The FatCat Show

Meeting someone new you always wanna put your best foot forward you know making a good first impression. First impressions are everything to most people and you don't get a second chance to make up. Some people are more forgiving if you mess up the first time, maybe because they know people are not perfect. Well first impression are real serious when it comes to relationships because it involves trust. Does the person you're dating only get one chance to make a good first impression.

People love when other's give them compliments. Compliments can make a person feel real good. brighten a person's whole day. Compliments are suppose to be innocent and true. Often compliments can be mistaken as flirting. Knowing this fact should you give anyone or everyone a compliment? What if you were married or in a relationship should you give anyone a compliment of the opposite sex? If you were out with your mate is it wrong to give some one of the opposite sex a compliment in front of them?

Before I became a married man, I was a young handsome single gentleman. Dating was never a problem but finding the right woman was. Dating and asking someone out was fun simple and easy, then came sexual harassment and you were limited to where you could ask someone out at mainly the work place. Still that didn't stop me I found my wife in the work place but all people aren't that luck. Now the bar has been risen and it gave birth to the mee too movement. Does that movement really kill the ideal of work place dating?

I always thought that love should be special for everyone. The very thought of being able to find a person you love and can share your life forever. Surpisely their are many who would prefer to remain single due to the fear of commitment. What are those fears that would allow people to knock something so beautiful? Let's look into those fears today on the Fatcat Show.

Taking a look at Kobe's life career and impact beyond basketball. What does it mean to those who didn't know him personally or don't know what it mean's to walk in the shoes of an icon. What can we all learn from his life and reactions to his untimely death? R.i.p Mamba and the 8 others who lost their lives in this tragedy. Praying for all the family's who are dealing with loss now may God bless and keep you

You know the most wonderful thing you can tell a person is I love you. I can remember the first time a girl said it to me and how it made me feel. At the same time saying I love you can be dangerous, especiall if you say it to someone and don't mean it. The dangerous side of I love you.

For years blacks have received the short end of the stick, history in America hasn't been kind to African Americans. Slavery, Lynchings, kkk even government played a part in our tragic history. It seems when ever blacks experience a bit of success it's always met with oposition from outside parties. We realize as much as we may want to deny it this will never change. What about when it happens within our race when one of us achieves success? Blaqck people are we too critical of each other?

How do you know that the person your with loves or likes you? How do you read the signs if it's someone you wanna date? We'll be discussing this on the Fatcat show?

We have the black lives matter movement, what about black love? How can we build more strong black relationship? Why are things so hard for black men and women in relationships? What is the break down in black relationships? are black men and women forcing each other to date outside their race?

One of the greatest joys about love is the bedroom activities yes sir SEX. A dirty word for some pleasure for others. Beside having kids why is sex so important in a relationship? I'm pretty sure many people will have different answers. what if sex was not consistent enough in your relationship? What if your mate is purposely withholding sex from you? Should this every happen in a relationship? Does withholding sex from your mate give them a license to cheat?