Happy New Year! Finally, 2021 is here! [Deep exhale.] With the hope that this year will be much better than last year, now is the perfect time to take a look at who you are and who you want to be. This is the perfect conversation to set your new year heading in the right direction. A deep and poignant conversation between Dr. John and Eric Yusko on the future direction of men for greater success and happiness.

Topics include…

The need for men to work on truly accepting compliments into their heart.

What is your gift as a man to do great things and how can compliments help you identify them?

Why do men build walls to keep others out (As in Pink Floyd's The Wall)? To what extent is The Wall a good metaphor for masculinity?

How does empathy factor into achieving greater success?

What happens when you mistake your strengths for weaknesses?


Eric Yusko Bio


Eric Yusko founded Man of Class, Man of Class Podcast and is the exceptional life strategist for men who know there’s a lot more to life than just the everyday grind. He believes that there’s a better way for men to not only live a life of the daily grind, but a life that is worthy of being defined as exceptional.

Website: www.manofclass.com
Free eBook: www.manofclass.com/handbook

Social Media handle: @ericyusko

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.yusko.9
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ericyusko/

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Dr. John discusses the best mindsets for success in business with best-selling author and business coach, Dan LeFave.

Topics discussed include…

The best mindsets for entrepreneurs.

Best ways to implement new mindsets.

Other tools to manage the mind including Dan’s free gift, his productivity planner.

The best ways to scale a business.

Bio
Dan LeFave received life’s second chance when he survived a severe car accident that took three lives. He’s struggled through brain injuries, business failures, heartbreaks, running marathons and daily fights with fear and doubt.
 
He is the #1 Best-selling Author of Living the Life of Your Dreams - How To Stop Working Insane Hours And Start Living An Awesome Life.
 
Dan is the “No Excuse” 7-Figure High-Performance Business Coach; he helps business owners shift from being overwhelmed & disorganized to in control & systematized in just a few short weeks.

Social Media links
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lefavecoaching
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dan.lefave/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/danlefave/ 

Giveaway
https://www.3monthyearacademy.com/productivity-planner

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When he was a young man, Kon was drafted into the special forces in the Air Force in his native Greece. He also loved performing arts and dance. Impressively, he did both simultaneously. This part of Kon’s story really interested me in terms of how he balanced the masculine with the feminine.

How did Kon balance military, antiterrorism work (i.e., more stereotypically masculine) during the day with dance tights (i.e., more stereotypically feminine) at night?

What strengths did Kon pull out of this unique set of experiences? Toughness? Emotional IQ? Communication? A thick skin? Adaptability?

One of the hallmarks of mental health is flexibility of thought. How did Kon’s early experiences fuel his cognitive flexibility?

The top tools to navigate a crisis (which we are all in due to COVID).

What are some of the most needed attributes for effective titans of trade, or leaders in business?

What is your best piece of advice for other men who may be less far along in their journey?

About Kon
Konstantinos Apostolopoulos is the Founder & CEO of Fresh Biz Solutions, a Human Capital Management consulting group that provides performance improvement and training solutions to help organizations develop their people, improve business results, and reap the benefits of a comprehensive Talent Management strategy. He is also the coauthor of the timely book, “7 Keys to Navigating a Crisis: A Practical Guide for Emotionally Dealing with Pandemics & Other Disasters,” and a regular contributor to Thrive Global and Achievers Engagement Blog.
For More Info About Kon:
Web: freshbizsolutions.com
Email: [email protected]

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Watching Band of Brothers inspired Cameron Harman to volunteer for the U.S. Army. He wound up in the Afghanistan war. This is his story.

How does one go from solider to PTSD to spiritual student?

Is it necessary to be a mean, out-of-control asshole to be respected as a leader in the military?

What motivates people better — fear or love?

To what extent is fear a necessary motivator in battle?

To what extent is physical strength needed to be masculine? Is it so important that steroids are a viable option?

What does PTSD look like/sound like/feel like?

The impact of insults on our masculinity and how easily manipulated we are by them (e.g., Cam wanted to get a brain scan for his traumatic brain injury due to an IED. His C.O.’s response, “Ok bitch boy, you go have the crazy doctors check you out!”).

What sort of psychological damage do we inflict on others when our masculinity and mental health are out of whack?

The big idea that depression in men comes out as irritability or alexithymia (i.e., the inability to name what you are feeling).

