps to living a more fulfilling and meaningful life.
There isn’t such a thing as failure but feedback from which you can learn and improve. There are numerous people who were told at school they would account to nothing, their future was bleak and that they would fail in life because they were not academically inclined. However, today they are very successful in their own right and standing tall.
Don’t let the fear of failure hold you back. No one but you can decide to be the full expression of your full potential.
No. 6 is a Lack of faith
You might be thinking that others will laugh at you, judge you or criticize you because you want to step up and you have a bigger vision for your life, which is in alignment with your heart and soul’s desire. Your circle might change because they will see you differently or you might see yourself differently as a more confident, happy you shining your true light.
Have faith that the path to greatness is the true path to follow. It would not be a dream if you could not realize it.
My question to you is: what price are you willing to pay? misery on the one hand if you do not fulfil your ultimate dream or greater joy if you do? The choice is yours.
And no. 7 the last point I want to make is a Lack of direction
You don’t take steps because you don’t know what direction to take. It’s o.k to show vulnerability by asking for help so that you get access to the resources that you need to move forward.
Share your dream with people who will support you on your journey and their only wish for you is to see you happy. Get access to a coach or mentor who can assist you on your journey and help you see things you cannot see for yourself as well as help you remove any roadblock which may be standing in your way.
So to recap the 7 things that stop people from walking 100% in their greatness are:
- Lack of confidence
- Lack of flexibility
- Lack of clarity
- Lack of focus
- Lack of assertiveness
- Lack of faith
- Lack of direction
If you want to be true to the very best that is in you, now is your time to strengthen your beliefs. I will be holding a masterclass soon to help you do just that so please download the free workbook on creating lasting change for greater results at the end of this podcast so that you get notified of the masterclass or you get access to the replay if you cannot attend live.
I hope that you enjoyed this podcast. I’m going to live you with a quote, which summarizes today’s content very well:
“What we all want is to be able to live out the truest, highest expression of ourselves as a human being” –Oprah Wimfrey
As always remember YES! you can dream it, create it, live it!
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