The Executor Help Podcast

Why do strong people feel alone?

In this episode, David talks about something many people don't say out loud. What it feels like to always be the one others rely on.

The one who listens.

The one who handles things.

The one who doesn't fall apart.

Over time, that strength can create distance. Not because people don't care—but because they assume you're fine.

David shares a calm reflection on what happens when strength becomes something you carry alone, and why connection still matters.

A simple reminder that being strong doesn't mean doing everything by yourself.

For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

What really matters at the end of life?

In this episode, David speaks with Robert Christopher Coppes, author of Impressions of Near-Death Experiences.

Robert has spent many years studying the stories of people who came very close to death and returned.

Many say the experience changed how they see life.

They often lose their fear of death. They feel a deep sense of love and connection with others.

Many also describe something called a life review, where they see how their actions affected other people.

David and Robert talk about what these stories might teach us about how we live today.

One message comes up again and again.

The small things matter.

A kind word.

A smile.

A moment of care.

Those moments can ripple much further than we realize.

For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

In this solo episode of the Executor Help Podcast, David reflects on a belief many people quietly carry — that living well is something you earn later, after life becomes more organized, less stressful, and more under control.

Drawing on decades of working with families, David talks about how the pressure to "get everything right" can slowly drain the joy out of ordinary moments.

Many people believe they should have life figured out by now, and when it still feels messy, they assume they're falling short.

This episode explores why living well doesn't require a perfect life. Instead, it comes from staying connected to what matters — even when life is unfinished, imperfect, and unpredictable.

For anyone who feels they're waiting for the right moment to finally enjoy life a little more, this conversation offers a thoughtful perspective.

For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Most adults struggle to talk to children about death.

In this episode, David speaks with death doula Sandra Spicer about how stories and books can gently help children understand loss, ask questions, and feel less alone.

If there's a child in your life facing grief — or if you simply want to be better prepared — this conversation offers a calm place to begin.

Sometimes a story can say what we don't know how to say.

For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

There's a conversation most families know they need to have — about aging, health, responsibility, and what happens when life changes.

But we delay it. We tell ourselves there's still time.

In this episode, David shares what he's seen when families wait too long — not because they don't care, but because no one knew how to begin.

This isn't about fear.

It's about starting gently — before a crisis forces the conversation.

If you've been thinking, "We should probably talk about this…"

This episode is for you.

For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Have you ever wondered if your aging parent's behavior is more than just forgetfulness?

In this episode, David has a conversation with author Nicole Smith.

Listen in as she pulls back the curtain on the realities of dementia, sharing her personal experience with family chaos, screaming matches, and the conversation that could have changed everything.

If you're navigating elder care or worried about the future, you'll find honest insight and practical guidance here.

For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Ever felt weirdly guilty for having a good time when life is heavy or things at home are stressful?

In this episode, David gets honest about why joy isn't something you should feel bad about or push off until things get easier.

He shares real stories and gentle reminders that laughter and happiness are what keep us going—even when we're juggling responsibilities or dealing with big life changes.

If you need permission to enjoy the good moments, you seriously don't want to miss this one.

For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Grief can leave us frozen, overwhelmed by decisions we never wanted to make alone.

In this episode, David sits down with funeral pre-planner Deborah Pagliuca, who reveals the realities families face and offers compassionate, practical advice on how to ease their burden by planning ahead.

For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Many people don't choose to become "the responsible one."

It just happens — slowly, quietly — until they're the one everyone depends on.

In this episode, David speaks to the invisible weight so many people carry in their families and their lives.

The organizing. The calming. The holding it all together.

The part no one sees — the tiredness, the quiet strain, the feeling of being strong for too long.

This is a gentle, reflective conversation about:

• why we keep carrying more than we should
• how that weight shows up in our bodies and relationships
• and what changes when we finally name it

This episode isn't about fixing anything.

It's about noticing what you've been holding — and giving yourself permission to be human inside it.

For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Who says your best years aren't still ahead of you?

On this episode, David and guest Jeff Singal who is a men's midlife compass (ikigai) coach. Jeff opens up about what finally helped him find joy, meaning again, even after a ton of setbacks.

There's real talk about friendships, tiny steps toward a fresh start, and even a new song to get you motivated.

If you want some inspiration (and a reminder you're not alone), this episode's for you.

For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com