Cameron Harman, veteran of the U.S army and Afghanistan war. After service over seas he suffered from PTSD. He tried therapy and counseling both in the military and out. When he hit rock bottom, he began to study Buddhism and spirituality. He deeply connected to the texts and teachings. By practicing meditation and changing his perceptions, he healed my PTSD. His healing changed the way he sees the world. Hermit_Radio (podcast) was a way to give back to the world by sharing his knowledge. He now lives life with two principles: love everyone and tell the truth.

Website: Hermitcast.com
Podcast: https://anchor.fm/hermitradio
IG: hermit_radio
Twitter: hermit_radio

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Anger, frustration, resentment, irritability — all of these are nearly inevitable during the shelter-in-place stress of COVID. But what do we DO about them? How do we turn down the volume on these destructive emotions as well as the relationship-killing behaviors that they fuel? Relationships die via the death of a 1000 paper cuts. These paper cuts consist of small (to large) acts that create anger, resentment, and annoyance — things like being ignored, showing up late, insults, criticisms, stonewalling, abuse, thoughtlessness and more. If you want to be successful, if you want to be happy, there is no more important question than how to turn down the frequency and intensity of anger.

Join Dr. John and author and speaker, Thomas E. Ziemann, in a powerful and practical discussion around managing irritability.  Tom is the author of “Taming the Anger Dragon: From PISSED OFF to Peaceful” as well as "Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams: How to Manifest It from Fantasy to Reality",  “The Department of Zenitation: A Laymen’s Guide to Making Spirituality Work in Real Life.” Tom delivers engaging, uplifting lectures on Relationships, Life Purpose, Meditation, and Anger Management.  He is the proud father of two brilliant daughters, married to his best friend, and is a lover of cats.  He lives near Portland, Oregon. Tom’s books are available on amazon.com. Find out more about Tom at https://tomziemann.com.

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I used to hate salespeople – always trying to push some product on me they didn’t believe in and that I didn’t need. Now, in my maturity (wink, wink), I realize the importance of sales – the fact that in some undeniable way, all of life is sales. That is, nearly every conversation we have is an attempt to persuade one another. Whether it’s about what to have for dinner, or what car to buy. Begrudgingly, I have accepted the need for sales and persuasion. After all, one part of psychology is researching the most powerful hacks to persuade others, and how to defend yourself from them. So I was very excited to have Jason Cutter join me to discuss the finer points of sales.

Jason Cutter is the CEO of Cutter Consulting Group, author of Selling With Authentic Persuasion: Transform from Order Taker to Quota Breaker, and host of The Sales Experience Podcast. He sees himself as a Sales Success Architect for companies and individuals, providing coaching, training, and consulting for companies around the world who want to dramatically improve their selling effectiveness.

What makes him unique is that he didn’t have an upbringing focused on sales, such that his bachelor’s degree is in Marine Biology. Despite this, and not getting his first real sales job until he was 27, he figured out how to be successful in sales and has made it his mission to shift salespeople away from the classically taught manipulation tactics and inspire and train them to achieve sales success by becoming Authentic Persuaders.

Jason’s Links:
Main Hub/Link: www.jasoncutter.com
CCG Website: https://www.cutterconsultinggroup.com/
Authentic Persuasion: https://authenticpersuasion.com/
The Sales Experience Podcast: https://wavve.link/tsep
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jascut/
Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/authenticpersuasion/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUispT6lFirB6zLADpvQ8HQ
Persuading Like A Professional: https://authenticpersuasion.thinkific.com/courses/persuading-like-a-professional
Pre/Order the Book: https://www.authenticpersuasion.com/pre-order-selling-with-authentic-persuasion/

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Join Dr. John for a revealing conversation with a brilliant, young therapist, Eli Weinstein. What’s it like to work in a psych unit? How do you stay calm when the shit hits the fan? What is radical self - care and why is it more needed now than ever before? What are some ideas for how to engage in radical self - care? How well do movie representations of therapists accurately depict true therapy (e.g., Lucifer, Good Will Hunting)? What's the difference between traditional therapy and coaching? How does a therapist deal with having a suicidal client? What do we truly control as therapists? As humans? How do you learn to manage your emotions as a therapist? How do you “careless? ”And why does it matter? The importance of having perspective and gratitude based on your clients. What man box lessons do you learn growing up as a (moderate) Orthodox Jew in NYC? Eli is a Social Work therapist who has worked in a psych hospital, intense outpatient clinic and currently works in a community clinic in queens. He created ELIvation to fill a need to help those in struggling times and add extra inspiration and motivation into everyday life. Eli has been featured on Kelly Clarkson show, IVF Warrior, Fruit ful, Breaking Taboo and on multiple podcasts ranging from parenting, relationships, mental health and infertility. His main goal is to help people on their journey to add support, care, empathy, expertise, and insight. His podcast which targets men is The Dude Therapist.

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How to go from a leader with no followers to a leader of tens of thousands?

How do John Gottman’s 4 Horsemen of the Apocalypse (which predict divorce) also apply to business relationships?

How does the Man Box culture train men to be experts in these 4 Horsemen - critical, contemptuous, defensive stonewallers?

How do you pick yourself up and move forward after a heart-breaking divorce?

How do you take the best ideas in marriage or parenting and apply them to work relationships?

What do women say most often in an unhappy marriage? (Hint: They are the same things that disengaged, unhappy employees say about their boss!)

How do we become a great leader in our family as well as at work?

About Our Evolved Caveman Guest:

Krister Ungerböck is a leadership communication expert, keynote speaker, and former CEO of a global tech company. He has been featured in NPR, Forbes, Inc., HR.com, Chief Executive, Recruiter.com and Entrepreneur for his practical, unconventional communication insights on compassionate leadership, emotional intelligence and employee engagement.Prior to exiting corporate life at age 42, Krister was CEO of one of the largest family-owned software companies in the world. While leading the company to over 3,000% growth, his team won five consecutive Top Workplace Awards, achieved remarkable employee engagement levels of 99.3%, and became a dominant player in its market niche. His book 22 TALK SHIFTs: TOOLS TO TRANSFORM LEADERSHIP in Business, in Partnership and in Life helps people become better bosses by shifting their words.


Find out more about Krister:

Web: www.krister.com

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Jon Rennie is a former Cold War nuclear submarine officer turned CEO. He led eight manufacturing businesses in Corporate America for 22 years before starting his own manufacturing business in 2016. He writes and speaks on leadership issues and hosts the Deep Leadership podcast. His latest book, "I Have the Watch: Becoming a Leader Worth Following" is an Amazon best-seller.

Questions answered:
What are your best stories from your tours on a nuclear submarine?
How do you define leadership?
What were some experiences you had where you learned what it means to be a leader?
How do you teach people to lead more effectively?

You can find more information at:
JonSRennie.com
IHavetheWatch.com
DeepLeadershipPodcast.com
Twitter @jonsrennie


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A valuable conversation with Jay Scherr on what we need for greater success AND happiness, including topics of ...

What motivates us to radical change and transformation?
The need for men to check their egos for greater success and happiness
The path to happiness for men - Internal validation (vs. external validation)
Being aware of the misery caused by social comparisons
At what age do we stop learning?
Jay’s formula for success:
MPH GAS - Mindset, Purpose, Habits, Goals, Action = Success
The crucial need for intimate knowledge of your core values


About Jay Scherr

Jay Scherr, owner of J. Scott Consulting Services, has loved all things business since he can remember. After attending Virginia Commonwealth University, Scherr spent over 30 years working with corporations and entrepreneurs. When the time was right, Scherr jumped at the opportunity to apply his extensive knowledge and experience to help other business owners achieve their goals and objectives.

As a business improvement consultant and coach, Scherr focuses on areas where he can help make the greatest impact on his clients’ business. “I help entrepreneurs, small and mid-size business owners optimize performance and get their business fit by creating a framework and providing the tools that strengthen the foundational components of their business while creating clarity, focus, accountability, discipline, scalability, and predictable results,” he said. “This enables my clients to close the gap between where they are and where they want to go.”

Looking ahead, Scherr is focused on continuing to grow his business by helping the right clients create the business of their dreams. What advice does Scherr have for aspiring entrepreneurs? “Do something that you love and that gives you purpose,” he said. “Do your homework, define your target market and provide a solution that solves a real problem for that market. Fulfill a need, don’t create one. Start building your network early – as Harvey Mackay says, ‘dig your well before you’re thirsty.’ Surround yourself with amazing people who share your values and get your vision. Have a written strategic plan, set realistic and stretch goals, have metrics in place to measure progress, and execute! Be in proximity to those you can serve with your product or service. Lastly, engage with mentors who have relevant experience and can provide guidance.”

Check out Jay at:

Web: jscottconsultingservices.com
FB: facebook.com/jscottconsulting
Twitter: twitter.com/jay_scherr
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jay-scherr-b27b0a22

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